The Dangers of Distracted Driving

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What is distracted driving? Anything that takes your attention away from the task of driving safely is distracted driving. You cannot drive safely unless driving has your full attention. Any non-driving activity you engage in has the potential of being a distraction and increases your risk of crashing. 

Community Partner 25 YearsTexting and Driving. Cell phones are a great invention that makes it easy to stay connected. However, we need to stay disconnected while driving. The National Safety Council reports that cell phone use while driving leads to 1.6 million crashes each year. One out of every four car accidents in the United States is caused by texting and driving. Answering a text while driving takes your attention away from the road for about five seconds. If you are traveling at 55 miles per hour, that’s enough time to travel the length of a football field! Don’t let a text be the last thing you do. Put away your cell phone while driving. Your life is worth it.

Alcohol and Other Drugs. About one in four teen car crashes involves an underage drinking driver. Every day about 800 people are injured in drunk-driving crashes. Marijuana use is increasing, and 13 percent of weekend nighttime drivers have marijuana in their system. Marijuana users were about 25 percent more likely to be involved in a crash than drivers with no evidence of marijuana use. The most effective way to stop impaired driving is to prevent it from happening in the first place. It’s always a good time to talk to your kids about the dangers of impaired driving by reinforcing expectations. Let them know it’s never okay to get behind the wheel of a motor vehicle while under the influence. Some kids may not know what to do if a friend or family member who is under the influence of alcohol or other drugs offers them a ride. Explain that it’s okay to say no, and help think through an exit strategy.

Passengers and Other Distractions. According to the AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety, passengers are one of the most reported causes of distractions. With young children being four times as distracting as adults and infants being eight times more distracting, you need to train yourself to be considerate of everyone’s safety. Eating, reading, watching a video, or even adjusting the radio can all be very dangerous distractions while driving. When we divide our attention, we put everyone’s life in danger.

Visit Compact on Facebook @compact2020 to find more tips and facts from Officer Schniper all month long. To read other articles like this one, visit www.BirminghamChristian.com/COMPACT. †


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Hearts of Hope Luncheon

Mission Makers

“Give God the right to direct your life, and He will pull it off perfectly.” These are the words of Heather Dotson, who shared her story of restoration at the recent Foundry Ministries’ 19th Annual Hearts of Hope Banquet. The event celebrates the journey of transformation women go through in the Foundry Ministries Women’s program.

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Heather Dotson inspired the audience at the recent Hearts of Hope Banquet hosted by The Foundry Ministries.

Program Director Tawana Pendley explains, “There are two types of pain. The pain that leads to victory, which is the pain you experience while in recovery where you deal with hard topics. But there is also the pain of regret, staying in the pain of addiction…a lot of people don’t want to start it because you know it’s a painful process. But once you get through that pain there is victory on the other side of the pain. There is redemption. There is reuniting of your family. There are the things that you thought were forever lost that there is still hope for on the other side of the pain. Or you stay in the pain that leads to regret and that pain leaves you in that cycle of shame, guilt, and frustration that keeps you in that addiction.”

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Dotson is seen here with Birmingham Christian Family Publisher Laurie Franklin.

Dotson chose to face the pain. “I want to let people know that you don’t have to strive for the love of God because it’s unconditional. It’s not changing but we can change,” says Dotson who had spent years serving in ministry but “got on a cycle of just work, work, work and then a big life situation and I just hit a wall…I didn’t take time off and I found myself relaxing and using wine to do that.” The women’s program team shares, “It is about stepping out of those false identities and into the truth of who God says we are. In His light, the weight of shame, fear and failure is lifted, and a new path is revealed- a path of redemption, healing and purpose.” After graduating from the nine month program last year, Dotson chose to make Birmingham her home. “I bought a home here. I have a wonderful job and a great family system. I just can’t imagine Him pulling it off more perfectly.”

Volunteering where she found hope is a priority for Dotson. Each week she leads an evening Bible study for the women in the program as well as facilitating an early morning small group. “I want to encourage them,” she says adding that the volunteering helps keep her in a place of restoration as well. Learn more about the Foundry Ministries Women’s Program and other programs offered by the Foundry at www.foundryministries.com. †

Watch the video below to hear from Heather Dotson about how God used the Foundry Ministries women’s program to bring healing in her life and allow her to help others.

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Healthy Living

Struggling with your hair this spring? Wanting healthier hair and an updated look?

