Time for a Closet Refresh

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Fashion for You 

Does your closet look like it needs a makeover? Now is a great time to declutter your space while giving back to those in need. Bash Boutique in Hoover is hosting a Clean Your Closet event on Wednesday, October 28, and Thursday, October 29, 2026. Bring your gently used clothing to the store to donate to local nonprofits: The Foundry Ministries, which restores hope and rebuilds lives through Christ-centered recovery, and Vapor Ministries, whose mission is to meet needs, feed souls, and elevate God. As a thank you for your donation, you will receive 20% off a Bash Boutique item of your choice. 

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Give to those in need and reward yourself by participating in Bash Boutique’s Clean Your Closet Event October 28-29, 2026 in Hoover.

Clean Your Closet Tips. Bash Boutique has three tips to simplify your closet refresh and make it less overwhelming.

  1. Think about how long it’s been since you’ve worn an item. If it has been longer than a year and it is not specifically for a special occasion, then let it go. Put a smile on someone else’s face and donate it. 
  2. Ask yourself, does the item fit my body now? Does it make you feel good when you wear it? If you don’t love the way it looks, then donate it to someone who will. 
  3. Do you have several of the same items already? If you do, keep the best one and donate the rest. This will help you purge in a way that can help you declutter and have fewer decisions to make when choosing what to wear. 

So, let’s get started and plan a visit to Bash Boutique on October 28-29. It’s a win-win-win! Clean your closet, help those in need, and receive a discount on something new you will love. The store is located at 2539 John Hawkins Parkway, Suite 105, Hoover, 35244, bashboutique.net. †

 

 

Expo crowd photo

Special Feature

Birmingham Christian Family (BCF) hosted the 7th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo, brought to you by White Lily, on September 12, 2026. Welcoming the largest crowd yet, this year’s Expo featured nearly 60 exhibitors, the Wonders Center & Science Museum Kids’ Zone, the Alfa Farmers Celebrity Chef Stage, live entertainment from Magic City Big Band, food trucks, and much more! We are already preparing for the 8th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo. Here are just a few of the highlights from the free day of family fun at the Hoover Metropolitan Complex’s Finley Center!

Swag Bag attendeeThe first 200 families that arrived at the Expo received an Expo swag bag packed full of great giveaway items from Expo sponsors.


Title Sponsor White LilyWhite Lily was the Expo’s title sponsor, and their giveaways, including dough scrapers and coupons, were a huge hit with attendees!


Chef Stage Brenda Gantt Chef Stage Danna StandridgeAlfa Farmers Celebrity Chef Stage was a crowd favorite of the day. The lineup of local chefs included Debbie Goldsmith, Lil Bougie Foodie; Karah Skinner, Rock House Farms; Stephen Ritchey, Christo’s Confections; BCF contributor Danna Standridge, author of Happiness is Homemade, Y’all; and Brenda Gantt, Cooking with Brenda Gantt.


Babe Ruff holding dog The Chick-fil-A Herd of Cows  and the Birmingham Barons Babe Ruff visited and danced with Expo attendees. Babe Ruff found a few furry friends to hang out with as well.


Expo BingoEach attendee received an Expo Bingo card when they arrived. Every booth had a special stamp and if attendees filled out their card by by visiting each booth, they were entered to receive great prizes like a Roku Ultra courtesy of WBRC 6 News, Ashley Mac’s gift cards, cases of Bud’s Best Cookies, and much more.


Magic City Big Band 2Live entertainment was provided by Magic City Big Band and Steel City Swing- a huge hit with attendees and mascots.


Chick fil A Herd Kids ZoneChildren enjoyed fossils from the Wonders Center and Science Museum, glitter tattoos from FabUbus, inflatables from Iron City Rental Co., coloring sheets from Linda Harper Music, and balloon twisting from Nunu’s Balloons.


Hoover Belles at entranceThe Hoover Belles joined us for the fun day and welcomed attendees to the Expo.


WBRC green screen prize Janice Rogers on stageMedia sponsor, WBRC 6 News, brought their green screen and prize wheel! WBRC’s Janice Rogers emceed the Alfa Farmer’s Celebrity Chef Stage for the fourth year in a row.


