Parenting Points
In February, as love takes center stage with Valentine’s Day, let’s embark on a different kind of celebration—a celebration of kindness. Imagine a February where every day is an opportunity for your family to spread love through acts of kindness, both big and small. This month, let’s challenge ourselves and our families to make kindness a daily habit, reflecting the love that Jesus has shown us.
The Kindness Challenge is simple and powerful. Each day, commit as a family to performing an act of kindness for someone else. It could be a family member, a friend, a neighbor, or even a stranger. The goal is to spread the love of Jesus to others intentionally. Here are 10 acts of kindness ideas.
- Write Encouraging Notes: Take the time to write notes of encouragement and leave them where others can find them.
- Bake and Share Treats: Whip up some homemade treats and share them with your neighbors or coworkers.
- Offer Help: Extend a helping hand to someone in need. You could help with groceries, chores, or any other task.
- Compliment Freely: Be intentional to compliment those around you. A sincere compliment can brighten someone’s day.
- Donate to Charity: Clean your closets and donate items to a local charity. It’s a great way to declutter while helping those in need.
- Random Acts of Kindness: Perform random acts of kindness, like paying for someone’s coffee or leaving small surprises for family members.
- Visit the Elderly: Spend time with elderly neighbors or residents at a local nursing home. Your company can be a source of joy.
- Express Gratitude: Write thank-you notes to people who have positively impacted your life.
- Volunteer as a Family: Dedicate a day to volunteer as a family. It’s a wonderful way to bond while giving back to the community.
- Listen with Intent: Practice active listening. Give your full attention when someone is speaking and respond with kindness and empathy.
The Kindness Challenge cultivates a spirit of love and compassion in your family. As Christians, our faith teaches us the importance of love and kindness. Jesus, the embodiment of love, calls us to love our neighbors as ourselves (Matthew 22:39). By making kindness a daily practice, we emulate Christ’s teachings and contribute to creating a more compassionate and loving community. The ripple effect of such intentional acts of kindness extends beyond February, leaving a lasting impact on those around us.
-Dr. Ben Birdsong
Missions Minister at Christ Church Birmingham
Writer and Speaker