We’ve got you covered! T. Fox SalonSpa in Hoover is celebrating 16 years of specializing in hair care and offers these 4 Spring Time Tips:

Color Image1. Update your Color and Cut with Seasonal Trends


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Ivanti image4. Reduce Hair Loss by 77% with Aveda Invati System

Watch this video for more details on seasonal hair trends and a virtual tour of T. Fox SalonSpa.

Going the Extra Mile. The T. Fox team has special expertise and a heart for working with cancer patients experiencing hair loss. Their Aveda Invati Ultra Advanced hair system thickens hair, stimulates scalp for hair growth, reduces hair loss up to 77%, adds instant shine and is 100% vegan.

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Members of the T. Fox team with cancer survivor and client, Ashlee Milstead, who has been ministered to through the Fox Box Initiative.

Fox’s team has also established “The Fox Box,” a “doers of the Word” ministry of love and compassion for local cancer patients and care givers. “We collect money for local cancer patients going through chemotherapy and give them a salon and spa services gift card and organic Aveda products.” The Fox Box is 100% funded by the stylists and customers. Owner Traci Fox has also chosen to give back to her community by establishing the Hoover Small Business Alliance which connects local small business owners so they can help each other succeed in serving.

Over its past 16 years in business, T. Fox Salon has been recognized numerous times for outstanding service by being named a Top 200 Salon in North America by Salon Today, two time Small Business of the Year, Best of the Best in Shelby County and Best of Hoover. Visit www.tfoxsalon.com to learn more about T.Fox Salon Spa services and to make an appointment. You can also call 205-403-8368 or stop by and see them at 2080 Valleydale Road, Hoover, 35244.

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Walt with Banks

The Great Outdoors

Cape, our tall and confident 6-year-old middle daughter, stood up the hill from us watching curiously as I wrapped a chain around some shrubs. Banks, our youngest and a toddler at the time tumbled out from around the corner of the house like a clumsy puppy. She peeked around behind Cape to watch as her mom and I cleared some underbrush from near the house. I gave a thumbs up to wife Hannah and she eased the truck forward, tightening the chain and pulling the shrubs up from their clenched roots.  

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During the yellow jacket attack, Walt’s middle daughter Cape rushed her younger sister, Banks to the safety of the house.

“What are you doing, you nut?” Hannah laughingly hollered at Banks as she got out of the truck. She laughed and giggled. Cape did too. Banks stood naked as a jaybird. Slightly embarrassed, she sheepishly tucked her chin into her shoulders to suggest her modesty. I crawled under the next layer of privet branches and began wrapping the chain again. Hannah continued to laugh with the girls as she got out of the truck, now parked just downhill from me. Cape and Banks stood on the worn path. Both of them were barefooted, so they were reluctant to step off the path and into the brushy side yard. Such is life, isn’t it? The choice often seems to be whether to stay on the path or not.

Down on all fours, I wrapped the chain twice around the clump of privet trunks and heard a familiar buzzing in my ear. In the blink of an eye, I looked up to see the girls, a mere 20 feet away, and then looked down to where my hands pressed hard against the earth. The ground boiled between my hands, and before I could utter a word, the first golden-striped defender sank his spear deep into my ear lobe. Leaping to my feet, the swarm ensnared me. Yellow jackets swirled all around my head and locked their mandibles into my skin, hair, and clothes as they stabbed their venomous spears into my skin again and again. I hollered “RUN” but stood motionless. I couldn’t go up the hill because that was where Cape and baby Banks stood, still naked as the day she was born. I couldn’t run down the hill because that was where Hannah was, perched in the debate of whether she should come to my aid or seek safety inside the truck.  “Get in the truck,” I yelled. As I turned, I saw Cape scoop Banks up into her arms and run around the corner of the house. Subconsciously, I prayed that she took her inside to safety.  

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Walt and Hannah Merrell spending quality time with their youngest daughter, Banks.

And then I took my own advice and ran. It all happened in a flash. No more than six or eight seconds from beginning to end and then I ran like the wind. Like the Flash, as fast as I could all the way around the house. And, like the groom on his wedding night, I tore clothes from my body as I turned each corner.  Rounding the last, I stripped the remainder of my yellow jacket infested clothes and dashed inside. Hannah had found her way through another door and met me as I entered. She crushed a few of the marauders in my hair and stomped a few that she had swatted away. I collapsed onto the couch. Thirteen times, those yellow jackets found their mark- mostly around my head and neck. But I was thankful. Neither Banks nor Cape had been stung, and Hannah managed to avoid the swarm’s wrath too. A few minutes later we all stood perched in the window overlooking the hive. The swarm circled some ten feet up from the ground and thousands of yellow jackets darkened the sky.

