Hearts Reach Hearts: Gospel Great Yolanda Adams

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“I think your first everything means something,” Yolanda Adams says of winning her first Grammy Award in 1999. “Because most of the awards that I get are peer awarded
 to win it because people feel a connection with what you do and what you’re called to do is phenomenal.”
“I think your first everything means something,” Yolanda Adams says of winning her first Grammy Award in 1999. “Because most of the awards that I get are peer awarded
 to win it because people feel a connection with what you do and what you’re called to do is phenomenal.”

There’s a touch of the past that peeks through five-time Grammy Award winning Yolanda Adams’ voice, posture and passion when she’s on stage. Best known as the contemporary gospel artist who merged the genre with R&B and jazz, she’s a picture of her father’s love for B.B. King, Miles Davis and Charlie Pride. Adam’s says being the oldest of six siblings and losing her father as a young teenager instilled in her leadership and advocacy for children. In February she will advocate for children here in Alabama, performing as a part of “Believe! A Night of Hope” benefitting Children’s of Alabama. “The medium of music is one of the best forms of reaching hearts,” she explains, “Hearts reach hearts, and that’s why we do what we do.”

Also the winner of three BET Awards for Best Gospel Artist and four Gospel Music Association Dove Awards, Adams grew up in Houston, Texas, in a home grounded by strong family relationships, music and faith. “Faith in Christ was the basis of our family, period. There was no trying to find Him. No, he was in the house,” she recalls. “We were brought up in a house full of love and a house full of faith, a house full of prayer.” Her mother, prolific in piano and orchestration, was the minister of music at their church. Her father was a deacon and sang in the choir. He also coached athletics, so the house ran according to seasons–football, baseball, track and field. By age eight, Adams was joining him at the driving range once or twice a week. She also played tennis, and because her height made clothes shopping a nuisance, she learned how to make patterns and sew.

Adams was 13 years old when her father died as the result of a car accident. She suddenly found herself in a position of great responsibility. He had been her “best bud,” she recalls, and had taught her how to balance a checkbook, how to resolve conflict, how to get the younger kids to and from extracurriculars. One of 12 siblings himself, he had fostered a closeness among extended family in the Houston area. “We could have been the poster kids for loving unconditionally family,” says Adams about the importance placed on looking out for your siblings, gathering with extended family and communicating with each other. “My dad always said that you never fight in house. There should not be a squabble in house that does not get squashed by love.”

In 2018, Yolanda Adams won a Tony Award for Best Original Score Written for Theatre for her work on SpongeBob SquarePants: The Musical.
In 2018, Yolanda Adams won a Tony Award for Best Original Score Written for Theatre for her work on SpongeBob SquarePants: The Musical.

In her father’s passing, Adams’ foundation of faith and family stood firm. “It was a blow to the whole family, and by the grace of God and faith that we have in God, we didn’t just manage the situation. We didn’t just cope with it. We thrived through it because in order to face what you are facing, you have to understand that there’s another side to this; there’s another reason why this happened. I often say I don’t know if I would be the leader that I am right now had I not been thrust into that position.” Adams attended the University of Houston and later Texas Southern University, where she studied radio and television communications. A singer since she was a toddler, she also joined the Southeast Inspirational Choir. In 1986, her featured vocals with the choir were noticed by American producer Thomas Whitfield, and she signed a recording contract with Sound of Gospel Records the following year. In 1999, Mountain High
 Valley Low propelled Adams from urban gospel to mainstream, featuring collaborations with artists and producers who had previously worked alongside Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson, Brandy, and Bebe & CeCe Winans. Mountain High
 Valley Low won a Grammy Award for Best Contemporary Soul Gospel Album and went two-times Platinum

Both educators, Adams says memories of her parents’ advocacy for children has fueled her philanthropy work. Representing the inspirational community with FILA’s Operation Rebound, Adams has joined NBA players like Grant Hill and Ray Allen in visiting schools in underserved communities in Baltimore, Chicago, Detroit, Milwaukee, and Washington, D.C. to talk about the importance of setting goals. President Barack Obama presented her with the Achievement Award for National Community Service for her involvement with charities like the Children’s Defense Fund, and her Houston-based Voice of an Angel Foundation She has also worked with the U.S. Department of Health and Human Resources to help children in low-income neighborhoods receive immunizations. Despite the accolades, Adams insists that raising her daughter, Taylor (17), has been her greatest opportunity. It has also prompted Adams to pass on the importance of faith, family and philanthropy that her parents passed on to her. “There’s a different type of nurturing for a kid who comes into the world who can pretty much have everything,” she says of parenting alongside ex-husband Tim Crawford. “We made sure that philanthropy and social awareness is a part of her DNA, so she also volunteers, she also does great social work. It was very important to us that she knew it was a blessing to be born into this family, but it was also a responsibility. Because of your name, because of your notoriety, you have to bless people with the way you’ve been blessed.”

Fellow Grammy Award winning composer and conductor Henry Panion will join Adams on stage in Birmingham. February 26."I just love the fact that he’s very passionate about music and making sure that it sounds authentic and it also reflects the artist that he works with," says Adams. "He is phenomenal when it comes to allowing the artist the freedom and the control to bridge together that sound. He’s amazing, absolutely amazing."
Fellow Grammy Award winning composer and conductor Henry Panion will join Adams on stage in Birmingham. February 26.”I just love the fact that he’s very passionate about music and making sure that it sounds authentic and it also reflects the artist that he works with,” says Adams. “He is phenomenal when it comes to allowing the artist the freedom and the control to bridge together that sound. He’s amazing, absolutely amazing.”

In addition to her work in the music industry, Adams continues to host the “Yolanda Adams Morning Show,” a syndicated radio program that has been on the air for 11 years and will soon announce a new grid of networks airing the program nationwide (www.YolandaAdamsLive.com). Adams is also an entrepreneur, marketing her own line of coffee and bath and body products at YolandaAdamsLive.com. Above all, however, her heart still belongs to children. Preparing for “Believe! A Night of Hope” at the historic Lyric Theatre in Birmingham, Adams says if you cannot be physically present for a child outside of your child, or children outside of your children, she says, then supporting a charitable organization like Children’s of Alabama financially is a way to start. “I also believe that we have to become more concerned about the safety and awareness of our kids and not make excuses as to why we can’t help,” she says. “Every child, no matter what socioeconomic status they come from, deserves to be heard, and they deserve advocates.” Adams promises an evening of gospel music that continues to reveal her varied musical influences and ultimately focuses on inspiring listeners to be open to a blessing. “You never know when you meet a person how their day is going; you never know when you meet a person what they’ve gone through in their lives. To me what music does is it chips at the barrier, that wall that people have up a lot of times, and by the second or third song, the person is open to the blessings of the song. The blessings of the performance. And so, it’s going to be emotional; it’s going to be riveting; it’s also going to be healing and repairing.”

Sponsorship packages for the February 26 event are priced from $1,000 to $10,000 and include VIP seating at the concert and a meet and greet after the performance. A limited number of individual general admission tickets ranging from $55 to $65 and single VIP tickets priced at $100 are available through Ticketmaster. For sponsorship opportunities or ticket information, contact Andrea Martin at 205-638-9017 or [email protected].

