2023 Scholarship Finalist: Riley Simpson

Riley Simpson

High School is challenging for most students. It is an environment where awkwardness and social anxiety loom, and temptation is found at every turn. I have experienced those same challenges, but thankfully I have a friend in Jesus Christ, and He helps me overcome these burdens.

Riley Simpson Crossroads Christian Academy
Riley Simpson attends Crossroads Christian Academy in Warrior, Ala.

I have never been great at making friends. Growing up with autism made it difficult to talk to other kids my age. Every day at school I felt alone, despite my efforts to interact. I prayed for years that God would bless me with friends. After much prayer and consideration, my parents decided to homeschool my brother and me beginning my eighth-grade year. Homeschooling not only allowed me to study in a Christian-based environment, but it also opened the door to the friends I had been praying for. Although it took many years of praying, God answered and helped strengthen my faith. As a result, my anxiety decreased and my confidence grew. I eventually gathered the courage to pursue interests I would never have tried, such as performing in our co-op’s high school drama class or volunteering in service projects. Despite my struggles with social interaction, God has been faithful to answer my prayers. He has led me to a great group of friends, with whom I have shared many wonderful memories over the years.

I have always tried to take schooling seriously, but unfortunately, I sometimes get distracted. Electronics are my weakness, and the temptation to pick up my video games or cell phone during school hours has landed me in hot water several times. My parents have punished me on numerous occasions to convey their point- “work before play.” My initial response is usually anger, but eventually, my heart becomes convicted, and I realize I am in the wrong. I am so thankful for God’s conviction and for loving parents who are willing to correct me and stress the importance of striving to be my best. I can never reach my full potential if I squander my time sitting in front of a screen. I have faced many challenges throughout high school, and I will undoubtedly face many more in the future. The Lord has brought me through enough situations to strengthen my faith and reinforce the fact that anything is possible through Him. I pray that my story can help others put their trust in Jesus Christ.

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Chase Collins
Chase Collins Oak Mountain High School
Chase Collins attends Oak Mountain High School in Birmingham, Ala.

Everything we know came to be by God. Whenever I feel overwhelmed by material worries, I think of dust, the physical origin of our universe. From dust God created his kingdom, and to it all things will return. What this does is put into perspective for me how insignificant everything on this Earth really is. Our world is promoting the departure of God from our lives in order to spearhead these insignificant priorities, which is something I cannot wrap my head around, as he is the very basis of all that exists. Putting God first has been a practice of mine ever since I became serious with my faith as a budding teenager, though “practice” would be the keyword there. I would love to say I prioritize the Lord flawlessly in all facets of my life, but that is so very untrue. Sin is something no (ordinarily conceived) person has ever been able to overcome, and I am definitely no exception. However, I am constantly striving to eliminate sin from my life, impossible as it may be. I lay in bed at night and go through my day with God, trying to pinpoint the exact moments where I chose to give into temptation instead of following his call. I then repent and ask him to align my will with his, in an effort to completely eradicate any decision that would lead me away from heaven. These Godly decisions are ones I have been prioritizing every opportunity I get, and my church has provided a multitude of outlets that allow me to put God at the forefront of my life. I altar serve, attend youth group, went all through Sunday School, and have logged hundreds upon hundreds of volunteer hours, all through God and the church. I have done yards; made meals; run church yard sales; assisted the elderly; worked VBS; cleaned up after tornadoes; worked church events; fed the homeless at soup kitchens, shelters, and by physically walking through the streets under bridges with friars; and participated in countless other activities through which God has used me to reach others. The decisions in my life have been a product of God’s love for me and my desire to reciprocate that love to him and others. Every decision I make is with God taken into account, as he is the very center of not only my life, but life itself.

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Alex Brockmann

The moment sears itself in my memory. I’ll never forget standing at the peak of Tooth of Time in New Mexico with my Boy Scout Troop. It was a cold, windy evening in July, but as I looked out over the breathtaking landscape – craggy cliffs, winding rivers, and the vast plains of the Midwest on my right and the Rockies on my left – I felt a deep connection to His creation. As I remembered the verse from 1 Peter 4:10 that had always stayed with me. At that moment, I felt a deep sense of purpose – to serve others with my talents in God’s grace and name.

Alex Brockmann Hoover High School
Alex Brockmann attends Hoover High School in Hoover, Ala.