Saved Life ShirtsExpo attendees also had the opportunity to purchase goods from local artisans and vendors, highlighting Birmingham and surrounding-area businesses.


Lil Bougie food truckA big thanks to Eugene’s Hot Chicken, The Lil Bougie Foodie, and Hoover Hotspot for providing Expo attendees with delicious food and treats.


Two by Two SojournAdorable, adoptable dogs and cats with Two by Two Animal Rescue enjoyed lots of attention at the Expo. Several furry friends even found their forever home at the Expo!


Laurie and Mark Harvard on stageThank you to our Expo Emcee Mark Harvard who stepped away from his day job as senior pastor at Morningstar Methodist in Chelsea to announce all the jam-packed Expo activities taking place from 10am-2pm.


Thank you to our Major Sponsors: Alabama Credit Union, Baptist Health, Birmingham Boys Choir, Jimmie Hale Mission, and Leafguard of Alabama; and Event Sponsors: Children’s of Alabama, Parrot Structural Services, Vulcan Termite and Pest Control.

Alabama Credit Union Baptist Health Bham Boys Choir Jimmie Hale Leafguard

 

 

Want to see more photos from the day? Click here to see the full album. Thank you to Jinny Snowden Photo and Elizabeth Grandy Photography for capturing the day.

Watch the video below to hear more from Expo attendees!

 

October

October 2026 Reader Giveaways 

TO SAY THANK YOU for reading and supporting the businesses and organizations that advertise with Birmingham Christian Family(BCF) and make spreading Good News possible, we have THREE Great Giveaways this month!

#1 Tickets to Christmas Village, November 4-8, 2026 at the BJCC

Christmas Village4 Winners, 2 Tickets each! Enter on Facebook and Instagram.

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Offer ends Monday 10/26/26. FOUR Winners announced Tuesday 10/27/26 on Facebook and Instagram so be sure to FOLLOW our Facebook @BirminghamChristianFamily and Instagram @cfpbirmingham pages.


#2 Tickets & Arena Club Passes to COME WORSHIP! Tour with CeCe Winans October 21, 2026 at the BJCC

CeCe Winans on stage
Photo Courtesy Matt Wiley

3 Tickets with Arena Club Passes (complimentary parking and food, exclusive lounge, premium seating, and more!)

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#3 Two VIP Tickets($100 value/front row) to the 9th Annual Holiday Cooking Show November 2, 2026 in Gardendale, gritsandgouda.com.

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Offer ends Wednesday 10/21/26. Winner announced 10/22/26 on Facebook so be sure to FOLLOW our Facebook page, @birminghamchristianfamily.

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Community Buzz 

Mark and Marlys KuehnertMark and Marlys Kuehnert recently celebrated their 65th Wedding Anniversary. They say the secret to a long marriage is to love, laugh and forgive. 


Dog DazeThank you Trussville Chamber of Commerce for an awesome Dog Daze celebration in Trussville.


Pastor Hellmers and wife DeePastor Clifford Hellmers holds a framed copy of a hymn written and sung for him at the recent celebration of he and his wife Dee’s 50 years of ministry at the Lutheran Church of Vestavia Hills. 


Megan Montgomery Foundation check presentation to UAB TheatreThe Megan Montgomery Foundation recently announced their newest grant of $40,000 to UAB’s Department of Theatre to produce “Red Flags,” a theatre production designed to help young people recognize warning signs in relationships and prevent relationship violence. Learn more about the Foundation at the Celebrate the Family Expo.


Owen Weldon throws first pitchOwen Weldon, threw out the first pitch for Birmingham Christian Family at the recent Faith and Family Night at the Birmingham Barons. Owen’s mom Dori is the event coordinator for the Celebrate the Family Expo!


Women's Business Council SummitCOMPACT’s Leah Lightner and T Fox Salon and Spa owner Traci Fox will be two of the women speaking at the upcoming Women’s Business Council of Shelby County Summit October 14, 2026. 


Laurie at Good Day AlabamaBirmingham Christian Family was recently featured on WBRC-TV’s Good Day Alabama and other area news media to share about the Celebrate the Family Expo.

