All Things New at Big Oak Ranch

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Miracle Moments

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“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” 2 Corinthians 5:17 

My parents divorced when I was young, and my mother was granted full custody. She married an alcoholic who sexually molested me. Fortunately, my kindergarten teacher noticed the signs of abuse and asked if I was being hurt. DHR was called, and I was immediately placed in my father’s custody. In the beginning, living with my dad and new stepmother was great, and I felt safe. However, the relationship between them and my mother was contentious. Over the years, those bitter ongoing conflicts took their toll. As a result, things with my stepmother rapidly deteriorated. Her mounting mental health crisis caused disagreements between us to escalate and eventually led to a physical altercation that prompted me to ask my dad if I could leave. 

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The Rowell family lives in Pell City, Ala. Amanda is a full-time mom and a freelance writer for Big Oak.

The years at Big Oak Ranch were healing. I developed close bonds with my houseparents and ranch siblings. I thrived at Westbrook Christian School and made friendships I keep to this day. I excelled at sports and loved being part of the youth group at our church. It salvaged what was left of my childhood and taught me that the generational curses that wounded me didn’t have to be left unhealed to bleed onto my children. After I left the Ranch, I made some decisions that went against what I had learned there. I had a daughter out of wedlock and then entered an unhealthy relationship with an alcoholic who exhibited abusive behaviors. One particularly hard night, I felt the sweet voice of the Holy Spirit say, “You are repeating the very things I delivered you from.” And I was. With His guidance, I left that relationship. I started all over again as a single mom until I met the man that came in like warm sunshine after a long rain. Lance loved my little girl as his own from the day he laid eyes on her, and seeing their relationship grow allowed me to begin to forgive my own early mistakes as her mother. We are now married and have added two (soon to be 3) more children to our family. Gracelyn (15), August (3), Junah (2) and our baby that is due this summer have parents that have committed to being spiritually and emotionally healthy. We are firmly rooted at Victory Church in Pell City, where we also live. Big Oak was the vessel Jesus used to show me what He could do through a healthy family that served and loved Him. The Ranch’s legacy through me is my deep unyielding heart for Jesus, my beautiful marriage and my precious babies. The greatest “thank you” that I can ever hope to give to Big Oak is to raise a generation that will never need the Ranch for themselves. Instead, maybe they will have hearts and hands to one day serve those, like their mama, that find their home there.

-Amanda Rowell

Big Oak Girls’ Ranch Former Resident

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Healthy Living 

Community Partner 25 yearsBrought to you by: Community Partner Compact, compact2020.com 

How big of a risk is alcohol use among teens? To illustrate the extent of alcohol misuse and abuse among teens and young adults in the United States, consider this:

Alcohol is the most widely used substance by teens and young adults. 14 years old is the average age of a teen’s first drink. 90% of underage drinking is in the form of binge drinking and 11% of the alcohol consumed in the United States is by people age 12 to 20 years old. 

These facts aren’t an attempt to demonize alcohol, which aside from being legal has deep ties to rites of passage and celebratory occasions. The facts are presented to make the point that alcohol misuse and abuse can be just as debilitating to someone as harder drugs, especially to teens whose bodies are still developing.

What are some of the health effects of regular heavy drinking? Even though alcohol causes euphoria and relaxation in most people, drinking can magnify existing problems with anxiety, depression, and anger. After a night of heavy drinking, the hangover effect occurs. Aside from headaches and upset stomachs, the hangover effect can cause difficulty concentrating, mood swings, and unexplained feelings of anxiety and depression. If drinking is a daily occurrence, these emotions are something some people deal with every day. 

There is also a strong connection between suicidal thoughts and heavy drinking. Lowered inhibitions and intense emotions brought about by alcohol can cause many people to attempt and/or commit suicide. Long-term effects of heavy drinking can cause havoc on physical health. Damage to the liver, heart, and brain can all occur. It can also cause high blood pressure, stroke and multiple types of cancer. Underage drinking is a primary contributor to death from injury which includes drunk driving. When someone self medicates with a substance, they can end up stifling thoughts and emotions that need to be worked through. There is no such thing as drinking problems away. All of those thoughts and emotions will eventually come back and need to be dealt with one day. If you need help with a drinking problem, talk to a family member or friend or someone in the addiction health field. Don’t go this alone; there are people out there to help. All you need to do is ask.

