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When most people think of conflict in the church, they think of something to avoid. But what if conflict—handled well—is actually essential for a healthy, thriving congregation?
In While Every Congregation Needs a Little Conflict… What Happened to Yours?, church leadership expert George W. Bullard Jr. offers a refreshing and much-needed perspective: conflict isn’t the enemy. In fact, a lack of healthy conflict may leave churches unprepared for the real challenges they will inevitably face.
Drawing from more than fifty years of experience working with more than one thousand congregations across a wide range of denominations, Bullard brings both wisdom and practical insight to one of the most pressing issues facing today’s churches. His work introduces the concept of “seven intensities of conflict,” helping leaders and congregations better understand what they’re experiencing and how to respond appropriately.
Rather than reacting out of fear or frustration, Bullard encourages churches to become proactive—learning when to engage, when to step back, and how to navigate difficult situations with clarity and grace. He also emphasizes the importance of being trauma-informed, recognizing that personal struggles and past experiences often shape how individuals respond during conflict.
This message is especially timely as churches today face increasing cultural pressures and internal tensions. For pastors, ministry leaders, and even church members, this book offers a practical road map for turning moments of disagreement into opportunities for growth, unity, and deeper faith. Healthy conflict, when approached with wisdom and intentionality, can strengthen relationships, clarify mission, and ultimately help a congregation flourish. In a time when many churches are struggling to navigate division, Bullard’s message is clear: don’t fear conflict—learn from it.
While Every Congregation Needs a Little Conflict… releases on May 12, 2026. Visit shop.ironstreammedia.com to learn more. †
