Making a Difference One Project at a Time: Project 729

September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Church Leaders

Each month, Birmingham Christian Family highlights a local church leader who is making a difference in our community. Greg Olexa attends Shades Mountain Baptist Church and formed the “Project 729” men’s ministry in 2013 to live out the church’s motto to “Live Sent.”

Project 729 yard work — Project 729 meets each month to bless someone in the community by completing needed repairs including yard work, painting, and light carpentry.

1. What inspired you to start this men’s ministry? I started the group out a desire to get men together in fellowship serving the community. I saw that men were wanting to serve others, but did not seem to have many options that provided a monthly connection opportunity. The men that participate in Project 729 are passionate about serving others in their time of need through yard work, painting and light carpentry repair.

2. What is the significance behind Project 729’s name? The name of the ministry comes from the time focus that has been a large part of the ministry’s success. We start our Saturday monthly project promptly at 7 a.m. and finish promptly at 9 a.m. thus the name Project 729. I found that men don’t mind showing up to a work project if they know what to expect.

Project 729 in action — Project 729 doesn’t require a commitment. They just encourage you to show up if you can.

3. Who does Project 729 serve? The ministry focuses on yard maintenance primarily for widows and the elderly in our congregation, single mothers and those needing a little extra help. We also have committed to a few area schools, and we occasionally assist the Vestavia Hills Police Department with code enforcement needs throughout the Vestavia community. To date, we have completed more than 143 projects in the 13-year period. It has been a very rewarding experience to be a part of serving individuals in our community and to provide a ministry outlet for men who desire to ” Live Sent” together.

4. How has the ministry grown over the years? We currently have 214 men on our email distribution list! We tell the men when the project is, who it will be serving, the location and what tools to bring. We never require a commitment- just show up if you can. We usually have between 15-25 men attend each month.

If you would like to learn more about starting a Project 729 at your church, email Greg Olexa at [email protected].

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September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Business Tips & Tricks from Tanya Luken CPA

If you have ever looked at your profit and loss statement or balance sheet and thought, “I have no idea what this means” – you’re not alone. Plenty of smart business owners feel that way. They started a business because they’re good at what they do, not because they wanted to become accountants.

The problem is that when you don’t understand your financial statements, it’s hard to make confident decisions. You might wonder if you can afford to hire another employee, buy new equipment, or give yourself a raise. Maybe sales are up, but cash is tight. Maybe your bank account looks healthy, but somehow your net income is negative. Those questions create stress, and stress often leads to guesswork.

Here’s the good news: financial statements aren’t meant to confuse you. They’re meant to tell your business’s story. Your profit and loss statement answers one simple question: “Did I make money?” Your balance sheet tells you what you own, what you owe, and what’s left over (equity). Your cash flow helps explain why money in the bank doesn’t always match your profit. Once you understand what each report is saying, you stop reacting and start leading.

You don’t have to memorize accounting rules or learn a new language. Start by reviewing your financial statements every month. Look for trends instead of perfection. Look for numbers that are different; different than last month/quarter/year, different than what you expected. Then ask why it is different. Focus on what is different and ask why.

When your financial statements go from intimidating to understandable, everything changes. You gain confidence, make smarter decisions, and spend less time worrying about what might happen next. Your numbers stop feeling like a mystery and start becoming one of the most valuable tools you have for building a stronger, more successful business.

-Tanya Luken, Luken CPA PC

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503-330-8515

October 14, 2026September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Legal Matters

One of the most common misconceptions I hear about estate planning is that having a will means your family will not have to deal with probate. In Alabama, that is generally not true. A will can make probate easier and more predictable, but the will itself does not avoid the probate process.

So, what is probate? Probate is the court-supervised legal process used to administer certain property after someone dies. When a person dies with a will, the will is typically filed with the probate court and the person named as executor asks the court for authority to administer the estate. Once appointed, the executor, or personal representative, can collect estate assets, address valid debts and expenses, and ultimately distribute the remaining property according to the will. If someone dies without a valid will, the estate may still require probate. The major difference is that Alabama’s intestacy laws, rather than the deceased person’s wishes expressed in a will, determine who receives the probate property and assets.

Not everything necessarily goes through probate. Whether probate is required depends greatly on how a person’s assets are owned. For example, life insurance, retirement accounts, and other accounts with valid beneficiary designations generally pass directly to the named beneficiaries. Certain jointly owned property may also pass automatically to the surviving owner, depending on how title is held. By contrast, property owned solely in the deceased person’s name, with no beneficiary or other method for transferring the property at death, will likely require probate.