Visit Compact on Facebook @compact2020 to find more tips and facts from Officer Schniper all month long. To read other articles like this one, visit www.BirminghamChristian.com/COMPACT. †


Did you know COMPACT offers free prevention, intervention, and education for Shelby County students and parents on difficult topics and issues like substance misuse, truancy, behavioral issues, and more? Click to fill out a referral form

 

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The Great Outdoors

As a freshman at the University of Montevallo, I knew that the proximity to Lay Lake and my grandfather’s old house would be a draw for me during the doldrums of college study. Little did I know though, that my occasional angler protests of attendance to early morning classes during the summer terms, would give rise to a most memorable experience that had little to do with fishing. Marvin Merrell, my Paw Paw, owned a general store in Fayetteville. I still occasionally meet folks who speak fondly of him. He was a great man to me. I have great memories of fishing from his little “john boat” and the end of his pier. He taught me much about Lay Lake, fishing, and life. It was an hour or more to drive to the boat launch just upriver from Paw Paw’s old house. I liked to fish in that area because it was familiar and special. Seeing the old train trussell bed dissolve underneath the water reminded me of times he and I fished in the same spot. Cast after cast, the fisherman of my college days spent plenty of time reminiscing about the days of my childhood spent with him.

Walt Merrell fishing as a child
I’ve lost count of the fish we caught and the memories we made. I honestly only remember a few times now… time overtakes me.

I wasn’t all that good of a fisherman, but time poorly invested on the water was much preferred to time more properly spent in Roy Lechtreck’s 8 a.m. Political Science class. I often told my buddies “I am protesting!” Professor Roy, as students referred to him, often taught of protests and civil unrest. I thought it fitting to occasionally protest his class in the name of Angler Advocacy. The Bassmaster himself, Montgomery native Ray Scott, would be proud! On one morning of protesting, my yellow-hulled 14-foot “beater” boat cut a slice through the mirrored glass surface of the lake. I craned my neck trying to gain a better line of sight as the old black and blue, 20-horsepower Mercury pushed the boat. I headed toward the cove that Paw Paw called Kelley Branch. The pollen lay heavy on the water at the mouth of the cove, and I knew that meant no boats had been there yet. Slowing to an idle on my approach, I didn’t want to throw a wake up and into the cove. At idle, a deep rumble reverberated from the stern, and fear quickly set in. Turning to see what acid-refluxed bowel movement had just emerged from my old and ragged outboard, I fully expected to find smoke or worse. Instead, nothing. Still, the rumble and gurgle grew stronger and stronger. I cut the motor off completely to avoid further damage and the rumble persisted.

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I’ll never forget how my Paw Paw made me feel on those afternoon fishing trips. It wasn’t as much about fishing as it was about life. He sharpened me. Proverbs 27:17.

Searching the far end of the lake, I fully expected to see the Loch Ness monster or a nuclear submarine, or more likely, I feared a larger and faster boat running straight toward me. Much to my disbelief, three C-130 Hercules planes rounded the lower bend, roaring at full throttle a mere 100 feet above the water. Like synchronized swimmers, the pilots mirrored each other’s zig and zags as they snaked up the riverbank. Within moments, they were upon me. The four turboprop engines rattled the bolts in my old boat and reverberated their tones through my chest. I was in awe, as I strained my neck trying to catch every glimpse. “Stand up, boy,” I heard over the encroaching sound scream… “Yes, sir,” I responded out loud. And I did, and I saluted, as the planes flew close enough that I ducked slightly. For whatever reason, I imagined my Paw Paw’s voice of 15 years earlier, as he had commanded me to stand at the passing of a column of “army vehicles” near the filling station as we gassed up his old El Camino. I was five years old. I saluted then, too. I was never in the military. I don’t know why I saluted… except to show respect and appreciation – because I do. God bless you men and women who fight to preserve our freedoms- especially our freedom to worship free from government intrusion. And God bless Israel, too. I stand for America, and I stand with Israel.