Names of Flight 93 victims

Special Feature

Shepherding Outdoors is not always about adventure. In fact, it’s rarely about adventure. I usually write about faith, family, and life lessons. Here’s an example… a few years ago I took Bay, our oldest daughter, to Washington, D.C. The Shepherding Outdoors effort was to learn about government and civics and freedom. We learned about history and patriotism, too. And most of all, we learned about courage and real American heroes.

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Walt and Bay visited the U.S. Capitol during their trip to Washington, D.C.

On September 11, 2001, the quintessential American heroes revealed themselves over and over again. Countless stories of heroism came from the aftermath at the Twin Towers and the Pentagon. But the bravest of all, in my humble opinion, came from high above the carnage, on United Flight 93. You’ll recall that United Flight 93 departed from Newark, New Jersey in route to San Francisco. Forty-six minutes after take-off, four terrorists took control of the plane. A fifth would be terrorist, Mohammed al-Qahtani, had been denied entrance to the United States a month earlier; otherwise, he too would have been on that plane. His absence may have been what allowed four men the opportunity to become heroes. Tom Burnett, 38, told his wife, “We’re all going to die. There’s three of us who are going to do something about it.” Mark Bingham, 31, told the FBI, through his mother, that the hijackers claimed to have a bomb. The last words Jeremy Glick, 31, said to his spouse were, “We’re going to rush the hijackers.” But it was Todd Beamer, 32, who connected with a GTE supervisor while attempting to reach his pregnant wife, who calmly and decisively uttered the iconic phrase: “Are you guys ready? Let’s roll.”

Walt and Bay at Lincoln Memorial
Walt and Bay visited iconic sites in Washington, D.C. including the Lincoln Memorial.

“Let’s roll.” Oft repeated now as a battle cry, but Todd Beamer offered it otherwise. His tone was calm, collected, and matter of fact. Todd realized the men had to decide… die whilst immobilized by fear, and more people would die too. Or die as heroes and save lives. The choice was easy for Todd and the others. No discussion was needed; it simply was the right thing to do, no matter the sacrifice. For those of you who might be unfamiliar, seconds later, Todd and his team forced their way into the cockpit. Immediately after, the plane nose-dived into a field in Pennsylvania, never reaching its suspected target, the Capitol or the White House. Todd, Tom, Mark, and Jeremy all died that day. They left behind wives and children. A total of forty passengers and crew died in the crash. In truth, we don’t exactly know what happened inside that cockpit. The actual audio from the cockpit voice recorder has never been released to the public. It was played for the families of the passengers by the FBI, and it was offered as evidence against al-Qahtani for his role in helping to plan the attack. There is, though, a transcript of the recording that has been made public. What it reveals is a six-minute-long ordeal where those four heroes fought valiantly to break into the cabin and take back control of the plane. No one knows for certain exactly what happened, but the data tells us that the terrorist rolled the plane, pitched the nose, and slammed up and down, all in an effort to stall the heroes’ entry. The transcripts indicate that the heroes finally made entry into the cabin when one terrorist is heard repeatedly yelling, “Pull it down! Pull it down!” Seconds later, the plane crashed. Did the heroes save the passengers? No. But they saved countless others. 

Names of Flight 93 victims
Here is a photo of part of the plaque in the U.S. Capitol that memorializes the heroes of United Flight 93.

And because they are heroes, they are forever memorialized inside the United States Capitol. Though the nine and ½ foot tall bronze plaque in the East Front Vestibule near the Rotunda, and the recognition it gives, is hardly enough of a tribute, it is fitting that the very place where others would have died but for those heroes now celebrates their bravery and sacrifice.  It reads: “In memory of the passengers and crew of United Airlines Flight 93, whose brave sacrifice on September 11, 2001, not only saved countless lives but may have saved the U.S. Capital from destruction.” And then it lists all of the crew and passengers by name. Todd’s daughter, Morgan, was born four months after he died. She, along with his wife, Lisa, and their two sons David and Drew, are Todd’s most valuable and important legacy, save perhaps his faith. Todd and Lisa taught Sunday school at Princeton Alliance Church for six years and worked in youth ministry. We may not be able to ever say thank you to Todd’s family or any of the other men, for that matter. But we can honor them. They were ordinary citizens, just like you and me. They died to help people, save people, and protect our country. We can learn from their example. “You’re your neighbor” and oppose evil. It’s a pretty simple motto, and if we’d all embrace it, instead of opposing one another, then these United States would truly be “one Nation under God.” Until then, thank you, Todd, Tom, Jeremy, and Mark. “Greater love hath no man than this, that man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).  Bay and I are ready. Are you? Let’s roll.