Why ownership matters. This is why simply asking, “Do I have a will?” does not tell the entire estate-planning story. An effective estate plan should also consider how real estate is titled, who is named on beneficiary designations, how bank and investment accounts are structured, and whether tools such as a revocable living trust or transfer-on-death arrangements are appropriate.

Probate is not always something to fear. Probate sometimes gets portrayed as something that must be avoided at all costs. That is an overstatement. For many Alabama families, probate is a manageable process. Problems are more likely when there is no plan, important documents cannot be located, family members disagree, property ownership is unclear, or an estate plan has not been updated after significant life changes or passing of time.

A good estate plan is therefore not simply about avoiding probate. It is about making the eventual transfer of your property as clear, efficient, and consistent with your wishes as reasonably possible.

– Grady Carden, Esq.
Carden Legal Services
(205) 201-1297
[email protected]
www.CardenLegal.com

This article provides general educational information and is not a substitute for legal advice regarding a specific situation; it does not create an attorney-client relationship. No representation is made that the quality of the legal services to be performed is greater than the quality of legal services performed by other lawyers.

September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Money Matters

For more than twenty years, I have had the privilege of helping individuals and families make important financial decisions. During that time, I have learned that money is rarely just about money. Our financial choices often reveal what we value, what we fear, whom we trust, and what we believe about the future.

My name is Heath Goodson, and I am the founder of 3C Financial. The three Cs represent Competence, Compassion, and Confidence—qualities I believe people should expect when receiving financial guidance. Before entering the financial industry, I served for several years in pastoral ministry. Although my professional role changed, my desire to serve others did not. Today, my work often brings together financial wisdom, personal values, family relationships, and faith.

That is why I am grateful for the opportunity to contribute this monthly Faith and Finance column to Birmingham Christian Family Magazine. My purpose will be to connect timeless Biblical principles with practical financial wisdom that can help individuals and families make thoughtful, intentional decisions.

In Matthew 6:21, Jesus said, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” This passage reminds us that our money and our hearts are deeply connected. Our treasure often follows the direction of our hearts. Therefore, wise financial stewardship begins by aligning our hearts, priorities, and values with God’s principles. When that alignment occurs, our financial decisions can become an outward reflection of what we truly believe.

This does not mean there is one financial formula for every person. Each family has a unique story, different responsibilities, and a distinct calling. Biblical wisdom provides the foundation, but applying it requires discernment, prayer, honest conversations, and practical planning.

In the months ahead, we will explore how faith can influence the way we think about money, make decisions, prepare for the future, respond to uncertainty, care for others, and define success. Rather than focusing only on accumulation, we will consider how our resources can serve our families, communities, and God’s Kingdom.

My hope is that this column will make financial concepts easier to understand, encourage meaningful reflection, and help readers take their next faithful step with greater clarity and confidence.

– Heath Goodson

Wealth Advisor

205-970-5242

3cfinancial.net

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September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Jessie with Big Oak family on Christmas morning

Miracle Moments

Brought to you by: Community Partner Molly Maid of Birmingham, mollymaid.com/birmingham

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28

I lived with my dad until he left when I was five years old. After losing my dad, my grandmother took care of me for a few years. When I turned 7, she could no longer take care of me, so I ended up moving to Big Oak Ranch.

I still remember the day I met my houseparents, the Jenkins. I was seven years old, and it felt strange that these people I had never met were going to take care of me. It took some time to get used to. The first night I remember sitting at the dinner table together like a family. Everybody was talking, passing food around the table, and asking about my day — it was different from anything I had experienced before. Since I never really had a mom and dad growing up, it was new for me to feel compassion and love from my houseparents. I started trusting the people who were taking care of me and opening up more about what I was feeling. Big Oak Ranch began to feel like home. I spent the long summer days fishing and playing hide-and-seek, basketball, and baseball. I was outside most of the time, just enjoying being a kid. That was new to me because there wasn’t much space to do those kinds of things before coming to the Ranch. Before coming to the Ranch, I had never celebrated Christmas, and it became one of my favorite memories. I remember watching movies, shopping for presents for my house brothers, and spending time together as a family. On Christmas Day, we got to open presents together. Seeing everyone happy and simply being together was really fun and something I’ll never forget.

When I was a sophomore, I lived with new houseparents, BJ and Zach. At first, we didn’t connect very well because I was hard-headed and still learning to trust people. But over time, I saw that they were there for me and weren’t going to give up on me. Today, they are the people I’m closest to. Looking back, I can see how much I grew up and matured during my time at the Ranch. I am very thankful for everyone there. I really don’t know where I would be in life without them.