-Walt Merrell

A Christian Outdoorsman who writes of his adventures with his family, with the hope that others might be inspired and encouraged to embrace God’s tapestry, otherwise known as the great outdoors, as a means of finding Common Ground. You can follow him at Shepherding Outdoors on FB, YT and IG and at shepherdingoutdoors.com. His most recent book is available at shepherdingbook.com. Read his faith story at www.BirminghamChristian.com

 

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The Home Front

The month of June in Alabama ushers in the hot, humid, sticky days of summer. Being the resourceful people that we Southerners are, we have passed down unique and delicious ways to cool off in the Alabama sun. When you pull up at a large family gathering, you will always find a big making of homemade ice cream sitting in the ice cream freezer and a bunch of watermelons cooling under the big shade tree in the yard. And you just know – it’s about to get good!

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Homemade ice cream is a great way to cool off from the summer heat while making memories with your family.

Now, the homemade ice cream is always a highlight and the cooks in the family pull out their best ice cream recipes to cool off the crew. Of course, the larger the gathering, the more ice cream freezers will be dusted off and pulled out of the pantry, and the more intense the rivalry among the cooks will be to make the very best bite of the cool concoction. Back in the day, we kids were a big part of the ice cream making. Our moms would mix up their very best recipe and hand it off to our dads who would work their magic with the ice and the salt to bring it together. And, we children would take turns sitting atop the hand-cranked ice cream freezers to help hold them steady as our fathers and older brothers took a turn at the crank. We would perch atop the newspapers placed atop the ice cream freezer and listen to the family stories and stay there till we got too cold, then another eager cousin would take our place. So, the ice cream cooled us off in more ways than one!

If we didn’t get sticky enough with the ice cream, the watermelons would surely do the trick. The dads would cut them in wedges and parcel them out so we could enjoy the best watermelon of the year. The beautiful red juice would drip down our arms as we tasted the sweet delight that only a bite of watermelon can give on a hot summer day. To treat your family to this local tradition, you can find the very best Alabama watermelons, milk, or cream from local farms, by checking out  www.sweetgrownalabama.org

Danna Standridge holding ice cream

Sweet Grown Alabama logo-Danna Standridge

Author of Happiness is Homemade Y’all! and 2024 Sweet Grown Alabama Ambassador 

Read her faith story here.

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Enjoy this very easy recipe to my family’s favorite ice cream. You can find it in my cookbook, Happiness is Homemade, Y’all! It’s available on Amazon

Ice Cream IngredientsDanna’s Frosty Homemade Ice Cream 

Ingredients:

1 can sweetened condensed milk

1 small cool whip

½ gallon chocolate milk

½ cup whipping cream

Ice cream in cups on trayMilk

Ice

Salt

Equipment:

Ice cream maker

Instructions:

*Do not mix this in a bowl. Add it directly to your freeze container. It will not freeze correctly if you premix it. You don’t even have to stir it. Let the freezer do the work for you. Add the first four ingredients to the freezer. Add enough milk to the fill line. Follow your ice cream maker directions. Enjoy!

Two by Two Rescue cat Whiskers

The Family Pet

As a child, my grandmother always used to say that a house is not a home without a cat. My mom was terrified of cats at the time, so in hindsight, it may have been a subtle dig towards Mom for stealing away her favorite son. Nevertheless, her words stuck with me. Eventually, we convinced my mom to get a cat and the juxtaposition between cat behavior and dog behavior was not only vast but also entertaining. Cats can love so fiercely in one moment and then revert to plotting world domination in the next. After months of watching us submit articles related to dogs, the Two By Two cats demanded their presence be known in this issue. 

Two by Two Rescue cat Vanessa
Pictured here is Vanessa, one of the beautiful cats available for adoption through Two by Two Rescue.

The Two by Two cats run the spectrum as far as personality goes. Some of them are shy, some docile and loving, while others spend most of their days daydreaming about the many forms of chaos they could be causing. Many of them have been exposed to dogs and get along with them or at the very least tolerate their antics. Some have come to believe that they are part canine themselves and will wag their tails. Others know full well that they are felines and will use their prowess to their advantage to launch sneak attacks on their unsuspecting opponents. The one thing they all have in common is that they are all waiting anxiously for the day to come when they can make a house a home. Two by Two hasn’t completely gone to the dogs. If you’re looking for a feline friend to add to your family, we surely have the purr-fect match!