-Camille Smith Platt

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The Festival Service of Nine Lessons and Carols will be held at The American Village Chapel in Montevallo. The chapel is seen here December 2017 in a blanket of snow. “I never tire of this service, for it is truly a wonderful start of the Advent and coming Christmas season.  And how we are indebted to those who offer their God-given talents to help make this such service such a blessing,” Tom Walker, Founder & President, American Village
The Festival Service of Nine Lessons and Carols will be held at The American Village Chapel in Montevallo. The chapel is seen here December 2017 in a blanket of snow. “I never tire of this service, for it is truly a wonderful start of the Advent and coming Christmas season.  And how we are indebted to those who offer their God-given talents to help make this such service such a blessing,” Tom Walker, Founder & President, American Village

Christmas celebrations in the American colonies were very different than they are today. You would not have found piles of wrapped gifts under Christmas trees, stockings hung with care on mantels, or televisions playing reruns of It’s a Wonderful Life. But many things were the same. Christmas was an important religious holiday in George Washington’s time, and the twelve nights of Christmas, ending in balls and parties on January 6 extended the holiday season. For Washington, his Colonial Christmas experiences were both joyful and terrifying.

George Washington’s boyhood home in Fredericksburg, Va. burned down on Christmas Eve of 1740. The Washington family took shelter “in the detached kitchen and spent a cheerless Christmas Day.” In 1751 George ate Irish goose and drank to the health of absent friends while onboard a ship returning to Virginia from Barbados, where Washington had been with his older brother Lawrence who was hoping the warmer climate might help cure his tuberculosis. Christmas of 1753 was spent on the western frontier with the Virginia militia fighting the French and Indian War. Christmas 1758 was a momentous time in George Washington’s life, as he married Martha Dandridge Custis on January 6, 1759 – the twelfth night of Christmas. George spent much of Christmas 1770 in typical activities, foxhunting with friends and family and visiting his mill. He attended services at Pohick Church and had dinner at home with his family.  In 1775, during the first Christmas of the American Revolution, Martha Washington traveled to Cambridge, Massachusetts to be with her husband. Martha’s presence at the Continental Army’s winter encampments not only  helped to encourage Washington, but also boosted the morale of the entire camp. Christmas 1777, Gen. Washington and much of the Continental Army were in winter quarters at Valley Forge, Pennsylvania. Almost half the camp was either sick or dying. It snowed Christmas day and by the next morning, it measured four inches deep. 1781 was a bittersweet Christmas, spent in Philadelphia. Washington had defeated Lord Cornwallis in the last major battle of the Revolutionary War in October. However, Martha’s son, Jacky, died a few weeks after that victory of a fever contracted at the siege of Yorktown. Christmas 1786 saw the Washingtons finally spending Christmas together at their Mount Vernon home. They most likely attended services at Pohick Church, then returned home, where a “Yorkshire Christmas-Pye” was served.  On December 26, 1786, Washington wrote David Humphreys, a friend and former aide, that the Washingtons had served “one [a pie] yesterday on which all the company, (and pretty numerous it was) were hardly able to make an impression
” The recipe for the impressive dish included a bushel of flour and the preparation was lengthy, labor intensive, and difficult. 1789 was George Washington’s first Christmas as the President of the United States. The White House had not yet been constructed, so the Washingtons were in their rented New York home for this holiday season and attended services at St. Paul’s Church.

The American Village’s fifteenth annual Festival Service of Nine Lessons and Carols will be held Sunday, December 2 at 5 p.m. in the Lucille Ryals Thompson Colonial Chapel. Music will be provided by the Montevallo Community Chorale and organist Dr. Laurie Middaugh. The service is free, and no reservations are required.
The American Village’s fifteenth annual Festival Service of Nine Lessons and Carols will be held Sunday, December 2 at 5 p.m. in the Lucille Ryals Thompson Colonial Chapel. Music will be provided by the Montevallo Community Chorale and organist Dr. Laurie Middaugh. The service is free, and no reservations are required.

In 1798, with the young people away, George and Martha had a relatively quiet Christmas at home in Mount Vernon, the last they would spend together. George Washington died eleven days before Christmas of 1799. As Washington was dying, Mrs. Washington is recorded as having no doubts, no fears for him. After forty years of devoted affection and uninterrupted happiness, she “resigned him without a murmur into the arms of his Savior and his God, with the assured hope of his eternal felicity.”

Lessons & Carols. From the first Sunday of Advent and continuing through Christmas Eve, colonial parishioners, including Washington, would have heard the same collect or prayer from the Book of Common Prayer:

In virtually every public speech or public writing, Washington spoke of God’s providential care in the establishment of the United States and its Constitution. Seen here in the American Village ballroom is a copy of the Lansdowne Portrait of George Washington by Gilbert Stuart, c. 1965, oil on canvas. The piece is on loan from the Birmingham Museum of Art.
In virtually every public speech or public writing, Washington spoke of God’s providential care in the establishment of the United States and its Constitution. Seen here in the American Village ballroom is a copy of the Lansdowne Portrait of George Washington by Gilbert Stuart, c. 1965, oil on canvas. The piece is on loan from the Birmingham Museum of Art.

ALMIGHTY God, give us grace that we may cast away the works of darkness, and put upon us the armour of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which thy Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the quick and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who liveth and reigneth with thee and the Holy Ghost, one God, now and forever. Amen.

This will also be a part of the American Village’s fifteenth annual Festival Service of Nine Lessons and Carols on Sunday December 2. The service begins with the procession from the west door of the Chapel, symbolically passing from darkness to light, and continues with lessons—readings from Holy Scripture that will be almost identical to those used on Christmas Day in Washington’s time, namely the Gospel of St. John, 1:1-14.  The essence of the service is to center the attention of worshipers and participants alike on the central message of the relationship of God and mankind – from the creation, the disobedience and fall of humanity, the promise of a Messiah, the “Word made flesh” that came to dwell among us, and ultimately of Christ’s sacrifice and redemptive resurrection. Set in a chapel evocative of colonial times the service offers a wonderful opportunity of worship to God the Father, Jesus Christ His son, and the Holy Spirit.  The American Village invites you to join us for this special service, no reservations required, and bids you a meaningful Advent season and a joyous Christmas.

-Tom Walker

Founder and President, The American Village, Montevallo, Ala.

