Parenting Points
If your child will have a long-term faith, faith must become their own. We know that faith in Jesus is a personal thing that cannot be received through merely being in a Christian environment or being raised by Christian parents. It takes intentionality to help your kids develop their own faith.
Model an Authentic Walk with Jesus Before Your Kids. Your kids are looking not for perfect examples but for living examples, so live your faith out before them authentically. Kids and teenagers learn a lot from seeing their parents pray, read the Bible, and serve others with love and humility. Authenticity in your spiritual life sets a powerful example and shows that faith is not just a Sunday activity but a daily commitment.
Give Kids Space to Explore Faith on Their Own Terms. Encourage open dialogue about spiritual doubts, questions, and different perspectives. When kids feel safe to express their honest thoughts, they are more likely to develop a personal conviction rather than simply following what they’ve been told. Supporting them in seeking answers- whether through Bible study, mentorship, or reading Christian books- fosters a sense of ownership over their faith journey.
Help Kids Find Spiritual Practices to Connect with God that Resonate with Them. It’s important that kids learn ways to connect with God that fit their personalities and passions. When kids actively participate in faith-based activities they enjoy, they develop habits that strengthen their connection with God. Encourage them to set aside time daily or weekly for prayer and reflection, turning faith from an obligation into a meaningful, personal experience.
Pray for Your Kids to Develop Their Own Faith. Pray for wisdom, discernment, and strength as they navigate their spiritual journey. Let them know you believe in their ability to develop their own relationship with God. Often, knowing they are supported and loved unconditionally encourages teens to grow in confidence and independence in their faith.
Encouraging faith ownership isn’t about letting go entirely but guiding teens to discover a Christ-centered life that is truly their own. When they develop a personal relationship with God, their faith becomes a guiding light that sustains them through every season. They will be equipped and empowered to walk with Jesus out of your house and into all the stages of life God has for them.
Director of European Expansion for First Priority Global Ministries