Generational Impacts at Big Oak Ranch

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Miracle Moments

Brought to you by: Community Partner Molly Maid of Birmingham, www.mollymaid.com/birmingham 

Community Partner 25 Years“You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” Genesis 50:20

“The greatest ‘thank you’ that I can ever hope to give to Big Oak Ranch in return for what it has given me is to raise a generation that will never need the Ranch for themselves but will have hearts and hands to maybe one day serve it in some capacity for those, like their mama, that finds Home through its gates.” These were the final words that closed Amanda’s “A Life Changed Story” that was shared just last summer with her Big Oak Ranch family. Little did she know that her teenage daughter Gracelyn (or “G” as she is lovingly referred to) was already feeling a pull to do just that.

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Gracelyn is seen her volunteering her time with Big Oak Ranch.

While preparations were in motion for the Big 50th last year, Amanda inquired about G helping out on the volunteer team; “is there anything you might need G’s help for? She mentioned that she thought it would be fun to get to come up early if you guys needed her.” The answer was an easy yes, and G was officially added to the Volunteer list. Amanda and G met the Big Oak Ranch team early in the morning of our 50th Celebration and P21 Rodeo. We were expecting a sleepy teenager. Instead, G was bright-eyed and ready to work. At the Boys’ Ranch, G met our Experience Team and other volunteers, quickly jumping in. When the Big Oak Reunion and Rodeo came around, she paused the busy life of a teenager to take on tasks for the sake of her Big Oak Ranch family.

It’s a special moment when former residents come home to be involved. To have a Big Oak Ranch grandchild come home is another feeling. When those like Gracelyn, come ready to be “boots on the ground,” that surpasses a success story. That’s a generational curse truly broken. A chasm created behind the years of pain and suffering their parents endured and the stark contrast of the life they have been given as their children. That’s God declaring that what the enemy meant for harm was not only going to be turned for good in the life of Amanda, but that He would further use her children as another tool to rewrite the stories of our current children. That’s the point of this all. That’s the mission. That’s what we wake up every morning striving for. †

Miracle Moments

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Best Books

What price is too high when innocence is stolen? In his gripping new release, Innocence Sold, author B. F. Randall shines a powerful light on one of today’s darkest realities—human trafficking. With heart-pounding suspense and a deep well of compassion, Randall weaves a story that not only entertains but also compels readers to act.

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Find a preview of Innocence Sold here.

When a young child goes missing, authorities race against time to uncover the truth. Their investigation uncovers a dangerous world of greed, power, and corruption where lives are bartered, and innocence has a price tag. In the midst of the danger, hope emerges, reminding us that courage and faith can triumph even in the bleakest situations.

Readers and reviewers alike praise Innocence Sold as both thrilling and eye-opening. Brad M. Maty, SMSgt, USAF (Ret.), says “B. F. Randall takes us on a heart-pounding trip into a parent’s worst nightmare, and when Sgt. Bobby Richards gets assigned to the case, he discovers how deep the rabbit hole goes! Get ready for another book that is hard to put down!” Others commend Randall’s ability to handle a difficult subject with honesty, compassion, and urgency.

Whether you’re a fan of suspense fiction, a reader drawn to stories of resilience, or someone who cares deeply about justice, Innocence Sold is a must-read book that releases on October 7, 2025 wherever books are sold. †

 

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Special Feature

Birmingham Christian Family (BCF) celebrated the completion of 25 years of sharing GOOD NEWS at the 6th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo on September 13, 2025 and we are already preparing for the 7th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo on September 12, 2026. Here are just a few of the highlights from the free day of family fun at the Hoover Metropolitan Complex’s Finley Center!

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Click here for details on the 7th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo Saturday September 12, 2026.

The first 200 families that arrived at the Expo received an Expo swag bag packed full of great giveaway items from Expo sponsors.


Child with Chick fil A HerdThe Chick-fil-A Herd of Cows danced with Expo attendees and handed out plush cows. 


Line insideEach attendee received a Birthday Bingo sheet when they arrived. Every booth had a special stamp and if attendees filled out six rows of stamps by visiting each booth, they were entered to receive great prizes like a $100 Walmart gift card courtesy of WAY-FM, cases of Bud’s Best Cookies, and much more.