-Walt Merrell is a Christian Outdoorsman who writes of his adventures with his family, with the hope that others might be inspired and encouraged to embrace God’s tapestry, otherwise known as the great outdoors, as a means of finding Common Ground. You can follow him at Shepherding Outdoors on FB, YT and IG and at shepherdingoutdoors.com.

 

Lady Bean

The Family Pet

“Gray hair is a crown of splendor; it is attained in the way of righteousness.” Proverbs 16:31

Lady Bean with suitcase
Lady Bean’s suitcase is packed, and she is ready to meet you! 

Thinking about adding a puppy to your family? You certainly could. Or… you can bypass all the shenanigans and adopt me, Lady Bean.  My credentials? Impeccable! But let’s go easy with the “Maw Maw” talk. Having a frosted face may qualify me for senior discounts, but just so you know, I have plenty of pep in my step for enjoying strolls and can smoke the kids in a backyard footrace. Friendly from the first hello, popular with dogs, and gentle with the three busy kids in my foster home, I fit in just about anywhere.

Lady Bean
Apply to adopt this sweet girl at twobytworescue.com.

My suitcase is packed, so what do you say to adding a vibrant, petite, seasoned sidekick to your pack? Applications for my Flop, Drop and Roll Belly Rub Club are open. Catch you on the flip side! You can apply to adopt me now at twobytworescue.com. 

You can also meet some of my fellow adoptable friends at the Celebrate the Family Expo brought to you by White Lily on September 12, 2026, from 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Visit birminghamchristian.com/expo for all the details you need.

XXOO,

Lady Bean

White Lily biscuits

Special Feature

Since 1883, White Lily has been a fixture in Southern kitchens, built on a simple promise: bake with history, tradition, and love. Founded in Knoxville, Tenn., the brand’s signature flour is milled from 100% soft red winter wheat, a lower-protein, finer-textured wheat that gives baked goods an unmistakably light, tender crumb that’s difficult to replicate with standard all-purpose flour. It’s the reason generations of Southern bakers have reached for the familiar White Lily bag when the goal is a truly perfect biscuit.

White Lily biscuits
White Lily flour has been a staple in Southern kitchens since 1883. It’s a favorite of our friend Brenda Gantt who will be appearing on the ALFA Farmers Celebrity Chef Stage on September 12 at 1:15 p.m. at the Hoover Met Finley Center.

That reputation isn’t just family lore anymore, it’s now being recognized nationally. White Lily was recently named to Southern Living’s Southern Food Hall of Fame, honored in the “Breakfast of Champions” category alongside other iconic staples of Southern cuisine. As the magazine put it, “Every Southern baker knows that the best biscuits begin with cold butter and White Lily flour.” For a brand whose identity rests on the partnership between simple ingredients and generations of technique, the honor affirms what Southern families have always known.

White Lily’s appeal isn’t only about biscuits, either. Its soft flour is equally at home in cakes and pastries, including the now-legendary pound cake recipes passed down through Southern families for decades, recipes whose signature texture depends on the flour’s unique milling. The brand also produces stone-ground cornmeal mixes, rounding out a pantry staple lineup built for classic Southern baking, from cornbread to biscuits to cakes.

This September, White Lily brings that heritage to Birmingham as Title Sponsor of the 7th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo on Saturday, September 12,  2026, a family-focused event celebrating community, faith, and home. The partnership is a natural one: a brand built on family tradition supporting an event built around family togetherness. 