-Jesi

September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Special Feature

In today’s fast-paced world, it can be difficult to find meaningful ways to slow down and truly connect with the people around us. Between work, school, sports, and endless digital distractions, quality time often takes a back seat. Yet one of the simplest ways to strengthen relationships has been sitting on our shelves all along—a tabletop game.

Women playing game at Tabletop Games — Everyone is invited to enjoy the fun at 10:25 Tabletop Games. Whether you’re coming solo, as a couple, or with family and friends, there is a spot for you.

Over the past several years, tabletop gaming has experienced a remarkable resurgence. Families, friends, coworkers, church groups, and neighbors are rediscovering the joy of gathering around a table to laugh, strategize, and enjoy one another’s company. Unlike screen-based entertainment, tabletop games encourage face-to-face conversation. Players share stories, solve problems together, celebrate victories, and learn to navigate disappointments with good sportsmanship.

Tabletop Games Mural — The mural created by local artist Jennifer Joffrion (L) greets you at 10:25 Tabletop Games and reflects owner Terri Harris’ (R) love of her family history that shaped her business dream. Experience the fun at 507 11th Ave SW, Alabaster.

One local business embracing this growing movement is 10:25 Tabletop Games in Alabaster which was inspired by Hebrews 10:24-25, “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” This faith-based tabletop game café was created with a simple mission: bringing people together. With a library of more than 300 games, the café offers something for every age and experience level. While visitors come to play games, they often leave with something much more valuable—new friendships, deeper conversations, and a renewed sense of community.

Located in a beautifully restored historic home in the Siluria Mill District, 10:25 Tabletop Games provides a warm, welcoming environment where families, friends, church groups, homeschool families, and even first-time visitors can gather around the table. In addition to its extensive game collection, the café hosts community events, tournaments, game nights, and opportunities for people to meet others who share similar interests. To learn more about 10:25 Tabletop Games and find a calendar of events, visit 1025tabletopgames.com or call 205-873-5316. †

September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Special Feature

Is the love in your marriage like an enticing, flavorless entrée, appetizing in appearance yet blah in essence? When you said, “I do,” you thought your marriage would overflow with laughter and good times. You never imagined life would include hum-drum days and not-so-happy nights. Marriage for you would be different. You had dreams of fun adventures and delightful romance with your perfect spouse. Those dreams came true and lasted for a while. Now, boredom has replaced the excitement. Do not be discouraged. With a few proven adjustments, you can revive your marriage.

The Analysis. As an irresistible dessert with the wrong ingredients is disappointing, a marriage without luster is disheartening. Does the love in your marriage resemble a distasteful dish? Is there a lack of interest and a determination to withhold affection? What shifted? Did work or unplanned circumstances create tension? Stress and disappointment can weaken your relationship. Ignored, these disruptors spoil the joy of marriage and lead to isolation, disconnection, and misunderstanding.

The Plan. It is time to prepare. Just as delectable savory dishes need salt, herbs, and spices, marriage needs attention and intentionality. Frequent check-ins are crucial to keep a marriage fresh and healthy. May I offer eight ideas to add flavor to your marriage?

Renew your commitment to Christ and each other.
Talk face-to-face with each other.
Listen to understand.
Forgive.
Encourage and compliment.
Reflect on the good times.
Incorporate purposeful changes.
Extend grace and patience as Christ does toward you.

Christ Jesus is the perfect model and teacher. He left an unforgettable picture of sacrificial love, not framed with mushy feelings. This kind of commitment is sometimes difficult, painful, and susceptible to rejection. The Bible describes love this way: “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). Lean on Christ for help. He cares. He restores unions and makes them new. The psalmist reminds us that God’s love never ends. He writes, “His love endures forever.” (Psalm 136:1). Mix love and patience together and allow the Lord to produce what your marriage needs. A healthy marriage thrives from vigilance and care. So, zest up your marriage and watch Christ restore your relationship into one that gratifies. In time, you will enjoy a marriage that is pleasing to you, your spouse, and the Lord.

You’re invited to Biblical Marriage Institute’s Benefit Banquet on Thursday, October 8, 2026. Join the movement to leave a legacy for future generations. Click here for details and registration.