Kevin Derryberry on stageLive praise and worship music was enjoyed by all thanks to Kevin Derryberry who joined us for the 6th year in a row!


Face PaintingChildren enjoyed getting their faces painted for free, courtesy of Painted Personalities and balloon twisting from nunu’s balloons. 


Hoover BellesThe Hoover Belles joined us for the fun day and welcomed attendees to the Expo.


BCF team photo with balloon arch Seen here are some of the Birmingham Christian Family team members. Special thanks to nunu’s balloons for creating the amazing balloon arch that welcomed Expo attendees! 


Inflatables with LuluInflatables and interactive games from River of Life Church were a huge hit in the Expo’s River of Life Kids’ Zone. 


Child bowlingThank you to Spare Time Entertainment in Trussville for bringing bowling fun to the Expo!


Bluff Park Ice Cream Shoppe Truck Lil Bougie Foodie Truck Southern Coffee and Waffles truckA big thanks to Southern Coffee and Waffles, Bluff Park Ice Cream, and The Lil Bougie Foodie for providing Expo attendees with delicious food and treats.


Two by Two puppyAdorable adoptable dogs and cats with Two by Two Animal Rescue enjoyed lots of attention at the Expo!


Vapor Donation TruckVapor Thrift Store brought their donation truck to the Expo so attendees could donate items to help Vapor Ministries meet needs and reach more people with the hope of the Gospel around the world. You can also donate now at any of their thrift store locations.


Chef Stage Katrina Chef Stage Danna holding sourdoughThe Alfa Farmers Celebrity Chef Stage was a crowd favorite of the day. Thank you to WBRC-TV’s Janice Rogers for welcoming a new chef to the stage every 30 minutes. The line up of local chefs included Annie McDaniel of Miss Annie’s Home + Kitchen; BCF contributors Danna Standridge, author of Happiness is Homemade, Y’all, and Katrina Adams of In the Kitchen with K Marie; Wil Drake of Hero Doughnuts; Chef Rose Ousley; John Finney of Henrietta’s Deli; Debbie Goldsmith of The Lil Bougie Foodie, and Sue Garrett of Mama Sue’s Southern Kitchen.


Mark Harvard MCThank you to our Expo Emcee Mark Harvard who stepped away from his new day job as senior pastor at Morningstar Methodist in Chelsea to announce all the jam packed Expo activities taking place from 10am-2pm.

Want to see more? Watch the video below to hear directly from Expo attendees about their experience.


ALFA Farmers logoSpecial thanks to our Expo sponsors for making the event a reality and sharing great family resources, free entertainment and giveaways to attendees!

Children's of Alabama logoCelebrity Chef Stage Sponsor: Alfa Farmers

Major Sponsors: Children’s of Alabama and Jimmie Hale Mission

Jimmie Hale MissionEvent Sponsors: Alabama Credit Union, Family Radio, LeafFilter Gutter Protection and Vulcan Termite and Pest Control

Thank you to Kristie Allen Photography for capturing the fun day. Visit www.facebook.com/birminghamchristianfamily to find even more photos. Don’t miss out on all the fun! Mark your calendar now for the 7th Annual Celebrate the Family Expo on Saturday September 12, 2026 at the Hoover Met Finley Center. Learn how to participate as a sponsor and/or exhibitor here. Get all the latest details on the event line up here.

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Parenting Points

For many Christian families, Halloween can feel complicated. The holiday is often associated with darkness, fear, and themes that don’t align with our faith. Yet rather than avoiding the day altogether, it can be transformed into an opportunity to shine the light of Christ during it. After all, Jesus calls us to be “the light of the world” (Matthew 5:14), and Halloween presents a natural chance to share that light with our neighbors.

Redeem the Opportunity. Instead of seeing Halloween as something to fear, families can approach it as a strategic night when the neighborhood literally comes to their door. Few other times in the year do we have such an open invitation to meet, greet, and bless those around us. With intentionality, Christian families can use this cultural moment to point others toward God’s love and build relationships with their neighbors.

Remind People of the Power of Hope. One of the easiest ways to share Christ on Halloween is by including hope into the day. Along with candy, consider handing out Scripture cards, bookmarks with Bible verses, or small notes of encouragement reminding kids that God loves them. Everyone who comes to your door is someone who is in need of hope found only in a relationship with Jesus.