For families attending the Expo, White Lily will be on-site offering a chance to connect the brand’s century-plus legacy with a new generation of home bakers. Whether it’s a Sunday morning batch of biscuits or a weekend baking project with the kids, White Lily continues to be the flour Southern families trust to turn simple ingredients into something worth gathering around the table for, as it has been for more than 140 years. Find White Lily’s delicious Lemon Pound Cake recipe here. †

 

Danna's grandparents

The Home Front

Everyone needs friends as we travel life’s road. We need friends to connect with, to share with, and to look to during the blessings, trials, and tribulations of life. We need someone to celebrate the good news and someone to comfort us as we mourn the bad. And even when good things are happening, we sometimes need friends to keep us grounded. Back in the 1970’s when I was a child, my Nanny and Papa Swann got a new car- a big shiny red 1974 Cadillac. It was so pretty and much admired all around, as not many people we knew had a car that nice. Word got out in the community that they would be driving it to church on Sunday morning.  

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Danna’s Nanny and Papa, Coy and Lorene Swann, are seen here at a church dinner. They drove their 1974 Cadillac for several years.

Sunday morning arrived, and we gathered to worship our Lord and Savior. It was a beautiful sunny day. After the last amen, church let out. I walked outside with my Nanny, and people were all congratulating her on the new car. She graciously thanked them. As we walked toward their shiny red Cadillac, a crowd had gathered around. Friends and family yelled out: “Coy and Lorene, congratulations on the new car!” “It’s a beauty!” “Now, y’all don’t go getting above your raisin’!” “Y’all will be too good to talk to us with a car that nice!” “My, my, what a beautiful car! I’m so proud for you.” “Let’s get a closer look at it!”

They made way for us to get to the car, and Papa and Nanny were smiling ear to ear. Nanny said, “Do y’all want to see the inside?” And she opened the door. As we were all looking at the beautiful shiny red leather interior, our eyes came to rest on the front seat. What is that? Right on top of the beautiful shiny red leather of the front seat was something brown… Is that what I think it is? On my, it is…It’s a big pile of pooh perched right on the front seat! 

My Nanny and Papa hooted with laughter, and the whole group did too, at the sight of a pile of pooh on the seat of the big red Cadillac. Their friends celebrated with them, congratulated them, and with humor let them know to “not get above their raisin.’”  And thankfully, it was plastic pooh. Please enjoy this recipe that was served at every church dinner.

-Danna Standridge, Author of What’s Cooking with Danna, Y’all? and Happiness is Homemade Y’all! Danna will be on the ALFA Farmers Celebrity Chef Stage at the Celebrate the Family Expo on September 12, 2026 at 12:30 p.m. For speaking engagements and cooking demonstrations, email [email protected]. Join her in the kitchen on Facebook @DannaSwannStandridge and YouTube @dannastandridge8749.

Traditional Southern Deviled Eggs

“You will find these on many-a-Southern table. They are gone in a hurry. Don’t dilly-dally or you won’t get any.”

Deviled EggsIngredients:

  • 6 boiled eggs
  • 3 tablespoons mayonnaise
  • 1 teaspoon yellow mustard
  • 2 tablespoons sweet pickle relish
  • Salt and pepper to taste

Directions:

Boil eggs. Peel. Slice in half lengthwise. Remove yolks to a mixing bowl. With a fork, mash the yolks. Add all the ingredients to the yolks. Stir until smooth. Taste and adjust to your liking. Add a spoonful to each egg white. Garnish with paprika. Serve. Hint: If you are not ready to serve right away, or need to make it a day ahead, store the yolks separately from the whites. On the day of your meal, assemble them.

Amy Sizemore and family

Church Leaders

Each month, Birmingham Christian Family highlights a local church leader who is making a difference in our community. Amy Sizemore has been the Director of Children’s Ministries at Hope Church – A Community Church for more than 18 years. She never anticipated this job but God’s plan for her life was different than hers. 

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Hope Church’s Director of Children’s Ministries Amy Sizemore is seen here with her husband Jamie and their two children. The church has just completed a renovation to the church’s children’s ministries space in order to serve more families.