Since it’s opening in 1999, about 650,000 students from all over the Southeast have visited the American Village, “stepped back in history” and discovered the drama of America’s founding, www.AmericanVillage.org

More about Christmas with the Washingtons can be found at www.mountvernon.org/george-washington/george-washington-at-christmas

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Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson:

 A master of “football” comedy, Birmingham’s Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson is best known for his social media presence and viral videos related to college football in the South. He will perform stand-up comedy at the StarDome Comedy Club in Hoover on November 20, 21, 23, and 25. As a part of the StarDome’s 35th Anniversary Celebration, the Club is giving away a pair of tickets to see FunnyMaine, visit www.facebook.com/stardome for details. For tickets, visit www.stardome.com or call 205-444-0008. Photos Courtesy Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson
A master of “football” comedy, Birmingham’s Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson is best known for his social media presence and viral videos related to college football in the South. He will perform stand-up comedy at the StarDome Comedy Club in Hoover on November 20, 21, 23, and 25. As a part of the StarDome’s 35th Anniversary Celebration, the Club is giving away a pair of tickets to see FunnyMaine, visit www.facebook.com/stardome for details. For tickets, visit www.stardome.com or call 205-444-0008. Photos Courtesy Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson

Logging nearly one million viewers on social media every week, Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson is best known in Alabama for his college-football YouTube series “How Bama Fans Watched.” The Birmingham, Ala.-based viral video personality and stand-up comedian is also a blogger, a graphic designer and an afternoon co-host on 97.7 JAMZ. In all these endeavors, he is recognized for his big smile and a silly style that pokes fun at sports, southern trends and nightlife. Preparing for a four-day set at the StarDome Comedy Club in Hoover, Ala.(www.stardome.com) in November, FunnyMaine explains how his focus is on encouraging others and trusting in God for continued success as God sees it.

The youngest in a house full of boys, FunnyMaine says his childhood in Opelika, Ala. included scouts, music, and a lot of church. “My dad was a pastor; he started off small. He actually had a service in the living room then purchased a small building, then a bigger building, then another building,” FunnyMaine remembers. “I got to see it grow, and I know firsthand all the challenges that come with being pastor of a church. You’re dealing with so many different personalities, so many different opinions, but I’ve seen my dad stand strong in what he believes and how he wants to do stuff. He’s still in it years later.”

FunnyMaine says his father’s strength also stood out in family tragedy. When he and his brothers were all under the age of 10, their mother died from medical complications related to lupus. “My dad was straight up and honest with us
He just told us, you know, this is what it is. We love her, she’s gone, but we’ve got to keep pressing forward. We’ve got to live our lives. That’s what she wanted. He was very upfront about it, and he encouraged us not to be afraid to miss your mom. Cry when you have to,” FunnyMaine recalls. “Then he remarried, and God blessed me with another motherly figure in my life. He definitely stepped up to the plate.”

Besides being a standup comic and a viral sensation, FunnyMaine is also a radio personality, co-hosting with Dwight “D. Stone” weekday afternoons on Birmingham’s Hip Hop and R&B station, 95.7 JAMZ FM. Photos Courtesy Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson
Besides being a standup comic and a viral sensation, FunnyMaine is also a radio personality, co-hosting with Dwight “D. Stone” weekday afternoons on Birmingham’s Hip Hop and R&B station, 95.7 JAMZ FM. Photos Courtesy Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson

A self-professed class clown, FunnyMaine’s family moved to Pratt City, where he graduated from Jackson-Olin High School. At Stillman College in Tuscaloosa, FunnyMaine studied mass communications, served as drum major and student recruiter, and hosted basketball games. His first time on stage for stand-up was a favor from a friend. His fraternity brother was working as a disc jockey at a back-to-school comedy show for UAB in 2005. After a five-minute set, FunnyMaine received a standing ovation. Since then, he has opened for celebrities including DL Hughley, Rob Schneider and Tom Green. He has performed in front of sold out audiences at The Looney Bin in Little Rock, Ark.; The Mint in Los Angeles, Calif.; The Punchline Comedy Club in Atlanta, Ga.; and Zanie’s Comedy Club in Nashville, Tenn.

Leaning into social media platforms on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and YouTube, FunnyMaine launched his first “How Bama Fans” video on Facebook in September 2016, and the series averaged 1.8 million views per week through the end of the football season. Each segment is two to five minutes long and walks viewers through the facial expressions and verbal banter likely shared among Crimson Tide supporters during the previous Saturday’s college football matchups. Poking fun at underdogs, impressive plays, controversial calls and upsets, the marriage of football and comedy simply works. “It’s more than just a culture in Alabama. It’s something we decided a long time ago. This is our thing,” he says. “We’re good at it. We’re passionate about it. And I think everybody loves to laugh.” FunnyMaine says Birmingham has been particularly responsive to his material. “With the StarDome being here in Hoover for over 30 years now, I think we’re a comedy smart city. We’re a football smart city. When you put the two together, it seems like it was destined to be a win-win.”

Thank God for prayer,” FunnyMaine says. “It’s free. You can do it most times. It’s all about finding a space and finding that good mental space to be in and do your thing. I love it.” Photos Courtesy Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson
Thank God for prayer,” FunnyMaine says. “It’s free. You can do it most times. It’s all about finding a space and finding that good mental space to be in and do your thing. I love it.” Photos Courtesy Jermaine “FunnyMaine” Johnson

FunnyMaine admits that a career in the comedy industry hasn’t been without struggle. He has experienced a repossession and an eviction. However, it was a grief he is thankful came with patience that was perhaps a gift from God. “It didn’t break me. It actually just made me stronger,” he remembers. “I realized nothing is going to be given to me. If I want to get out of this hole, if I want to change things, if I want to do all this great stuff that I feel like I can do, I’ve got to go harder. I’ve got to step it up a notch. And that’s what happened.”

Aside from the stage and social media, you can find FunnyMaine sharing his faith at churches, including The Worship Center where he has been a member since 2011. His message typically touches on avoiding the negative influence of a culture often focused on determining who is right and who is wrong. Initially, he explains, this lies in politics. But ultimately, it’s something more. “The bigger problem is we don’t know how to disagree anymore. We don’t know how to have conversations with people we don’t agree with, people who don’t live where we live, people who don’t look like we look, people who don’t worship like we worship. Can you imagine living in the world where you’re surrounded by people who just agree with you? And everybody does what you do? How can you ever learn in that? If everybody around you agrees with you, you’re not putting yourself in a position to learn anything.”

For wisdom and encouragement, FunnyMaine turns to Scripture.“I love Psalm 62; it’s a chapter to me that’s about believing in God vs. trusting in God. I think a lot of us have got the believing part down, but we don’t have the trust part down. That’s what I try to work toward–trusting in God and not just believing in God.” For FunnyMaine, he’s trusting that God will continue to create opportunities for his personal and professional growth, but also that God will help all men and women appreciate their differences instead of see differences as walls that divide. “I am also just believing and trusting in God that it can happen. Sometimes you go speaking positivity and people say, ‘You’re crazy, you should give that up.’ You’ve gotta be crazy enough to believe that change can happen.”

Camille Smith Platt

See Jermaine “Funnymaine” Johnson perform live at the StarDome Comedy Club in Hoover, November 20, 21, 23, 25, 2018. For tickets visit www.stardome.com or call 205-444-0008.

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Doing the Next Right Thing

After earning many honors for his football play at Gadsden City High School and the University of Alabama, the Cincinnati Bengals drafted Dre Kirkpatrick in the first round of the 2012 NFL Draft- where he still plays today.
After earning many honors for his football play at Gadsden City High School and the University of Alabama, the Cincinnati Bengals drafted Dre Kirkpatrick in the first round of the 2012 NFL Draft- where he still plays today.

“Life is about doing the next right thing.” As a player on two national title teams at the University of Alabama, Dre Kirkpatrick heard this statement more than once from his football coach, Nick Saban. “You don’t focus on winning the game or the title, you focus on winning the moment. You do the next right thing. Success will take care of itself,” remembers Kirkpatrick.