Create a Welcoming Atmosphere. Your home can serve as a beacon of warmth and joy in the neighborhood. Think of Halloween as a great time to spread joy and hope to the many neighbors who will be visiting your front door. Your goal is not to withdraw, but to invite and to welcome in a way that reflects Christ’s love.

Pray as You Go. Whether you’re handing out candy, walking the neighborhood, or hosting a gathering, pray for each person you encounter. Ask God to use these small seeds of kindness to open doors for future conversations and relationships. You would be amazed to see how God begins to orchestrate opportunities when we begin to pray for the people God has placed in our lives.

Halloween doesn’t have to be a holiday Christians shy away from—it can be a night to reflect God’s love in powerful ways and connect relationally with those God has placed around you. October 31st becomes a strategic opportunity to proclaim the truth: that in Jesus, the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness cannot overcome it.

Ben Birdsong-Dr. Ben Birdsong 

Director of European Expansion for First Priority Global Ministries

www.benbirdsong.com

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Healthy Living

Dr. Sandra Bruno, MS, DMin, LMFT, AADC felt drawn to help others from an early age. “I’ve always felt the inclination to support people who are lonely or outsiders,” Bruno shares, adding that she believes this desire to encourage and comfort others is part of the skill set God gave her. This calling led her to become a marriage and family therapist.

Still Waters logoPower of Counseling. For over 27 years, Bruno has seen counseling help people transform their lives. “I’ve witnessed firsthand the positive impact of therapy on individuals and couples. I’ve seen people find relief from anxiety and depression. I’ve observed people gain control over addictive behaviors.” Bruno is passionate about guiding her clients through the bio-psycho-social-spiritual model of therapy. “This model is a holistic framework that integrates four aspects- biological, psychological, social, and spiritual factors- to strengthen and help an individual understand their health and wellbeing,” Bruno explains. 

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Dr. Sandra Bruno, MS, DMin, LMFT, AADC works with a variety of issues including anxiety, grief, depression, addictions, self-esteem and more. To schedule an appointment with her, visit www.mystillwaters.org.
  • Biological. Bruno shares that for this component, she concentrates on the physical. “I encourage my clients to eat healthy foods, drink water, get their sleep, and exercise.” She adds that there are multiple studies that show when someone takes care of their physical body, it impacts mental health and emotions.
  • Psychological. This component pertains to mental health and emotions. Bruno asks questions like: “What are we telling ourselves? Are we encouraging ourselves and being positive? Are we able to control anxious thoughts?”
  • Social. Bruno explains that this component centers around healthy relationships. “These relationships can be with family or friends, church community, as well as regular community.” Bruno encourages her clients to surround themselves with positive people.
  • Spiritual. The final component of this model focuses on beliefs and practices. “This is our relationship with the Lord. This needs to be our number one, in my opinion,” Bruno says.

This approach to counseling “is based on the premise that a client’s overall wellbeing and stability are achieved when all four of those four components are utilized to nurture and take us towards a more healthy us,” Bruno explains. She equips her clients with coping mechanisms for each of the components. 

Interested in learning more? Still Waters Counseling offers therapy in-person in Mtn. Brook and Madison, Alabama, and therapy via telehealth anywhere in Alabama. Bruno offers in-person counseling exclusively in Madison but via telehealth throughout the state. To learn more, visit www.mystillwaters.org or call 205-825-1423.

-Melissa Armstrong

Click below to hear more from Dr. Sandra Bruno about her approach to counseling and more.

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Healthy Living

As autumn paints the world in hues of gold and crimson, something sacred unfolds . . . trees release their leaves, not because they’re dying, but because they’re preparing for renewal. There’s a purpose in the letting go. Beneath the shedding, roots grow deeper, and rest makes way for restoration. What seems like loss is often the first step toward producing something new.

Seasons treesMany of us resist seasons of change. We hold tightly to what’s familiar, even when it hurts—old wounds, unhealthy patterns, guilt we can’t shake, or anxiety we’ve come to expect. But healing often begins in the surrender. When we allow ourselves to acknowledge the pain, to grieve what was, and to let go of what we cannot fix, we make space for something better.