1. What did your journey look like to your current position in ministry? I began volunteering and working with kids when I was in college. When I graduated high school, I actually thought I was going to be a teacher, but once I started college, I began to doubt myself and wondered if that was really what I was supposed to do. Little did I know then that God had a plan—and there wasn’t anything I could do to stop it! He had placed a calling on my life to work with children; I just didn’t fully understand what that would look like yet. My family moved to Gardendale and began attending HOPE Church, formerly Gardendale-Mt. Vernon. I was volunteering in Children’s Ministry and was serving as the Chairperson of the Children’s Ministry Team. One day, I saw in the church newsletter that they were looking for a receptionist in the church office. So, I applied. Looking back, I can see how God was using that position to prepare me for what was ahead. A few years later, the Children’s Director roll became available. Resumes came in. Interviews happened. All the while, I knew I was supposed to apply for the position. But I came up with every excuse I could think of as to why I shouldn’t- or couldn’t- do it. After a lot of praying and talking with my family and a few close friends, I finally found the courage to go for it. Looking back, I can see that God was working through every step—even the ones I didn’t understand at the time. 

2. How would you describe your church family? Resilient. We’ve had a lot of changes throughout the years. Many ups and many downs. But through all of it God has remained Faithful, and our folks have remained steadfast.

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Hope Church – A Community Church is located at 805 Crest Drive, Gardendale, 35071. To learn more about the church, visit hccommunity.org, call 205-631-7631, or follow on Facebook and Instagram.

3. What is one thing you would like us to know about your congregation? We genuinely care about people. We aren’t perfect, and we don’t have everything figured out, but there is a real desire here to love God, love others, and serve our community. We love people, and our genuine desire is to do our best to help others in need—to truly be the hands and feet of Jesus.

4. What can people expect when they come to worship at your church? Expect a place where everyone is welcomed and has the opportunity to worship in a way that feels meaningful to them. Our church offers both contemporary and traditional worship services, so families can choose the style that best fits them. Regardless of which service you attend, you can expect meaningful worship, a welcoming environment, and most importantly, to hear the Gospel and be reminded of God’s love and grace.

– Learn more about churches in our area, including Hope Church – A Community Church, at BirminghamChristian.com/findachurch. Are you or do you know a Church Leader in Central Alabama we should feature? Click here to complete the Church Leader Q&A.

 

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Special Feature

How often do you look back at the end of the day and think, “Today was a good day. I completed everything on my checklist.” You roll over, kiss your spouse goodnight, then realize quality time and meaningful conversations with your mate never occurred. Your agenda consumes your time and energy. Without fail, the hectic cycle continues. Before you know it, it seems your marriage is tumbling downward because you were not mindful of your mate’s need for companionship.

Drifting Away. Drifting is subtle. Work and home life may appear balanced until you receive an extra work assignment, accept a volunteer opportunity, and join a third Bible study. On-going home duties and scattered outside commitments may overshadow the priority of your marriage. Over time, the needs of your spouse can drift beyond your view. Emotional disconnection is another example of drifting. Words are spoken that hurt to the core, and the one who caused the pain appears unaware of the wound. No compassion is shown. In this situation, the couple should acknowledge the hurt and forgive before the relationship unravels. Is your spouse an afterthought? Inattentiveness, selfishness, and working too much are some reasons couples drift apart. When these behaviors become commonplace, the results can be damaging. Keep in mind your spouse wants to feel more important than your schedule. 

Cruising Toward. Redirect your attention to the basics. Listen and share potential dreams and goals. Have day-to-day and in-depth conversations. Replace boredom with excitement. Try this idea: Create a list of unfulfilled adventures. Put them on the calendar, outline your adventure course, and fulfill them one by one. As couples spend valuable time together, they discover new hobbies while developing memories and intimacy. The anticipation of sharing new and future bonding opportunities escalates to outward expressions of affection. Husbands and wives should also consider their mate’s concerns as they cruise toward togetherness to reap the joys of pleasing their mate. Philippians 2:4 ESV states, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Jesus modeled unselfishness by choosing to deny His will and elevating the needs of sinners above Himself.  Philippians 2:8 ESV says, “And being found in human form, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.” 

Working hard to have a satisfying marriage is worth doing whatever is necessary. When couples choose mindfulness and make themselves available to each other, it produces deep trust and lasting love.

You’re invited to Biblical Marriage Institute’s Benefit Banquet on Thursday, October 8, 2026. Join the movement to leave a legacy for future generations. Click here for details and registration.

-Vanessa M. Jones

Vice President & Co-founder of Biblical Marriage Institute

www.BiblicalMarriageInstitute.org

@biblicalmarriageinstitute

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