For D’Andre LaJuan “Dre” Kirkpatrick, doing the right thing extends far beyond the football field. A Gadsden, Ala. native, Kirkpatrick recently treated a group of local children to a back to school shopping spree. Giving back is so important to Kirkpatrick, he made underprivileged children the focus of his charity, Dre Kirkpatrick’s 21 Kids Foundation.

Dre Kirkpatrick started his charity, Dre Kirkpatrick’s 21 Kids Foundation, to give back to children in his hometown of Gadsden, support underprivileged youth and offer a message of faith and hope to children who need to know there is a way forward in life.
Dre Kirkpatrick started his charity, Dre Kirkpatrick’s 21 Kids Foundation, to give back to children in his hometown of Gadsden, support underprivileged youth and offer a message of faith and hope to children who need to know there is a way forward in life.

Before the start of football season, Kirkpatrick came home to Gadsden and personally took the group of children shopping for school clothes and shoes. He gave each child a $250 allowance. For Kirkpatrick, who grew up in the Oakleigh neighborhood, giving back is a message of hope. “I always wanted to give back because that’s what my dad always preached to me. My Foundation’s purpose is giving kids another outlook on life. Letting them know school is cool. Getting an education is the thing to do. I want to be the face of the youth and let them know there’s a way out,” says Kirkpatrick.

The Oakleigh neighborhood, which he calls “The Oak,” plays a role in his tale of childhood adversity. On a tour with visiting reporters from Cincinnati, where he now plays football for the Cincinnati Bengals, he pointed out numerous drug houses on his street and the house next to his where children were gunned down in a drive by shooting. “The Oak” inspired him to work harder and it inspires him to bring a positive message to children in similar situations.

Kirkpatrick learned the value of a strong family life from his father, Charles Kirkpatrick, pastor of United Christian New Beginning Ministry Church and his mother Kim. He is seen here with his son D’Andre.
Kirkpatrick learned the value of a strong family life from his father, Charles Kirkpatrick, pastor of United Christian New Beginning Ministry Church and his mother Kim. He is seen here with his son D’Andre.

Dre Kirkpatrick’s childhood had some positives too. His father is a local pastor who instilled a sense of faith in him from a young age and his mother gave him a strong work ethic as well. Today, his father serves as an advisor for his charity and still preaches every Sunday. “At a very young age I was taught the importance of having faith and that became very important to me,” says Kirkpatrick. “I understand that man gives the award, but God gives the reward.”

Kirkpatrick has earned a lot of awards. Coming out of high school, he was ranked a five-star recruit and The Sporting News recently placed him on a list of best high school players of all time. In college, he played for two BCS championships and was named an All American in three different ranking services. He left Alabama after his junior season and was drafted in the first round by the Cincinnati Bengals in the 2012 NFL draft.

Former University of Alabama football star Dre Kirkpatrick now plays for the Cincinnati Bengals in the NFL.
Former University of Alabama football star Dre Kirkpatrick now plays for the Cincinnati Bengals in the NFL.

Success is more than football, however. Kirkpatrick has arranged charity basketball games in Cincinnati and speaks at schools when he can but, he says, he rarely talks to students about football. “Education is just as important as the game. I can’t stress that enough,” he says. “There’s a quote out there that says, ‘Where the mind goes, the body will follow.’ You also have to be willing to listen and remain teachable. There is something to be learned every day.” Kirkpatrick says the lesson applies to himself as well. As a father, he has a 12-year-old son and a daughter due later this year, he stresses the importance of a willingness to learn. “Personally, I’m learning new things every day, so I’m constantly working on myself, to be better at all things,” he says. “Being a better father, a better son, a better athlete, a better person, just a better human being.”

—  Terry Schrimscher

Photos Courtesy Dre Kirkpatrick’s 21 Kids Foundation, Associated Press

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There was a time when fitness was an obsession for five-time American Ninja Warrior competitor Eddy Stewart. A Hueytown firefighter, personal trainer and bodybuilder, his family was often at the mercy of his detailed meal and workout schedule. Shifting his focus to ninja athletics, however, initiated healing in both his relationships and his Christian faith. A Top 30 finisher on NBC’s American Ninja Warrior in Seasons 7-10, 35-year-old Stewart reflects on the hop off the Cannonball Drop that eliminated him from the Miami City Finals in July and says ninja training represents resilience when life gets hard.

PRIORITIES. Stewart grew up an only child on a dead-end street in Bessemer. He passed his time climbing trees, making bicycle ramps to jump ditches and charging elderly neighbors $1 to pick up sticks out of their yards. He participated in Little League baseball, and later high school football, wrestling and tennis. He attended Brooklane Baptist Academy for grades 5-10, then finished at McAdory High School. He remembers his parents as godly influences who made prayer, family dinners and church a priority. He says one of his strongest childhood memories is the day his father refused to let him quit football the summer before his senior year. “That established a mentality of if I’m going to do something, I’m going to give it everything I’ve got,” he says. “That was one of those pivotal moments of being mentally tough and sticking with something even though it gets hard.”

“I work with a bunch of good guys, and man they are super supportive of me,” says Stewart, who is an apparatus operator and paramedic in Hueytown.
“I work with a bunch of good guys, and man they are super supportive of me,” says Stewart, who is an apparatus operator and paramedic in Hueytown.

Stewart studied criminal justice at the University of Alabama at Birmingham (UAB), spending the last six months of his senior year interning with the U.S. Marshals Service. He turned down a job offer with the Jefferson County Sheriff’s Department after suspecting God might have something else planned for his future. In 2007, he began serving as a firefighter and paramedic in Hueytown, prioritizing fitness in his free time. He trained for bodybuilding competitions and also worked part time as a personal trainer. By 2012, however, the pressure his fitness aspirations put on his family finally came to a head. His wife, Natalie, and two sons Henry and Charlie, needed his time and attention. “We’d go to the beach, and I might be able to go down to the [sand] for an hour and a half, then I’d need to come back up to the room because I had to eat my meal. Or if we were going out to dinner, I had to [tell my family] no, we can’t go eat at 4:30—we had to eat at 6:00. It became all about me.” Stewart admits his faith suffered as well. After placing third for Mr. Alabama at the National Physique Committee (NPC) Alabama State Championship, he left bodybuilding and personal training to spend more time at home. “My priorities got back in order. I saw what I became—I became a very selfish person, and the Lord kind of opened my eyes to that, and it really hurt my family. What’s neat was that as the Lord was healing my marriage, healing my family, even healing my relationship with my friends, he was doing a good work restoring my heart.”

Eddy Stewart’s mission work has included helping rebuild a church in the Philippines. In November, he will travel to Cambodia with a group of competitive ninjas to host clinics and raise money to help Raven’s Hope International bring women to the U.S. for temporary respite, trade training, and Biblical studies.
Eddy Stewart’s mission work has included helping rebuild a church in the Philippines. In November, he will travel to Cambodia with a group of competitive ninjas to host clinics and raise money to help Raven’s Hope International bring women to the U.S. for temporary respite, trade training, and Biblical studies.

