CASA is Changing Lives One Child at a Time

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Special Feature

While Lisa Ledbetter was a foster parent for 11 years, she didn’t know she would end up adopting four abused and neglected children and would also perform life-changing work for other such children and families by becoming a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Volunteer.

When Ledbetter’s seven-year-old foster son, Kamden was involved in the court process, Judge Jim Kramer assigned a CASA Volunteer to his case. The CASA Volunteer was Larry Beaury, known by Kamden as “Mr. Larry.” Beaury observed Kamden and his biological family and supervised visitation with them. He wrote court reports to the judge regarding Kamden’s well-being and his interactions with his family and other such important investigative tasks. According to Ledbetter, Beaury was meticulous in his work, was a positive role model for Kamden and truly cared for him. “He helped change his life,” said Ledbetter.

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Lisa and Kamden Ledbetter with “Mr. Larry” who became a volunteer for CASA of Shelby County after reading about the organization in Birmingham Christian Family.

“Larry made such a difference in our case, not just for Kamden, but for me and the birth mother as well. He went above and beyond to do what he could to help him and to ensure that he had a safe and permanent home,” said Ledbetter. Through the process, that safe and permanent home became Ledbetter’s, thanks to her adoption of Kamden. Ledbetter says that Kamden was once very sensitive and uncertain of his future. Because of CASA, “Mr. Larry’s” work and through adoption, he has found a sense of peace and permanency.”

Beaury, who became a CASA Volunteer upon his retirement said humbly, “I am an advocate for children, and I want to do whatever I can for the benefit of the children we serve.” He did admit though that he was blown away when he once asked Kamden during a supervised visitation who he loved and he said, I love my mother, Lisa (his foster mother) and I love you.” That was all the proof he needed to know he had done a good job. Inspired by her and Kamden’s positive experience and “Mr. Larry’s” work, Ledbetter applied to become a CASA Volunteer herself. She went through their 5-week training course and is now a CASA Volunteer. Since that time, she has been assigned a case with an abused and neglected teenage boy. She reports that he has opened up to her and they have made a good connection. She feels she has earned his trust and that is important in the life of a child that has been abused or neglected.

Ledbetter says she has found CASA to be extremely rewarding. “It fulfills that deep need in me to serve children and families and it has given me the outlet to do that. It has also given me a sense of community and pride -a sense of accomplishment. It feels good to know I’ve really helped make a difference in my little part of the world,” said Ledbetter. Thanks to CASA, Ledbetter is now trained and equipped to help other abused and neglected children in the way “Mr. Larry” helped Kamden. While Kamden’s court case is over and has a happy ending, “’Mr. Larry’ still calls and checks on Kamden and his face lights up when I tell him he has,” said Ledbetter. Judge Jim Kramer recently said, “I have seen cases closed and end on a happy note because of the work of CASA Volunteers. They are an extra set of eyes and ears for me, and I would like to have one in every case I have.”

Sadly, there are not enough CASA Volunteers to serve the abused and neglected children in Shelby County. To find out how you can become a CASA Volunteer and make a difference in the life of a child like Kamden, please visit www.casaofshelbycounty.org. You do not have to have a degree or be “qualified” to serve. CASA provides all the training you will need to serve abused and neglected children in our community. CASA is funded in part by the Children’s Trust Fund and a Shelby County Community Grant. They also raise money through fundraising events such as the one they held on Sunday, October 24, 2021 in Columbiana when cooking celebrity Brenda Gannt hosted a “Barbecue with Brenda” to benefit their program.

-Beth Chapman

Exec. Dir., CASA of Shelby County, www.casaofshelbycounty.org

Chapman shares that Larry Beaury, “Mr. Larry,” first learned about CASA while reading Birmingham Christian Family(BCF) magazine!

 

reaching the heart of your child

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(Based on the content of Ginger’s best-selling book, Don’t Make Me Count to Three!)
Do you find yourself threatening, repeating your instructions, or raising your voice in an attempt to get your children to obey? Are you discouraged because it seems you just can’t reach the heart of your child? Through personal experience and the practical application of Scripture, Ginger encourages and equips moms to reach past the outward behavior of their children and dive deeply into the issues of the heart. Ginger’s candid approach will help moms move beyond the frustrations of not knowing how to handle issues of disobedience and into a confident and well-balanced approach to raising their children.

Ginger Hubbard, bestselling author of Don’t Make Me Count to Three, Wise Words for Moms, and I Can’t Believe You Just Said That, speaks at women’s events, parenting conferences and home school conventions across the country, and co-hosts the Parenting with Ginger Hubbard Podcast. For more information visit www.GingerHubbard.com

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Miracle Moments

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“I will speak of your goodness, all day long I will speak of your salvation.”  Psalm 71:1

I have been publicly preaching and teaching the Word for almost twenty years. Speaking the Gospel is my profession, my calling, my daily life. But one day I woke up with no voice. I had been intubated. I was on a ventilator. I had undergone a tracheostomy. I was connected to a life support machine known as ECMO.  While the world moved on, I was still in a hospital bed for over six weeks fighting for my life. I was mostly sedated and unconscious through most of my battle with Covid pneumonia. 

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After battling COVID for more than five months, including 48 days in the ICU, Rev. Michael Ahlemeyer returned to his congregation and preached on August 8, 2021.

When I finally “came to” and was semi-alert, the first thing I realized was that my voice was gone. I couldn’t really talk. I also couldn’t move a muscle. Literally. I could not roll over in bed and I could barely lift up my arms. I’ve had to learn how to do everything all over again. Stand up. Sit down. Brush my teeth. Use a spoon. Write. Type. Climb the stairs. There was a hole in my heart. 