At Fortify Christian Counseling, we walk with people through their shedding seasons. Whether you’re processing trauma, navigating a difficult relationship, recovering from addiction, or simply trying to find yourself again, we offer Scripturally sound, clinically competent care that meets you where you are and walks with you toward lasting hope.

If you’ve been trying to power through your pain alone, maybe this fall is your invitation to pause. To root down. To trust that what feels like falling apart might actually be falling into place.

You don’t have to be fully ready. You just have to be willing. Like the trees, your letting go might be the beginning of something beautiful. Ready to take the first step? Contact us to schedule a confidential session with one of our licensed professionals. In-person and virtual appointments available. (205) 974-2124. www.fortifychristiancounseling.com      


Creative Therapy for Children 4 to 12, and Teens

Girl with leavesAt Fortify, we know that big change often starts in small hearts. We offer compassionate, creative, and clinically sound care for children ages 4 to 12 who are dealing with anxiety, trauma, grief, family transitions, behavioral challenges, and more. Using therapies tailored to each child’s needs, we help them process emotions and grow in confidence.

For teens, we provide a safe space to explore identity, navigate peer pressure, manage stress and depression, and build healthy coping skills. 

Whether your child is facing bullying, divorce, academic struggles, or emotional overwhelm, our counselors walk with them—at their pace—toward healing and resilience. One step at a time.

Fortify logoFORTIFY Christian Counseling 

205-974-2124 

www.fortifychristiancounseling.com

  • In person in Birmingham
  • Telehealth Everywhere Else!
  • For Men, Women, and Children of all Ages
  • ADHD Testing and Diagnosis
  • Licensed Counselors accept BCBS-AL 

www.FortifyChristianCounseling.com

October

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Mission Makers 

“Last year, United Way Meals on Wheels delivered more than 230,000 meals in the community. And that was all thanks to the generosity of nearly 800 volunteers,” explains Candace O’Neil, VP of Community Engagement, United Way of Central Alabama. O’Neil emphasizes how volunteers do much more than deliver hot balanced meals to homebound senior adults and disabled persons in Jefferson County.

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There are a number of ways that you can volunteer with  Meals on Wheels from prepping  to packing to delivering meals. Learn more at www.mowjeffco.org.

Meals on Wheels delivery volunteers provide much needed socialization to those who may not otherwise have that on a day-to-day basis. “The volunteers, they start to learn the seniors, and they build relationships. They both start to look out for each other,” says O’Neil, adding, “We know that with the volunteers checking in on our seniors, it offers independence. It allows seniors to age longer in their home safely, and it just promotes their well-being overall.”

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A homebound senior age 60 or older in Jefferson County can be referred to United Way Meals on Wheels. To learn more and request service call 1-800-Age-Line.

Since establishing Meals on Wheels in Jefferson County almost ten years ago, the program has significantly grown. “Today, we have about 11 staff who help us operate the program, but it’s also thanks to nearly 800 volunteers as well who help us.” The program makes it easy for volunteers to set the parameters on their commitment from choosing a certain day or days of the month, volunteering individually or as a group, and choosing a task such as prepping and packing meals to delivering to a certain neighborhood. “We’ll also train them so that way they know exactly what to do,” says O’Neil. “So, it’s a great experience, an easy experience, and it takes as little as an hour of your time to do a good deed like this in the community.” Easy includes having a number of meal pick-up sites near delivery routes. “We partner with senior centers and churches to have drop sites so that way the meals are much closer to residents and volunteers can pick up there and deliver to the homebound seniors on an easier basis,” explains O’Neil.

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Meals on Wheels provides group volunteer opportunities for businesses and churches with flexible participation commitments.

If you know someone in Jefferson County you believe could benefit from Meals on Wheels, simply call Meals on Wheels at 1-800-Age-Line. “From there a specialist will complete a screening assessment,” explains O’Neil. “And then depending on that assessment, they will either refer to Meals on Wheels or if for some reason they don’t qualify, they’ll refer them to other resources that are available to them in our community to help.”

You can make a difference. The Meals on Wheels program offers you three different ways to help them continue this important service to the homebound of our community. “We like to say that people can give[donate], they can volunteer, and they can advocate for us.” Learn more by visiting www.mowjeffco.org. †

Watch the video below to learn more about the Meals on Wheels program and how you can get involved.