MISSIONS. A trip to the Philippines in 2013 confirmed God’s blessing of a new sense of unity in Stewart’s family. A mudslide had destroyed a church in the mountains of Purok Abaca in the Southern Negros Islands. The church was so remote it could only be accessed via a 45-minute bus ride, a 20-minute motorcycle ride, and a two-and-a-half-hour hike. Stewart had visited the area before to contribute resources to rebuild, but this time, he would take Natalie. After an exhausting hike through jungles and across a flooded river to speak at churches, the couple was surprised by a day of rest on the beach. Friend and pastor Edgar Buhat had arranged a surprise renewal of wedding vows. What Buhat didn’t know was that Stewart had already been praying about the possibility he could re-wed Natalie while abroad. “After the ceremony, I asked Edgar why he did that, and he said he felt the Holy Spirit tell him to give us that gift when he saw us get off the plane,” Stewart remembers. “For Natalie and I, we knew that the Lord was reconfirming our commitment to each other and we realized just how good the Lord had been to us, seeing us through that difficult time.”

COMPETITION. American Ninja Warrioris a popular televised parkour-style obstacle course competition that includes running across angled discs, swinging between platforms, using outward pressure to move between two plexiglass walls, and scaling a 14-foot six-inch warped wall. Stewart had been watching the show, and its Japanese counterpart Sasuke, for years when Natalie suggested he apply to compete in 2015. Since then, he has become a fan favorite most recently known for his “left, right, double, double” pec flex. He made it to the Las Vegas Finals in 2015 and has finished the Qualifying Round three seasons since then. He also travels nationally to compete in events hosted by the Ultimate Ninja Athlete Association and the National Ninja League. With children’s activities and competitions included, it has become a hobby that belongs not only to him but also to his entire family. “Now it’s not all about Eddy; now it’s a family thing. I go compete, but they are there supporting me, they are involved.”

“I’m an adventurous person at heart, I’d go jump out of a plane right now if I had a plane to jump out of. I’m just that kind of a guy, that’s the kind of a heart that God put in me,” says American Ninja Warrior’s Eddy Stewart, who earned the nickname “Flex La Pec” from show hosts Matt Iseman and Akbar Gbaja-Biamila. Photo: NBC, American Ninja Warrior
“I’m an adventurous person at heart, I’d go jump out of a plane right now if I had a plane to jump out of. I’m just that kind of a guy, that’s the kind of a heart that God put in me,” says American Ninja Warrior’s Eddy Stewart, who earned the nickname “Flex La Pec” from show hosts Matt Iseman and Akbar Gbaja-Biamila. Photo: NBC, American Ninja Warrior

Stewart also speaks to his sons—and to the Birmingham area community—about the metaphors ninja athletics offers to perseverance, patience, faith and hard work. “In other sports you are competing against other people. This is a sport where the whole community cheers on everybody because you’re competing against the course. You’re all trying to finish an obstacle. You’re all trying to complete this series of tests,” he says. “You can kind of relate that in life. There are going to be obstacles in life, you’re going to face tribulations and hard times, and sometimes you’re going to fail
 Just because you mess up, just because you fall, doesn’t mean you’re going to stay down. You get back up and you try again, and that’s something I am able to pass on to my kids.

“There’s going to be some times that things are going to be hard,” Stewart adds, “whether in sports, in school, even in the Christian walk. Sometimes you’re going to have tough times, you’re going to have temptations, you’re going to have obstacles in your faith. That’s when the Lord gives us grace. When I mess up, I’m going to learn from that and I’m going to keep pushing forward.”

Eddy and Natalie Stewart attend Valley Creek Baptist Church in Hueytown with their children, Henry (10) and Charlie (6). The couple renewed their vows during a mission trip in 2013. Photo: Rachel & Noah Ray Photography
Eddy and Natalie Stewart attend Valley Creek Baptist Church in Hueytown with their children, Henry (10) and Charlie (6). The couple renewed their vows during a mission trip in 2013. Photo: Rachel & Noah Ray Photography

An unexpected step off the course on obstacle two eliminated Stewart from this year’s American Ninja Warrior Miami City Finals. While the episode was taped in April, Stewart admits that watching it air on NBC in July exposed him to another round of disappointment. Stewart’s son Henry, age 10, was perhaps more upset than anyone. Stewart simply hugged him and said that next year, they’ll try again. “It’s important to me that I represent Christ, in successes and failures. And having two boys watching my every move, my primary goal is to always point them towards Him,” he says. “I’m extremely thankful the Lord has even given me the opportunity of a lifetime to compete at this level
 Now it’s time to put down the doughnuts and get ready for Season 11.”

 

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Sisler’s role at SEC Nation includes sideline interviews with coaches like Alabama’s Nick Saban and Auburn’s Gus Malzahn.
Sisler’s role at SEC Nation includes sideline interviews with coaches like Alabama’s Nick Saban and Auburn’s Gus Malzahn.

The United States makes up four percent of the world’s population yet experiences 27 percent of the world’s drug overdose deaths. This is a jarring statistic for sports journalist Lauren Sisler. It’s also a personal one. In 2003, while a freshman at Rutgers University, she lost both parents to prescription drug overdoses within hours of each other. Best known for her work as an “SEC Nation” pregame reporter alongside Tim Tebow and Paul Finebaum, she reflects on how her Christian faith bolstered her journey through grief, gave her the courage to trust in God’s timing, and has led her to serve as an addiction prevention advocate in Central Alabama.

Originally from Virginia, Sisler describes her upbringing as sports-centered, happy and rich in family relationships. Saturdays were for college football, Sundays for church then the NFL or NASCAR. She and her older brother, Allen, were lovingly competitive. They’d challenge each other to foot races, to see who could throw a ball the furthest. By high school, Sisler was a competitive gymnast training 20-25 hours a week. Many weekends were spent driving to out-of-town meets. Even with a hectic weekend gymnastics schedule, faith in Christ remained center stage. Her coaches were Christians, and she collected inspirational quotes and Scripture passages passed from them and her mother. Her favorite was the poem “Footprints in the Sand.” And prayer time was important. Before bed, Sisler would yell down the stairs for her father to join her for evening prayers. “Those memories are very vivid and strong,” she says.

“If you walk into an ER and you’re bleeding, you’re going to be treated right away. Mental health issues aren’t as easy to recognize because you don’t have a physical scar to show for it,” says Sisler, pictured here are her brother Allen and her parents not long before their parents’ death.
“If you walk into an ER and you’re bleeding, you’re going to be treated right away. Mental health issues aren’t as easy to recognize because you don’t have a physical scar to show for it,” says Sisler, pictured here are her brother Allen and her parents not long before their parents’ death.

In March 2003, however, her faith was tested. While a freshman at Rutgers University in New Jersey, Sisler woke up to a distressing late-night phone call from her father. Her mother had died, and she needed to get on the next flight home. Hours later, she arrived in Roanoke expecting her father to pick her up at the airport. Instead, her uncle and cousin were waiting at the curb. Just hours after her mother died, her father had died as well—both to accidental prescription drug overdoses. Lesley Sisler, 45, had struggled with a degenerative disk disease that required multiple surgeries. George “Butch” Sisler, 52, had PTSD from his service in the Navy and had chronic back pain. Their daughter had no clue their dependence on Fentanyl, which according to the DEA is 100 times more potent than morphine, had spiraled out of control.