But what bothered me the most was that there was a hole in my throat, from the tracheostomy. Daily I was reminded of this new reality when it was cleaned and bandaged – no matter how hard I tried to forget. Even when I finally went home my superhuman wife Jaki continued to care for the wound. Talk about  being married for “better or worse.”

In time, no voice has turned into a whisper, and with more time the whisper has turned into a hoarse voice. As of this writing, I am still more or less at that point. The medical folks say in time my voice will hopefully come back. But in those dark moments of the night, literally and figuratively, when I’m all alone, I wonder if it will ever truly come back. 

So while I was still in bed, this familiar verse always came to mind: “Be still and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10) I have had a lot of time to be still and think during my hospitalization and convalescence. I couldn’t do much else and I’m still limited. Being left with your thoughts can be a tortuous time, I can assure you of this fact! But it can also be a blessing, I can equally assure you of this fact. In the end, I want to reassure you that it was more of a blessing than a curse. I also want to remind you of what you already know from the Word. The goodness of God even in bad times! The goodness of God even in ICU.

If anyone ever told you while you were in ICU to “rest up,” they have never been in ICU. Every hour it seems someone comes into the room poking and prodding you. Taking medicines, taking x-rays, taking vitals. So, during the night I was often awake left to wrestle with God like Jacob. I never got angry with God. I never asked, “Why me?” But I wrestled with God over many things. One was my voice. Or lack thereof. 

But back to the time left alone with God to think. One question was my voice in general, but more specifically what made a pastor’s voice unique? What makes the pastor’s voice different from other voices?  Here is the answer. “The only thing a pastor has to say is what God has to say.” This is a quote from Dr. Steven Lawson, Teaching Fellow for Ligonier Ministries. 

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Pastor Ahlemeyer with wife Jaki and their three children. Read more of his Pastoral Letters from the ICU on his Facebook page, Mike Ahlemeyer.

Point? The Word of God is different in a unique way. It’s the reason why the pastor preaches in a pulpit, wears an alb, and dresses in a clerical collar. Signifying that this Word proclaimed is no mere word of man, but He speaks the Word of God.

The bottom line between human language and a divine message? You and I can only describe things with our words. God’s word actually makes things. It has power. I can tell you not to worry. But in the end, that doesn’t mean much. When Jesus says, “Cast all your cares on me for I care for you,” He actually makes that happen. Recall the Creation story! When God spoke His Word  He did not just describe light but created light. When God spoke He didn’t just report about the water below and the sky above, He placed the fish and stars in their ordained place and space. When God spoke it wasn’t just a chronicle of the earth, He filled the world with a creation fearfully and wonderfully made – including you. God’s Word does what it says. It transforms us and makes us saints from sinners. It renews, restores, and reconciles. It resurrects! On the last day, Jesus will stand over your grave and speak a word of Life. You and all those in Christ will be made new again! This is what makes the Word of God so special. It creates! Life from death. It makes certain defeat, undeniable triumph. It makes our lowly bodies to be like His resurrected body. In my toughest hours of uncertainty this was my hope. God can make all things new! His living Word I have preached with a loud voice for almost two decades, but only when I was silenced in ICU did I really begin to understand this promise of how the Word actually works and what makes this Word so special. Speaking on our own we can only describe, when God speaks He can create beauty. 

I found it ironic one day when I was in the hospital, that while I looked at myself in the mirror, that the hole from the trach – now a scar – is in the exact same place where the white tab of the clerical collar rests on my neck.  It was never my frail voice. It is never your voice. It was and is and will always be the voice of the Living God who created and makes new again. This is what we proclaim as witnesses. New beginnings. Either new beginnings for a gracious season here in this life for a few more fleeting moments, or the eternal beginning for life everlasting. 

When you look in the mirror at yourself at home and look at the pastor preaching the Word in your church home – remember something special is happening – God is alive and active and making you a new creation! To God be the glory!

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Senior Pastor, Lutheran Church of  Vestavia Hills, www.vestavialutheran.org

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Every Family Deserves Hope

I have lived in Alabama for nearly fifty years. Growing up in this state comes with certain expectations and things to anticipate. We are required to choose an allegiance when it comes to college football. Pollen season is always going to be severe and our four weather seasons often just blend together. Being from Alabama also means that we are accustomed to storms. Our state, our families, and many of our memories are tattered due to extreme storms experienced in our lifetime. From hurricanes to tornados, we seem to get the best and worst of stormy weather so much so that we are constantly mindful and prepared for the storms.

The same can be said of life. Regardless of your geographic location, you can and should expect storms in life. John 16:33 tells us that “in this world we will have troubles.” Our troubles often lead to stress and stress can lead to so much more. A local pastor explained it to me this way. When I am in the storm and stressed…

  1. My resistance to temptation is lower
  2. My emotions are all over the board
  3. My productivity suffers, and my life can even seem to lose its meaning. 
  4. I feel distant in my relationship with God.  

After recent storms in our state, I watched the rebuilding efforts of neighborhoods and communities as they came together to put things back into order. Again, the same is true for our lives as we rebuild and replenish from the storms of life. 

Ways to Replenish Our Soul 

  1. Quietness. Psalm 23 reminds us, “He makes me lie down in green pastures… He restores my soul.” 
  2.  Enjoyment when we stand on Proverbs 17:22 in that “a cheerful heart is good medicine.”
  3. With People. Hebrews 10:25 encourages us, “Let us not give up meeting together… but let us encourage one another.”

When the storms come- and they will come- remember the final part of John 16:33, “but take heart, for I have overcome the world.”

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