Adulting in College

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Heading off to college is a major step toward becoming an adult, but it is not all dorm linens and electronics. Adulting work occurs before heading to campus so let’s talk about the ‘what ifs” and help set up the right legal documents. Here are four things to discuss with your college student.

1. Healthcare and Durable Powers of Attorney. Discuss how a comprehensive durable power of attorney lets you be a backup manager for your college student’s financial affairs. If the college is in a different state, check the age of majority. Your college kid may be considered an adult at college and a minor in Alabama, so a healthcare power of attorney is advisable. Alabama’s age of majority is 19, but Tennessee, Georgia, Florida, and Louisiana’s age of majority is 18. Mississippi’s age is 21. If you are a blended family, keep in mind who has legal custody and the legal right to make healthcare decisions.

2. Will. If your young adult has substantial assets, you may want to help set up a will, particularly if you do not want those assets added back into your estate. Alabama’s laws for those with no wills (dying intestate) may not align with you and your young adult’s wishes in case of a tragedy. And of course, copies of these legal documents should be with your student’s belongings and in your own files.

3. Contact information. Make sure your young adult has all your contact information in his or her wallet and phone, perhaps under ICE (In Case of Emergency).  Encourage them to add emergency contact info to Alabama’s database associated with driver’s licenses. You do not have to redo the driver’s license. Go to alabamainteractive.org/dl_renewal. Also don’t forget to exchange contact info with all roommates’ parents. 

4. Financial Affairs. Discuss cash flow to prevent calls home about running out of funds. Your young adult needs to know upfront when funds will be transferred.  Having a parent as a bank account signee through a power of attorney may be a good idea based on your young adult’s financial acumen. This talk is a great chance to reiterate that expenses should always be less than income. 

If your young adult balks at this advance planning, just explain the adage of carrying an umbrella so that it won’t rain. Introduce your young adult to a qualified estate planning attorney long before packing the car for college and before your college student gets absolutely giddy about heading off to college: Adulting 101.

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Partner at Bradford & Holliman 

Estate Planning, Trusts & Special Needs

205-663-0281

www.bradfordholliman.com

No representation is made that the quality of the legal service to be performed is greater than the quality of service performed by other lawyers.

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Community Partner Logo 20 Years 150x150As your family enjoys July 4th, give some appreciative thought to the 377,210 veterans and their families who live around you here in Alabama. Alabama has 1,713 military personnel who have served in post-9/11 wars which ranks 7th highest per capita in the nation.

The Veterans Administration and several non-profit and volunteer organizations work to take care of these special individuals who have served our country. However, VA-accredited Alabama elder law attorneys can offer a more comprehensive understanding of Alabama’s specific nuances in both estate planning and asset protection as well as VA benefits than out-of-state resources.

These attorneys develop strategies for veterans considering their veteran benefits and any civilian work benefits both while the veterans are alive (Disability Benefits) and for their families after they are gone (Aid and Attendance). VA-accredited Alabama elder law attorneys can also assess veteran benefits in the context of long-term care, Alabama Medicaid, asset protection, guardianships, conservatorships, wills, and various kinds of trusts that are beyond the scope of VA benefits.

A good understanding of both pension and service-connected claims and Department of Defense benefits is needed to make the best choices at the right times for a veteran. Sometimes, a non-service-connected pension is a better choice. Without knowledgeable advice of CRSC (Combat-Related Special Compensation) and CRDC (Concurrent Retirement and Disability) payments, a veteran can lose out on benefits. Many veterans are eligible for Tricare for Life or CHAMPVA health insurance that provides important free health coverage.

VA Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (VA DIC) is best known for the benefits for veterans’ surviving spouses and children, but it may also apply to a parent based on the VA’s special definition of a parent which includes loco parentis. It is easy to miss these options without VA-accredited legal advice.

As your family enjoys hot dogs and fireworks this month, give a salute to the veterans around you who have defended our country in so many ways for so many years. And if you are a veteran or a veteran’s family, thank you for your service and talk to a VA-accredited elder law attorney about your VA benefit options soon.

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Partner at Bradford & Holliman
Estate Planning, Trusts & Special Needs
205-663-0281
www.bradfordholliman.com
No representation is made that the quality of the legal service to be performed is greater than the quality of service performed by other lawyers.

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Most couples specialize tasks- one may manage investments while the other pays day-to-day bills or one mows the grass and the other does all the laundry. Maybe only one bites the bullet and handles taxes. That’s fine as long as both are well-briefed on each other’s roles. The biggest problem is when a partner becomes incapacitated through injury, illness, or death, and the spouse has no clue how to handle matters. Here are four ways to avoid that crisis.

1. Keep a current net worth statement that contains all accounts, account numbers, passwords, account owners, as well as the funds. Talk through it regularly such as twice a year.  