Two by Two Rescue cat Bolt
If you’d like to learn more about Bolt (pictured above), click here.

Two by Two is a faith-based, no kill rescue whose mission is to give life to abandoned, abused, stray, and distressed animals. Saving animal lives for more than 20 years, Two by Two operates out of Birmingham, Ala., and has coordinated the rescue and adoption of cats, dogs, horses, and even a few pot-bellied pigs. Two by Two has placed dogs in almost forty states and even a few abroad! To learn more about Two by Two visit www.twobytworescue.com.

-Jeanie Hickman

Adoption Coordinator

 

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Encouraging Word

The dictionary says prayer is a solemn request for help or expression of thanks addressed to God. Prayer is conversation. I’m reminded of the old hymn, “Have a Little Talk with Jesus.” Prayer is communication meaning to exchange information that requires listening and understanding. Prayer is also communion meaning to have fellowship. Prayer incorporates several components.  

1. Prayer is personal. It is an intimate one-on-one interaction.

2. Prayer is a privilege. One has an audience with Almighty God. When a person approaches God in “Jesus’ name” in faith, with sincere requests and seeking God’s will- then we have the assurance that He hears us.

3. Prayer is powerful. God is omnipotent.  Matthew 19:26 says, “…with God all things are possible.”

4. Prayer should be a priority.  It was an important part of Jesus’ life, so it should be an essential part of our life.

5. Prayer should evoke passion. Passion is an intense desire or enthusiasm. Spending time with God should not be mundane or taken for granted.

Prayer is a way that we stay in close contact with God.  As we talk with Him and walk with Him, we strengthen our relationship with Him. As a child of God, we can come to our Heavenly Father at any time with anything; and know that He has time for us and will respond according to His will. Let us maintain a prayerful attitude.  I Thessalonians 5:17 says, “Pray without ceasing,” knowing that our God is only a whisper away.

-Tony Cooper

Director Emeritus of Jimmie Hale Mission

www.jimmiehalemission.com

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Are We There Yet?

Mark your calendars for a wonderful evening of family fun at the annual Chelsea Fest and the Big KaBoom. The free event hosted by the City of Chelsea takes place Saturday June 29, 2024 at Chelsea Corners Way just behind the Dairy Queen.

Chelsea Fest stage
Public parking will be in the field behind the event area as well as behind Winn Dixie. Handicap parking will be provided behind the stage.

If you love America and want to celebrate in style with good food, good music, good friends and an amazing firework display, Chelsea Fest is for you! The Yankee Doodle Dandy Children’s Parade kicks off the event at 6 p.m. Children are invited to decorate their bicycles, tricycles, scooters and wagons and parade down Chelsea Corners Way.

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The big finale of ChelseaFest & the Big Kaboom is fireworks. Click here to watch a video of what to expect at ChelseaFest and the Big Kaboom.

There will be a variety of food trucks in attendance and plenty of tents, tables and chairs near the food truck area. You can also bring blankets and make it a picnic. There will also be a Family Zone area provided by local churches that includes inflatables, face painting, games plus much more. A Vendor Alley with local vendors, churches and businesses will also be set up. Local scout troops will lead the Pledge of Allegiance, Abigayle Hyche will sing the National Anthem and Chaplain Eddie Burchfield with Fresh Fire Ministries will lead in prayer for the city, state and nation. The Monsters of Yacht band will provide all types of live music to be enjoyed by young, old and everyone in between. The fireworks show will begin promptly at 9 p.m. with synchronized music not only played at the main event but also simulcast by radio station KOOL 96.9. Learn more at www.chelseafest.com. †

 

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Money Matters

In all of Christian life, we have two competing stories in front of us that shape the way we view concepts like investing. First, we have God’s story, rooted in the Bible. God’s story helps us move beyond just financial returns—to the how, who, and why behind our investment strategies. Alternatively, the world’s story for investing is often simply the pursuit of maximum risk-adjusted returns. God’s story starts at Creation, in the Garden. In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth (Gen. 1). God created man in his image to work and to keep God’s creation (Gen. 2). After the Fall, stewarding God’s creation brought difficulty (Gen. 3), but our charge has not changed. God still owns everything, and we are to continue as good stewards of his creation (Ps. 24:1). 