Sisler’s brother Allen was in the Navy, stationed about four hours from home, when their parents died of prescription drug overdoses on March 24, 2003. Today they both live in Birmingham and attend Church of the Highlands together.
Sisler’s brother Allen was in the Navy, stationed about four hours from home, when their parents died of prescription drug overdoses on March 24, 2003. Today they both live in Birmingham and attend Church of the Highlands together.

“When I received that news at first it was very unbelievable. I thought I was having an out of body experience. I’m dreaming,” she explains. “In my mind, the word addiction and drug overdose could not be used in the same sentence as my parents. And I struggled with that emotion and that guilt and that shame for so many years. It took me seven years to acknowledge how my parents actually died,” remembers Sisler. “In the back of my mind, I knew bits and pieces of the story, and my Aunt Linda did her best to try to educate me, but I put up walls of denial and made it hard for her to get through to me. The one thing she finally told me was ‘Lauren, you can’t allow the way they died to define how they lived.’ As I went through that grieving process, I realized OK, wait a sec
 you’re right
 this is something that happened, I can’t change it, but maybe I can do something with it.”

By the time Sisler came to terms with her family’s past, she had graduated from Rutgers University (2006) and was working as a weekend sports anchor in West Virginia. She moved to Birmingham in September 2011 and spent nearly five years at WIAT 42, where she was nominated Best Sports Anchor by the Alabama Associated Press in 2014 and 2015. In 2016, she became a sports reporter and host for AL.com and was offered a job as a sideline reporter for ESPN, covering college football and gymnastics. Keeping her role at AL.com during the week, she moved to the SEC Network on weekends in September 2017. The transition has inspired her to reflect on what it means to be content. “You hear Nick Saban talk about being where your feet are. For a long time, when I was at the local TV station, I started getting complacent and getting anxious for what’s next,” she says. “Now that I’ve reached this level of getting to work with some of the best in the business, I’ve started to realize ‘be where your feet are,’ don’t always focus on the destination. I think this is where God intended me to be. Everything that I’ve been through up unto this point has taught me patience, has taught me to better appreciate where I’m at and the people that are around me.”

Watch Lauren Sisler alongside host Laura Rutledge and analysts Paul Finebaum, Marcus Spears and Tim Tebow Saturday mornings this fall on the SEC Network. Sisler shares about Tebow, “Tim has recognized his ability as an athlete but also as a leader and as an influencer. Even just sitting on the bus of SEC Nation and listening to him sing, to recite Scripture. He gets fired up about a particular topic and you think [it’s because the cameras are rolling]. He’s like that 24/7. He is the hype man, and I absolutely love it.” Photo credit: Scott Clarke/ESPN Images
Watch Lauren Sisler alongside host Laura Rutledge and analysts Paul Finebaum, Marcus Spears and Tim Tebow Saturday mornings this fall on the SEC Network. Sisler shares about Tebow, “Tim has recognized his ability as an athlete but also as a leader and as an influencer. Even just sitting on the bus of SEC Nation and listening to him sing, to recite Scripture. He gets fired up about a particular topic and you think [it’s because the cameras are rolling]. He’s like that 24/7. He is the hype man, and I absolutely love it.” Photo credit: Scott Clarke/ESPN Images
Sisler has become a speaker and advocate on addiction. She has worked as a mentor at The Foundry Ministries and is on the Board of Directors and Advisory Board at Addiction Prevention Coalition (APC), based in Birmingham. “Unfortunately, this is a disease, and this is an epidemic that a lot of people turn their heads to—not my problem, not my child, our school system doesn’t have this problem—so there’s a level of denial. Prevention is such a big part of APC’s philosophy
 trying to get in front of it before it begins.” Reflecting on her own experience, Sisler wonders if being able to see and acknowledge her parents’ problem would have made a difference. “Hindsight is always 20/20. I wanted to believe that my parents were the strongest people on this planet. They were strong, they were loving, they gave me and my brother everything we needed to succeed, and that was what I believed in my mind. I tried to hide from the fact that they were struggling internally and behind closed doors were having to resort to medication and to alcohol and to other things to try and cope with the pain they were feeling—both chronic pain as well as addiction pain, and then also emotional pain and depression and financial struggles
. I truly wanted to believe that I was invincible and my family was invincible and nothing could tear us apart.”

Lauren Sisler with her Aunt Linda on the set of SEC Nation. Sister to Leslie Sisler, Linda Rorrer stepped in as a mentor and mother figure after Lauren’s parents’ deaths, encouraging her to return to her academic and gymnastics commitments at Rutgers University after two weeks of grieving.
Lauren Sisler with her Aunt Linda on the set of SEC Nation. Sister to Leslie Sisler, Linda Rorrer stepped in as a mentor and mother figure after Lauren’s parents’ deaths, encouraging her to return to her academic and gymnastics commitments at Rutgers University after two weeks of grieving.

For years, Sisler was critical of herself for her own denial, for taking so long to admit her family’s story and make a difference in addiction prevention and recovery. Today, however, she acknowledges her journey has been in God’s hands all along. “I truly believe that God paved this path and gave me the tools that I needed to deal with the grief myself, to take me through my own process before He was ready to open me up to the concept of sharing their story so openly with other people,” she says. “
. Now it’s very apparent to me that it’s not on our timeline, it’s on His timeline. While we sometimes want to suit up and get back on the horse and ride into the night as soon as tragedy strikes, that’s not how things work. The lessons that have been taught to me throughout this entire process have certainly been a product of faith, perseverance, and really a testament to being the person that I was brought onto this earth to be by our good Lord above.”

As she prepares for football season, Sisler acknowledges that just as she has found her own story to tell, it’s finding the story in others that makes being a journalist so fulfilling.“I just enjoy getting to know people more than just their sport and their game. What drives them? What motivates them? What gets them out of bed every morning and ultimately how did they overcome tragedy? What have they faced in their lives that has made them who they are? What has helped them to identify with themselves and identify with others?” Sisler says. “Nick Saban said it best: when you wake up in the morning, do you pray to be blessed or do you pray to bless others? 
.

“I’ve rested on that quote and thought that was a great way to encapsulate my thinking,” Sisler concludes. “If I have an opportunity—whether it’s one person or a million people—to make an impact through my story and telling my parents story, then it’s worth it.”

Photo Credit: Amelia Barton ESPN Images
Photo Credit: Amelia Barton ESPN Images
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<em>Callie Walker will represent the state of Alabama in the Miss America 2019 Pageant on Sept. 9, 2018. “I’ve been watching videos of my mom, and I’m so in awe of her and proud of the opportunity to perform on the same stage my mom performed on,” Callie says. Angle Tower Walker was Miss Alabama 1985 and fourth runner up in Miss America. Photo Courtesy The Miss Alabama Pageant.</em>
Callie Walker will represent the state of Alabama in the Miss America 2019 Pageant on Sept. 9, 2018. “I’ve been watching videos of my mom, and I’m so in awe of her and proud of the opportunity to perform on the same stage my mom performed on,” Callie says. Angle Tower Walker was Miss Alabama 1985 and fourth runner up in Miss America. Photo Courtesy The Miss Alabama Pageant.