2. Both members of a couple need to know all autopay bills with links, user IDs, passwords, and payment methods. Many spouses are frustrated to find out that important bills such as utilities, medical, car, and house insurances are not paid when their spouses are not “on the job” due to illness or even death. Due to financial scams and identity theft, banks and investment companies are extremely cautious about changes in accounts, so make sure in advance that both of you are set up with decision-making authority and access even if only one of you regularly handles it.

3. You may know your spouse’s favorite foods, color, and TV show, but could you rattle off all of your spouse’s medications, dosages, and why the medicine is needed? Can you quickly put your hands on copies of healthcare power of attorney and healthcare directives? Get it in writing and update them regularly so that a surprise run to the emergency room is less complicated.

4. Some couples swap duties for a month every year, pretending that their spouse is going on an extended trip. Other couples formalize a “show and tell” for each other on a regular schedule. Others discuss short-term financial needs and long-term goals during tax season. Be creative for what works for you and your spouse. The important part is to keep each other in the know. You just may appreciate what your spouse does even more, too.

In the corporate world, this process might be called a contingency plan or a management succession plan, but in a family, it’s just good teamwork. Take care of your spouse and enjoy your marriage!

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Partner at Bradford & Holliman 

Estate Planning, Trusts & Special Needs

205-663-0281

www.bradfordholliman.com

No representation is made that the quality of the legal service to be performed is greater than the quality of service performed by other lawyers.

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You need a current estate plan- not one from three decades ago. Don’t be an ostrich refusing to face the fact that you might get really sick and die. Remember the acronym MEGO which means “my eyes glaze over?” We all have certain triggers for a strong case of MEGO – taxes, health insurance, Medicare, personal finances, estate and funeral plans, yard work, and housework. Procrastination may feel good today, but it can come back to bite you, particularly late in life.  

Get your affairs organized and have your personal team ready to take over at a moment’s notice.  If dementia or a catastrophic accident or illness occurs, it’s too late… and that’s while you’re still alive. You should have durable power(s) of attorney set up to handle everything from healthcare to financial decisions for long-term care for you. If you are incapacitated, who is going to know and handle the details? 

Select a responsible and competent executor (younger is better) and give them easy access to deeds, investment accounts, bank account details, life insurance policies, pre-need burial plans, and funeral preferences, as well as your will. Verify that your designated beneficiaries align with how your will splits your assets among your heirs. If your executor charges your estate for their work which can last for years, you can save funds for your heirs by making this process easier… but only with advance planning.

Your personal affairs team needs to know each other. Your executor needs to know your estate planning attorney, your financial advisor, your accountant, your life insurance agent, and your employer even if you are retired. If you are depending on your spouse, don’t fall into that comfortable specialization of duties based on each partner’s interests. When one of you becomes seriously ill or dies, saying, “well, he always handled that” could leave you in a true bind and could cost you the security you both expected to have for the rest of your life.  

Yes, keeping your affairs organized and ready to handle crises takes a lot of work, but keep it current while both of you are in good health and can pass along the specialized info that will be needed. So, don’t be an ostrich, get busy!

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Partner at Bradford & Holliman 

Estate Planning, Trusts & Special Needs

205-663-0281

www.bradfordholliman.com

No representation is made that the quality of the legal service to be performed is greater than the quality of service performed by other lawyers.

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If your mom or grandmom is of a certain vintage, they likely do not need sweets to derail their diets or knickknacks to complicate their dusting for Mother’s Day next month. So, what is a devoted child or grandchild to do?

Ask questions about her life before you or your mother were born or about her parents and grandparents. The stories are just as important as the DNA you have inherited.

Ask if she wants to have the last word about her funeral or burial plans. One grandmother who lived to be over 100 updated her draft obituary every 5 years or so for about 20 years because she knew she could draft it best… and could edit out what she did not want to be shared! One grandmother had a granddaughter take notes on pastors, hymns, Bible passages, and showed her the fancy Eastern Star evening gown she wanted to wear. That grandmother also said she expected a good turnout!

If your mom is facing downsizing, encourage her to pass along precious memorabilia now, so that she can receive the appreciation now. Do not wait to put it in a will. Help her with spring cleaning such as sifting through what paperwork to keep for taxes and posterity and what to shred. By running the shredder, you can protect her from accidentally exposing important personal data that fraudsters and scammers could use. If her husband was a veteran, make sure she saves all military records in case she needs to apply for veteran benefits. Talk to her about simplifying financial affairs into fewer accounts. Her executor will bless you.

Know who is part of her personal affairs team- accountant, financial advisers, doctors, and estate planning attorney- and make sure they have the paperwork they need to support her. One adult daughter and her elderly mother strengthened their relationship by organizing papers for taxes together each early spring. Not only did it educate the daughter about her mother’s affairs, but interesting family stories came up. Your presence and attention are the best gifts you can give moms and grandmothers.

Melanie Bradford Holliman-Melanie B. Holliman, JD 

Partner at Bradford & Holliman 

Estate Planning, Trusts & Special Needs

205-663-0281

www.bradfordholliman.com

No representation is made that the quality of the legal service to be performed is greater than the quality of service performed by other lawyers.

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