“He was surely with us, wasn’t He,” Hannah remarked as she held Banks on her hip. Pulling Cape close to my side, I patted her on the back and responded, “Yes, He was.” And He is, friends. Waiting at every opportunity in the world are the yellow jackets of life.  He goes before us- “and He will make straight your paths” (Proverbs 3:6).   The girls stayed on the path that morning, and He protected them. He’ll do the same for us in life when we “acknowledge Him in all our ways.”  The path may be bumpy. It may be rough. It might get muddy, or it might get tough. But stick to the path of His will for your life, and He will go before you and make it straight. 

-Walt Merrell is a Christian Outdoorsman who writes of his adventures with his family, with the hope that others might be inspired and encouraged to embrace God’s tapestry, otherwise known as the great outdoors, as a means of finding Common Ground. You can follow him at Shepherding Outdoors on FB, YT and IG and at shepherdingoutdoors.com. His most recent book is available at shepherdingbook.com. Read his faith story at www.BirminghamChristian.com.

 

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The Home Front

The families of Alabama have seen many glory days in times past for which we are thankful. We have been blessed often with “times of plenty.” However, with Southern tenacity, true grit, and determination, our families have also made it through some mighty tough times. After visiting with my Great-Aunt Sue Shipp, I learned that World War I and II were times that our Southern tenacity came to the forefront. Due to rationing, our grandmothers had to figure out how to put delicious food on the table without having access to the usual ingredients. 

Peanut Butter Balls
Danna has several delicious dessert recipes that egg-free including her Peanut Butter Balls.

That brings me to our current situation. The bird flu is wreaking havoc on our chicken population. It is affecting our lives with great impact.  From farmers to consumers, we are all struggling in our scramble for eggs. It has surely affected the price of eggs and the quantity of eggs available. My how times change. What used to be an inexpensive ingredient has now become the “golden egg.” Think of all the wonderful uses of “the golden egg:” scrambled, fried, folded in an omelet, baked in a cake, in the filling of lasagna, custard pies, cookies… the delicious list goes on and on. While we long for the day when eggs are abundant again, let’s take a page from our Southern grandmothers and make our family delicious treats that are egg-free. Here are a few of my recipes that will soon become your new family favorites.

-Danna Standridge

Author of Happiness is Homemade Y’all! 

Read her faith story at www.birminghamchristian.com/issues.

Join her in the kitchen on Facebook and YouTube.

Peanut Butter Balls 

No bake, easy, and disappear fast!

Ingredients:

  • 12 oz. peanut butter
  • 16 oz. confectioner sugar
  • 1 ½ sticks butter, melted
  • 1 box graham cracker crumbs
  • Roll the balls into any of the following: Coconut, crushed peanuts, melted chocolate, crushed graham cracker crumbs, chocolate chips, or powdered sugar.

Instructions:

Mix together the sugar, graham cracker crumbs, butter, and peanut butter. Scoop about a tablespoon of dough and roll into balls. You can make them smaller if you desire. Next, roll them in your chosen ingredients. Our family favorites are powdered sugar and crushed peanuts and mini chocolate chips.  Place on a beautiful platter or a favorite dish and serve your loved ones.

Cinnamon Toffee Crunch

From Mrs. Connie Oberneufemann, my friend from Illinois, who shares the very best recipes with me! This is divine, and I predict will be a new family favorite!

Ingredients:

  • 4 Cups Cinnamon Toast Crunch Cereal
  • 1 stick butter
  • 1 cup brown sugar, packed
  • 1 bag semisweet chocolate chips, 12 oz.
  • ¾ cup chopped pecans

Instructions: 

Heat the oven to 350 degrees. Line a 15 x10x1 baking sheet with aluminum foil. Spray the foil with cooking spray. Spread the cereal evenly over the pan. In a 2-quart saucepan, heat the butter and brown sugar. Using a whisk, mix the butter and brown sugar till the butter melts. Heat to boiling over medium-high heat, stirring occasionally. Reduce to medium and boil for 2 minutes without stirring. Immediately pour mixture evenly over the cereal. Bake for 12 minutes at 350 degrees. Sprinkle chocolate chips over it and let them melt for 5 minutes. Spread chocolate over the top and sprinkle with pecans. Cool completely about 1 hour. Place in refrigerator for 20 minutes to set the chocolate. Break into pieces. Store covered in the refrigerator up to 1 week.