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The Great Outdoors

presented by: Mark’s Outdoors

Deer hunting can be an awesome time spent between father and son. Seen here is Mark Whitlock, Jr. with his Dad Mark Whitlock, founder of Mark’s Outdoors. Circa. 1999.
Deer hunting can be an awesome time spent between father and son. Seen here is Mark Whitlock, Jr. with his Dad Mark Whitlock, founder of Mark’s Outdoors. Circa. 1999.

With deer season opening on October 15, now is the time to make sure you are prepared to hunt. Making yourself a checklist will help insure that you have everything you need to make your opening day a successful one.

  • Go ahead and pull out all your camo and see if you have all the pieces that you need. Early season is usually still pretty warm. Make sure that you have plenty of layering options so you are ready for anything Mother Nature throws at you.
  • Thoroughly check all of your safety gear including harnesses and hunters orange pieces.
  • If you hunt from a shooting house, go ahead and make sure that nothing has turned it into a summer home during the off season. Insects are usually the main offenders so pack a can of wasp spray just in case. If you plan on using a climbing or ladder stand, inspect them to make sure that everything is still tight and in good working order.
  • Last but not least, check your equipment. Inspect bows and rifles for anything that looks out of the ordinary or could become a safety issue later in the season. Here at Mark’s Outdoors, one of our experienced gun smiths or bow techs can look them over for you.

As always, Mark’s is your one stop shop for all things hunting. Swing by and let us help you make sure that you are ready to bag that trophy buck. September 26-27, 2025, we will be hosting our preseason Fall Hunting Sale with lots of sales items. Look forward to seeing you!

–Mark’s Outdoors 

1400-B Montgomery Highway, Vestavia 35216

205-822-2010, www.marksoutdoors.com


Don’t Miss Dove Days!

Be sure to join us for our annual Dove Days on September 4-6, 2025, at Mark’s. We will have lots of great savings and fun as a way to thank all of our loyal customers. It is because of you that we get to do what we love every day and carry on Mark Whitlock’s legacy of helping people prepare for quality time in God’s great outdoors. We couldn’t do it without you!

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The Family Pet

“Stand up in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God. I am the Lord.” Leviticus 19:32

This verse reflects the sacred calling of stewardship that God gave humanity to nurture, protect, and honor the life He made. Yet in a world that celebrates the fast and flashy, the young and the new, it’s easy to overlook the beauty and wisdom that comes with age. This is true not only for people, but also pets who’ve spent faithful years walking beside someone, only to find themselves alone. Like Ranger, whose journey led him to a shelter with an uncertain future. It’s hard to imagine how a dog so gentle could end up without a home. Sadly, it happens more often than we’d like to believe. With a sugar-frosted face and a heart full of grace, this 12-year-old Labrador mix was given a second chance by Two by Two Rescue. 

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Ranger is a 12-year-old Labrador mix who still has his boyish charm and is ready to love his forever family! To learn more about adopting this sweet boy, click here.

You might think, “An older dog? Isn’t that a lot to take on?” Wait- don’t count him out! Ranger isn’t ready to cash in on senior discounts just yet and still carries his boyish charm. One flash of his teddy bear eyes that say “hey, can we snuggle now?” and you’ll understand. He’s a model guest in his foster home being house trained, polite with other dogs and children, calm, content and quietly devoted. Adopting Ranger means embracing slow walks over fast thrills, peaceful naps over chaos, and receiving the honor of sharing in his most faithful years. If your place has “Ranger’s Retirement Home” written all over it, this delightful gentleman would love to meet you. Honestly, he’s so worth it!

Two by Two is a faith based, no kill rescue whose mission is to give life to abandoned, abused, stray, and distressed animals. Saving animal lives for more than 20 years, Two by Two operates out of Birmingham, Ala., and has coordinated the rescue and adoption of cats, dogs, horses, and even a few pot-bellied pigs. Two by Two has placed dogs in almost forty states and even a few abroad! Come see us at the Celebrate the Family Expo on September 13, 2025. To learn more about Two by Two visit www.twobytworescue.com. †

 

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