-Vanessa Jones

Mother, Bible teacher, speaker, and writer

Co-founder and Vice President of Biblical Marriage Institute

BiblicalMarriageInstitute.org

September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Community Buzz

Vapor Ministries recently celebrated the opening of its newest thrift store in Trussville. Shop great deals and pick up your free copy of Birmingham Christian Family magazine at the store on Mary Taylor Road while supporting the ministries’ mission of serving people in extreme poverty around the world.

A big thank you to the media outlets of Birmingham for helping us get the word out about the Celebrate the Family Expo!

A beautiful butterfly release was recently held at Aldridge Gardens to raise awareness for the silent symptoms of ovarian cancer, remember those who have lost their lives and honor those who are battling or have beaten ovarian cancer. Learn more at cureovariancancer.org. Next event Mahjong October 8, 2026.

A big thanks to Birmingham Barons Baseball General Manager John Cook and his team for giving Birmingham Christian Family magazine the opportunity to host Faith & Family Nights again this year.

Been a part of a recent community event or celebrated a milestone?
Send us a photo and a caption to be included in Community Buzz. Email [email protected].

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Healthy Living

Expanding its ability to serve adults who want their Christian faith to be an important part of the counseling they receive, Still Waters Counseling and Education Center has added a pastoral counselor to their team.

Bill Brunson photo — Bill Brunson will offer Biblical and pastoral counseling to adults in person in Mountain Brook and online throughout Alabama.

Bill Brunson brings more than 35 years of ministry experience to Still Waters, having most recently completed a 14- year tenure as senior pastor of Vestavia Hills Methodist Church. “Bill brings an extraordinary depth of pastoral experience, Biblical knowledge, and genuine care for people,” said Beverly Ward, founder and executive director of Still Waters. “He has spent more than three decades walking alongside individuals and families through the joys, questions, and difficult seasons of life. We are honored to welcome him to Still Waters and excited about the support he will provide to our community.”

At Still Waters, Brunson will offer Biblical and pastoral counseling to adults facing the challenges of caregiving, grief, spiritual struggles, relationship concerns, major life transitions, and questions of purpose and direction. He has a special interest in supporting clergy and others serving in ministry roles. “I am grateful for the opportunity to continue serving people through this new role at Still Waters,” Brunson said. “Pastoral counseling provides a place where people can speak honestly about what they are carrying and consider how their faith speaks into the circumstances they are facing. I look forward to walking alongside them with compassion, encouragement, and hope.” To learn more, email [email protected] or call 205-825- 1423. †

October 28, 2026September 28, 2026 by Laurie Stroud

Healthy Living

Brought to you by: Community Partner Still Waters Counseling and Education Center, mystillwaters.org

Caleb saw the giants too. When Moses sent twelve men to explore the land God had promised Israel, they returned with the same report. The land was good. The cities were fortified. The people were powerful. Ten of the spies looked at what stood before them and concluded, “We can’t attack the people because they are stronger than we are” (Numbers 13:31). Caleb saw the same obstacles but reached a different conclusion: “Let’s go up now and take possession of the land because we can certainly conquer it!” (Numbers 13:30). The difference was not what Caleb saw. The difference was how he understood what he saw. God later said of Caleb, “But since my servant Caleb has a different spirit and has followed me completely, I will bring him into the land” (Numbers 14:24).

Maybe you are facing something much bigger than you: an unexpected loss, a relationship you do not know how to repair, a frightening diagnosis, or a season of uncertainty with no clear ending. Sometimes the giants in front of us are very real. Faith does not require us to pretend otherwise. Caleb did not deny the fortified cities or powerful enemies. He refused to let what he could see become more authoritative than what God had said. He saw the obstacles, but also a greater reality: God was with them, and God could be trusted.

Strong faith does not mean we will never feel afraid. David wrote, “When I am afraid, I will trust in you” (Psalm 56:3). Not if I am afraid. When.

Fear and faith can meet in the same moment. The question is which one we will allow to shape how we see what is before us. For those who have placed their faith in Christ, we do not face those moments alone. God has given us His Spirit, who produces in us love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. As we remain rooted in God’s Word and learn to walk by His Spirit, we can increasingly respond to difficulties from what we know about God rather than simply from what we feel.

The giants may be real. The diagnosis may be real. The grief may be real. The uncertainty may be real. But God is real too. And God is bigger. Caleb’s story reminds us that courage is not pretending there is nothing to fear. Sometimes courage is looking honestly at what stands before us and learning to understand it differently, not because the circumstances have changed, but because we remember who God is in the midst of them. The giants don’t always disappear. But with God, they don’t have to define how we understand what we see or determine how we move forward.

–Beverly Ward, EdS, MA, LPC