Chocolate Peanut Butter Bars

My very favorite recipe from my high school lunchroom lady! These got me through many-a-day when I was in school. They called them Reese Squares.

Ingredients:

  • 12 oz. peanut butter
  • 16 oz. confectioner sugar
  • 1 ½ sticks butter, softened
  • 1 box graham cracker crumbs
  • 12 oz. chocolate chips
  • 1 Tablespoon peanut butter

Instructions:

Melt butter. Mix with sugar, graham cracker crumbs and peanut butter. Press into 9×13 dish. Melt chocolate chips and peanut butter. Pour over peanut butter mixture and spread. Refrigerate 2 hours. Cut and serve.

0325 Best Books Its a Good Day to be a Teacher

Best Books 

Teachers, Refresh and Refocus Your Teaching Heart. Today’s educators face unprecedented challenges in and out of the classroom. Teachers, paraprofessionals, administrators, and special education teams need more than a few words of encouragement and a pat on the back. 

Divided into four terms- fall, winter, spring, and summer- It’s a Good Day to Be a Teacher by Gretchen Huesmann targets the trials and joys educators encounter year-round. The weekly devotions provide:

  • Spiritual insights and inspiration 
  • Courage to continue the calling
  • Practical steps for application
  • Additional suggestions for deeper study
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In addition to her latest book release It’s a Good Day to be a Teacher, Gretchen Huesmann’s e-book, Teachers’ Prayer Companion: Prayer Guides for Education Teams, can be found here.

Teachers who use the tools of God’s Word and prayer will be encouraged and empowered as they witness God at work in their students, classrooms, and schools. It’s a Good Day to be a Teacher helps educators teach from a place of purpose and peace and provides hope and strength to teach another day. Huesmann comes from a long line of educators, including both parents and grandparents. Her three-decade teaching career, in private and public schools, spanned seven states. Today, she enjoys mentoring and encouraging educators, ministry workers, and women’s groups. She is also a tutor and a substitute teacher. She is a member of Word Weavers International and serves as president of the Pensacola chapter. Huesmann and her pastor husband have raised four children, three of whom are teachers. Their empty nest sits near the gulf shores of northwest Florida. It’s a Good Day to be a Teacher releases on March 25, 2025. One reviewer says: 

“Educators have one of the hardest roles in society. Huesmann meets readers where they are with Biblically sound reminders that God is with teachers in the midst of their day. With this book on your desk, you’re sure to feel every day is a good day to be a teacher.” –Tez Brooks, former Communications Leader for Intl. School Project and author of YouVersion’s Hope for School Teachers

To learn more about It’s a Good Day to be a Teacher, visit shop.ironstreammedia.com. †

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Special Feature

You place an order at the drive-through, the cashier verifies it, you leave, and then realize something is missing. How do you respond? Do you go back and share a few choice words with the cashier, ask to speak with the manager, or conclude, “They are having a bad day,” and pray for them? Exceptional customer service in the marketplace is honorable and rare. However, selfless service in marriage should be abundant. Serving your spouse well provides great fulfillment. And yet, choosing to help is sometimes inconvenient, humbling, and thankless. With this in mind, which category below reflects your demeanor?

Self-Serve. Do you wake up and plan your day around your needs and desires? Do you offer assistance only when it benefits you? Does your spouse hesitate to ask for help because they believe you will refuse or procrastinate? The Bible says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:3-4 ESV).

Full-Service. Do you give your best without holding back? Do you offer assistance before being asked? For example, do you help put away the laundry or wash the truck? Serving your spouse includes listening and talking, working alongside them, and giving them space. It is not degrading or enslaving. Some of life’s greatest joys come from sacrificing your desires for the benefit of others. In John 13:5, Jesus demonstrates how to serve by washing His disciples’ feet and then drying them with a towel from His waist. Washing feet was the duty of the lowest servants. Jesus chose to identify with the “least of these.”