Ask Miss Alabama Callie Walker to tell you a story about her life and it’s bound to eventually circle around to family. John Denver music reminds her of riding in the car with her father as a child. She has a quirky nostalgia for family time spent at Birmingham area McDonald’s play places. She was extremely pleased and relieved, in a way, when her twin brother Michael left the University of West Alabama to join her at the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa. Ask her to tell you a story about the foundations of her Christian faith, and it’s more of the same. A long-time family commitment to a church in Roebuck dates back to her grandparents choosing a place of worship for their children. And the state of Alabama is home to a host of instructors who have embraced the family’s shared passion for music, dance, acting, and the Christian responsibility to environmental sustainability.

A rising senior at the University of Alabama, Callie is a 2015 graduate of Oak Mountain High School who placed first runner up in the Miss Alabama pageant in 2016 and 2017. After two close finishes, she says she had little anxiety in the moments before she was announced the winner on June 9. “I was really at peace with whatever happened,” she recalls. “I knew that Tiara Pennington could do the job completely and confidently. I knew that whatever happened was meant to be.” After receiving her crown, Callie met her mother at the end of the stage for an embrace. But the emotional impact didn’t come until later, when she laid eyes on her grandfather Howard Plott. “He gets really emotional at events, so he doesn’t like to come because he gets embarrassed because he is crying because he’s proud. He had never been to Miss Alabama in the four years I competed,” she says. “That was the first time I had cried that night. It wasn’t even the moment when I won—it was the fact that I had all of my family there with me. That was a really exciting and special moment.”

“<em>Callie has always striven for perfection in everything she has done. And for the betterment of the entire program, that drive for excellence naturally rubbed-off on her peers who performed with her on stage,” says Oak Mountain High School Choral Director Michael Zauchin, who taught Callie when she starred as Fiona in Shrek: The Musicaland competed with the Oak Mountain Singers show choir. Photo Courtesy Oak Mountain High School.</em>
“Callie has always striven for perfection in everything she has done. And for the betterment of the entire program, that drive for excellence naturally rubbed-off on her peers who performed with her on stage,” says Oak Mountain High School Choral Director Michael Zauchin, who taught Callie when she starred as Fiona in Shrek: The Musicaland competed with the Oak Mountain Singers show choir. Photo Courtesy Oak Mountain High School.

Art Facts. It seems nearly every member of the Walker family has a knack for the arts. Callie’s mother, Angela Tower Walker, was Miss Alabama 1985, has taught Callie ballet since she was three years old, and is the Director of Ballet at Birmingham Dance Theater in Hoover. All three Walker children—Callie, brother Michael, and older sister Scarlett—performed in the Show Choir at Oak Mountain High School. Michael is studying music education at the University of Alabama and plans to become a choir director. Scarlett graduated from the University of Alabama with a degree in musical theater in 2016 and is currently in the Broadway revival of Carouselin New York City. Callie says if she had to choose a household memory that points to just how creative they all turned out, it would be their choices of movies. “We definitely watched Disney movies, but we primarily watched movie musicals—The Sound of Music, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers. I attest that to my parents, especially my dad, because he really exposed my siblings and I to his love for music. I just am really thankful to my parents for the fact that they really exposed us to a wide variety of music and just the arts in general.” Angela says the family also traveled to New York for live shows and attended local Alabama Ballet and Birmingham Broadway Series productions. Callie and Scarlett both performed in The Nutcrackerwith the Alabama Ballet as children.

<em>Miss Alabama 2018 told Birmingham Christian Family that while she didn’t cry on stage after her win, she lost her composure when she saw grandfather Howard Plott, known as Poppa (behind Callie), ready for family pictures backstage. Also pictured are Plott’s wife, Bettye; and grandparents Karen and C.H. Walker, whose commitment to community service inspired Callie from a young age; parents Angela and Mike; and twin brother, Michael (third from left). While Callie was being crowned Miss Alabama, older sister Scarlett was in New York City performing on Broadway. Photo Courtesy The Miss Alabama Pageant.</em>
Miss Alabama 2018 told Birmingham Christian Family that while she didn’t cry on stage after her win, she lost her composure when she saw grandfather Howard Plott, known as Poppa (behind Callie), ready for family pictures backstage. Also pictured are Plott’s wife, Bettye; and grandparents Karen and C.H. Walker, whose commitment to community service inspired Callie from a young age; parents Angela and Mike; and twin brother, Michael (third from left). While Callie was being crowned Miss Alabama, older sister Scarlett was in New York City performing on Broadway. Photo Courtesy The Miss Alabama Pageant.

Faith Facts. Matters of faith for Callie is also a family affair. Her parents raised her in church since birth, and the family attends Wilson Chapel United Methodist Church in Roebuck, which is the worship community her father, Mike, grew up in. “We have kept that in our family, [and] my grandparents still attend. It’s just been a really big part of our family and how I was raised—going to church every Wednesday and Sunday. I am just lucky to say that the Lord is a part of my life, and I couldn’t imagine life without Him.” Callie says her time at the University of Alabama has allowed her to fully explore her personal faith through exposure to different Bible studies, small groups and worship styles. “I think there’s a lot of diversity, and at the University of Alabama they make it really easy for you to find a group of people or a church that really fits you,” she says. Callie spent her freshman year on campus participating in BAMACru, a Monday night worship event where she was invited to prayer groups or to talk about her faith. She also made a point to visit different churches in the area. “On Sunday I will still go with friends to different services because I have enjoyed exploring the faith within Tuscaloosa,” she says.

A musical theater major, Callie says that if she closes her eyes and imagines herself on stage, “it feels like I’m at home.” At the University of Alabama, she performed in “A Chorus Line” in spring 2017 and “Sweeney Todd” in spring 2018. She has also worked with Red Mountain Theatre Company in Birmingham. Prayer before stepping on stage helps her find peace and purpose both in pageants and local theater. She recalls a particularly meaningful prayer with her dressing room mom before the Miss Alabama pageant began last month: “No matter what happened on the stage, it was all for Him and it was in His plans. That [praying] was just really important to me, and it’s always something that I do before I go on stage at school as well.”

<em>Callie’s mother, Angela Tower Walker, is the Director of Ballet at Birmingham Dance Theater in Hoover. Her father, Mike, works in real estate and property management at Plott and Company. Photo Courtesy The Miss Alabama Pageant.</em>
Callie’s mother, Angela Tower Walker, is the Director of Ballet at Birmingham Dance Theater in Hoover. Her father, Mike, works in real estate and property management at Plott and Company. Photo Courtesy The Miss Alabama Pageant.