Does God Really Care How I Invest My Money? Thankfully, God did not abandon his creation when man fell, but God immediately began his work of redemption. As Christians, we are the first fruits of God’s new creation, and we are to reflect his work of redemption until he ushers in the new heavens and the new earth. God owns it all and cares deeply about how we invest our money (Matt. 25: 14-30; Luke 16: 1-13; 1 Tim. 6: 9-10).  There is no biblical prescription for investing, but there are principles upon which we can build. Investing is a wisdom call and a personal conviction, informed by Scripture. While there are no perfect companies that completely align with Christian values, Biblical discernment guides us to ways we can practice faith-based investing.

  • Negative screening avoids companies with harmful products or practices, such as abortion and pornography. 
  • Engagement strategies allow investors to act through such means as communication with corporate leaders, shareholder resolutions, and proxy voting. 
  • Positive screening means investing in companies that actively promote the common good or redemptive practices—such as innovation in medical research or implementation of corporate chaplaincy, along with serving communities and employees well. 

What Should I Do Next? Pray and seek counsel from others. Then find investment partners that align with your priorities, create compelling value, and drive capital to make a positive impact in this world. Through purposeful strategies, we take steps toward investing our money in God-honoring ways that create meaningful change and lead to greater human flourishing (Matt. 22:36-40). 

Watch the video below to learn more about God’s story for investing.


BMSS Wesson Wealth Solutions offers comprehensive financial planning and investment strategies aligned with your values. We specialize in serving business owners, corporate executives, and families stewarding earnings or inherited wealth. Qualifying portfolios may be eligible for a review at no cost. 

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BMSS Wesson Wealth Solutions

205-982-5555

[email protected]

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Faith @ Work

“The Right Way is the Only Way,” is the motto by which local and woman owned Parrot Structural Services LLC has been doing business by for twenty years. Owner Joan Maas shares that her husband, Mike, has worked in the foundation repair industry throughout his career. “In 2004, we were inspired to open our own foundation repair business. Mike and I started with one employee, and we now have 15 employees, an office and a large shop, and equipment needed to do an excellent job for our customers.” 

Mike and Joan Maas together
Parrot Structural Services founders, Mike and Joan Maas, met in 1975 and have been together ever since. They have two children and three granddaughters.

Behind the Business. The name Parrot Structural Services was inspired by Mike and Joan’s love for parrots. “My husband and I previously rescued parrots from unwanted or abusive homes. My cockatoo Zach is the one we designed our logo after.” Both Mike and Joan are Alabama natives and have been in the Birmingham area since 1986. Starting and sustaining the business hasn’t always been easy, Maas shares. “Starting a new company requires hard work and dedication. Our faith is strong and has kept us going in the right direction.” Maas says their faith in Jesus Christ serves as a “guiding light in their business as well as in their personal lives. “Our testimony of Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior is sound and through His guidance, we have been able to stay strong in our beliefs to always be honest and open with everyone we do business with.” Maas emphasizes that they have also been blessed to have phenomenal team members working with them. 

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The team at Parrot Structural Services are foundation repair specialists ready to help you with any foundation repair. Their service area includes all of Alabama and Mississippi.

Serving Alabama. With a combined 40 years of experience in the foundation repair arena, Parrot Structural Services assists residential, commercial, and industrial customers. Their services include pressure grouting, foundation repair, basement/wall repair, poly foam, soil stabilization, new foundation systems, and more. Maas explains “The first signs of stress on your home or building would be cracks in the exterior and/or interior of your home. Another sign is if your doors or windows do not open and shut easily.” If you have any concerns about your home, the Parrot Structural Services team will review your concerns free of charge and give you a free written estimate. “There is no pressure to sign a contract right away. You can take your time and explore other options or get a second opinion,” explains Maas.

No job is too small or too big for Parrot Structural Services. To learn more about the Calera-based business and how they can help you, visit www.parrotstructural.com or call 205-668-2626. 

-Melissa Armstrong 

Watch the video below to learn more about how Parrot Structural Services can help you.

 

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