God’s holy and beloved Son, Jesus, came as a humble servant. He could have demanded that people serve Him. Instead, He served with love. Matthew 20:28 states, “Just as the Son of Man [Jesus] did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” The principle of serving is about showing honor. In marriage, you have many opportunities to serve. Show your care for your spouse by asking, “How can I help you today?” You display Christ’s character when you follow His example, as noted in Colossians 3:23-24. When you serve your spouse with love, without any requirements or expectations, you are serving Christ. Serve with honor!

-Vanessa M. Jones

Vice President & Co-founder of Biblical Marriage Institute

BiblicalMarriageInstitute.org

@biblicalmarriageinstitute

People standing in front of cross

Encouraging Word

In Matthew 16:24, Jesus said a requirement to being a disciple was to follow Him. To follow means to go behind, to move in the same direction as someone, to accompany someone on a journey, and to pursue. I believe four things are necessary to follow Christ: faith in Christ; focus; forfeiting your will; and faithfulness.

1. Faith in Christ. You must place your faith in Christ (John 3:16). This means you repent of your sin and believe the Gospel (Mark 1:15). You receive Jesus Christ as your Savior (John 3:3) and Lord (Romans 10:9, 13).

2. Focus. You also need to focus on Jesus. Focusing is directing your attention toward a specific object or goal, looking intently, and concentrating on it. Hebrews 12:2 says,“Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith…” To follow you must both concentrate on and move in the same direction.

3. Forfeit. To follow Christ, you must forfeit your will. To forfeit means to give up something, to yield, submit, or surrender. To follow Christ, we can’t go our own way. We surrender our will to Jesus. We pray the prayer that Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane,“Father, not My will, but Your will be done.” Jesus is our guide, and we follow His path.

4. Faithfulness. Following Christ requires faithfulness. Being faithful means to be loyal, reliable, steadfast, and unwavering. Being a follower of Christ means to be committed, dedicated, disciplined, and determined.  

The goal of following Christ is to become more like Him. Romans 8:29 says that God’s will is for us to be conformed to the image of His Son. Let me encourage you to be a Christ follower. Jesus came that you might have life and have it more abundantly (John 10:10).

-Tony Cooper

Director Emeritus of Jimmie Hale Mission

www.jimmiehalemission.com

No Address

Special Feature

Combining an interesting drama with an important social issue can be difficult. However, the February 28, 2025 film release, No Address, has done just that. No Address is a story about a small group of individuals who live in a homeless encampment. It shares their backstories, what life on the streets is like, and services that help them.

No Address Poster
No Address releases in theaters nationwide on February 28, 2025.

Though the film is a work of fiction, a great deal of research went into making sure of the film’s accuracy. “One of our main goals was to ensure its authenticity, knowing intimately the ins and outs of those experiencing homelessness. We wanted to make sure that this truly depicted the bleak realities of homelessness, but also the hopefulness and the wonderful programs that are out there that help people out of the situation,” said Jennifer Stolo, CEO of Robert Craig Films and whose husband runs a homeless shelter, adding, “What we decided to do is embark on a bus tour across the United States in order to study and really research what we call ‘the American crisis.’’’ 

Once all the research was completed, a delay in production meant the film couldn’t begin when planned. The team decided to use the knowledge already gained to make a documentary, “Americans with No Address.” After production finally started, a book by Ken Abraham titled No Address, was written. An audiobook and a soundtrack for the film were later added, as well as an interactive study guide to learn more about the issue and what can be done. These five facets make up the components of the No Address Movement that is increasing awareness and inspiring action for a problem that most people don’t know how to help.

Jennifer Stolo
No Address Producer Jennifer Stolo stated that one of the main goals of the film was to “ensure its authenticity.”

Stolo had some advice for those who want to help but don’t know how. “I so encourage people, if they would spend one hour in a shelter, sitting at a table, having a conversation with someone to learn their backstory, they would walk out of there a completely different person. Even one interaction of saying hello can change someone’s trajectory of life.” Not only can a family (teens and up) who attends a showing of No Address learn about homelessness through a compelling story line, 50% of the profits from any of the “No Address” media will go to over 1,000 organizations that help the homeless in their communities. Local opportunities to volunteer to help the homeless include Brother Bryan Mission, Jimmie Hale Mission, and The Foundry. To find out more about the film, go to www.noaddressmovie.com

Tracy Riggs Frontz, Writer and Photographer

Owner of Novel Photos

www.NovelPhotos.com

[email protected] 

 

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