Trash Talk. Callie’s platform, “Let’s Talk Trash: Green Kids for a Green Planet,” also has ties to faith and family tradition. “The Lord has provided us with a beautiful earth that we need to take care of, and that’s very important to me. ‘Let’s Talk Trash’ is promoting the fact that if we don’t do our job as good stewards of this planet and as Christians on this planet, then we are not going to provide a beautiful planet for the people who follow us,” says Callie. “‘Let’s Talk Trash’ stemmed from the fact that my family had already been practicing sustainability for as long as I can remember. My grandparents passed that down to my parents, and my parents passed that down to my siblings and me.” Three years ago, Callie established a simple recycling project in her Meadowbrook neighborhood to address the fact that city and county recycling services did not collect glass. She put letters on mailboxes, set out a collection bin on Tuesdays, and personally hauled glass donations to recycling centers in Birmingham and Tuscaloosa. Since then, she has collected and transported more than 1 ton of glass. As Miss Alabama, Callie plans to implement sustainability programs in elementary schools across the state.“They are my primary focus because if you start with teaching youth,” Callie says, “they will form those habits of recycling and hopefully pass those habits on to generations to come.” Schools interested in participating can contact Eve Gray at the Miss Alabama office, 205-871-6276.

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Adoption as a Calling: Duck Dynasty

<em>In the new content in her re-release of Strong and Kind: And Other Important Character Traits Your Child Needs to Succeed (Thomas Nelson, 2017), Korie Robertson shares how a missed flight to Birmingham and the adoption of son, Rowdy, reminded her that “God’s plans for us are greater than we could ever imagine.”</em>
In the new content in her re-release of Strong and Kind: And Other Important Character Traits Your Child Needs to Succeed (Thomas Nelson, 2017), Korie Robertson shares how a missed flight to Birmingham and the adoption of son, Rowdy, reminded her that “God’s plans for us are greater than we could ever imagine.”

According to Duck Dynasty stars Korie and Willie Robertson, 100,000 children currently in the foster care system in the United States are adoptable because their parents’ rights have been terminated. Statistically, 30,000 of those children will never get a “forever family.” The couple has been passionate about adoption since high school and has welcomed three different youth into their home since 2001—an infant, a foreign exchange student and an older child from foster care. In honor of National Adoption Awareness Month, Korie reflects on the beauty of an intentionally large family, the need for adoptive families in the United States, and the re-release of her book Strong and Kind, with added material in honor of newest family member Rowdy, officially adopted last year at 12 years old.

Growing up in a family that made hospitality a priority gave Korie a clear model of the kind of mother she wanted to be when she had a home of her own. During her childhood, her parents hosted more than 80 people who needed a temporary place to live. “We had an extra bedroom that was always full,” she remembers. “They took in families, teenagers that were struggling at home, or single mothers with kids. That really impacted me—to say what’s mine is yours, and if I have an extra room, then someone can have it.” Korie’s first exposure to the adoption process came from her high school Bible teacher, who adopted a little boy her senior year and spent much of instruction time talking about how important it is that Christian families care for orphans. She married Willie in 1992, and after John Luke and Sadie were born, becoming pregnant a third time proved difficult. They took it as a sign that it was time to adopt. Five-week-old Will was living with a foster family in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, when they brought him home in December 2001. In January, Willie surprised Korie with a 10-year wedding anniversary trip to Cancun. She came back pregnant with Bella. “I had two babies on my hip for a while, and it was a lot of fun,” Korie remembers. “It was a little crazy because of Destructo 1 and Destructo 2. They got into everything.”

The next invitation the Robertsons extended to a youth in need of a home was to a foreign exchange student. Sixteen-year-old Rebecca came from Taiwan for one year of high school in 2005. Korie and Willie invited her back the following year, and she never left. Now 28 years old, she had Willie walk her down the aisle at her wedding last year. “Her dad passed away when she was 11, but she still has a mom in Taiwan,” Korie explains. “Her mom was at the wedding, and we sat beside each other as mothers of the bride. So, we are her American family. We never officially adopted her, but she’s ours just like the rest.”

In 2015, Korie had just published the book Strong and Kind and was speaking at an adoption fundraiser when presented with the opportunity to provide a permanent home for an older child from Texas foster care. Familiar with the struggles older children often have finding a home, a woman approached her at the event and asked if she knew of anyone who would take a 12-year-old boy. “We hadn’t really planned on adopting again, but we’ve always remained open to God’s tugging on our heart. It was one of those moments that I thought, ‘Alright, God. This is probably us. I called Willie and he said, ‘Why not? We can do this. Why not us?’ We got Rowdy a few weeks later, and he became ours last September officially. He makes six.” Korie explains that bringing an older child into the home and adjusting him to sibling relationships had its challenges but also its rewards. “It’s been incredible to see how our other children have responded to him and accepted him and loved him. At one point Will looked at me and said, ‘Mom, have you noticed that me and Bella don’t fight anymore?’ It was like we all had a greater purpose and everyone just stepped up to the plate.” Rowdy had been raised an only child, and Korie admits that looking back she realizes the transition he had to make—into a family of brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents—was monumental. “There was a point where I asked him, was it harder or easier than you thought it was going to be? I said you can be honest. He said it was harder.”

<em>In 2016, the Robertsons celebrated the addition of their sixth child, 12-year-old Rowdy. “It’s been a crazy transition but God has been so good and faithful throughout it,” says Korie Robertson.</em>
In 2016, the Robertsons celebrated the addition of their sixth child, 12-year-old Rowdy. “It’s been a crazy transition but God has been so good and faithful throughout it,” says Korie Robertson.

After 11 seasons on A&E, the final episode of Duck Dynasty aired in April 2017. Today Korie continues to work in the Duck Commander¼ business overseeing licensing for the family’s brands and does philanthropic work as a board member for The Congressional Coalition for Adoption Institute and Help One Now, an organization dedicated to ending extreme poverty and providing care for orphans worldwide. Korie and Willie also founded the Drive Adoption fund at last year’s Duck Commander 500 NASCAR race at Texas Motor Speedway. DriveAdoption.org gives fans the opportunity to learn about domestic and international adoption, connect with adoptive organizations, and donate financially to the cause.

Korie regularly speaks on behalf of older children waiting to be adopted and says youth who turn 18 and age out of foster care are at a much higher risk for homelessness, early pregnancy or drug addiction than those who gain the support of a family. She stresses that for all the wealth in the United States, finding a home for the 100,000 foster youth currently available for adoption should be simple. “We should be able to have homes for those children. They are going to bed each night thinking, ‘Am I going to get a mom and dad? Is this going to happen for me?’ There’s a lot of problems in the world that I know I cannot fix. This is one of the problems that is really solvable,” she says. “A lot of people are scared of what it looks like bringing in an older child and how the rest of the children will reac. God doesn’t give us a spirit of fear but one of power that He will take care of our needs. Not that it’s going to be perfect or simple, but raising children biologically isn’t perfect or simple [either].”

Adopting Rowdy inspired Korie to rerelease a paperback edition of Strong and Kind this year, with additional content reflecting on the legacy she wants to pass down to the next generation. The Afterward is a nod to Rowdy’s assimilation into the Robertson family and how adoption is symbolic to the Christian faith. “I have always loved everything about adoption,” she writes. “How it makes families whole; how it is full of hope and promises to love a child forever and always
 how it redeems something broken and makes it whole; how it reminds us that we all are adopted as sons and daughters into God’s family through His Son, Jesus Christ
how it has made our family complete.”

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