One verse, but one that has always spoken to me. At that moment, I felt a sense of clarity overtake me. I realized in that exact moment my purpose in life: one of service. A Scout is reverent. I felt the overwhelming urge to pray to Him and give thanks for his blessing. I took a deep breath and looked to the quickly darkening sky, admiring the vastness and mystery of the heavens above. After my moment of epiphany, I was determined to use my talents to help those who have been left behind by modern society. Through my Eagle Project, I became closer to God and His plan. With my complete renovation of a playground that had given me countless memories as a young child, I found myself reconnecting with my childhood in a way I had never done before. Through Scouting, I’ve volunteered 100+ hours towards meaningful causes in my local community, helping enrich my soul and connection to God. My Catholic upbringing encouraged me to become a mentor and role model for the next generation of Eagle Scouts: to teach them compassion, cheerfulness, and crucially, tolerance.

I’ve always enjoyed learning about financial systems and economics, making wealth management the ideal fit for me, my career goals, and my faith. God has blessed me with countless opportunities to serve others, making a Jesuit collegiate education focused on service and faith an integral part of my future plans. Jesuit colleges have a long history of promoting social justice and serving marginalized communities, just as my International Baccalaureate education at Hoover High School had. This commitment to social responsibility will help me develop the skills and knowledge necessary to make a positive impact on society throughout my career.

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Angela Giffin

I was born in a tiny village outside of San Jose, Costa Rica. My mother was very poor and addicted to drugs. I never knew my father or eight of my siblings. My mother was unable to properly care for one of my younger brothers and me. At the age of five, my mother was turned into the authorities for child neglect. My brother and I were moved to a government run orphanage. I remained in the orphanage until the age of eleven. At age eleven, I was given the amazing opportunity to be adopted by a family from the United States of America. The Lord plucked me out of Latin America and brought me to Birmingham, Alabama to become a Giffin.

Angela Giffin Homewood High School
Angela Giffin attends Homewood High School in Homewood, Ala.

Moving to the United States eight years ago taught me resilience as I had to leave everything that I knew and loved. My culture, my language, my food, my friends, the only family that I had ever known. As a young girl in Costa Rica, I was introduced to Jesus. However, my adoption experience and move to the United States required me to become dependent upon Him and showed me that God had an incredible purpose for my life. I gave my heart to Jesus and was baptized in 2015.

All decisions that I have made throughout high school and as I prepare for college have been viewed through the lens of my Christian faith and God’s purpose for my future. As I have chosen friendships as well as my high school courses, I have sought His wisdom through prayer and Bible study. My faith helped me conquer learning a second language as well as other academic obstacles along the way. My Christian friends and mentors have encouraged me to remain pure and abstain from drugs and alcohol. I have allowed His spirit to guide me in choosing summer camps, school activities and clubs, and volunteer work throughout high school. I have received such joy from serving the Lord through my church and within my community. I have been called by God to attend the University of Alabama at Birmingham (UAB) to become a travel nurse. I believe this career path will lead me to the mission field. I know that God has brought me this far and will not forsake me at this point or at any point in my journey. I will continue to trust Him in all things.

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Publisher’s Note

159 area high school seniors recently shared with us how their Christian faith has impacted their decision making during their high school career. Each student shared these details with us in an essay they submitted as a part of the 5th annual Birmingham Christian Family(BCF) Scholarship program sponsored by the American Village, The Center, and Vulcan Termite and Pest Control.

WOW! What great stories these students have to tell about God at work in their lives!

With the help of an independent panelist of judges, five students will be chosen as finalists for three college scholarships this year. Our essay winner will receive a $2000 scholarship and our two runner ups will each receive a $500 scholarship. Scholarships may be used at any college or university. All five finalists will receive a copy of Richard E. Simmons, III’s book, College with No Regrets, Wisdom for the Journey.

On Monday April 3 at 7 p.m. we will announce our finalists on Facebook and Instagram. You have the opportunity to read these students great stories April 4 through 14 and help us select our scholarship winners! Read their outstanding essays at www.BirminghamChristian.com/Scholarship then cast your vote for your favorite student essay.

Vote by simply Liking and Sharing your favorite student essay post on our Facebook page. Cast an additional vote on Instagram by simply Liking and Commenting on your favorite student essay post.

Voting ends Friday April 14, 2023, and winners will be announced on Tuesday April 18 at 7 p.m. on Facebook and Instagram. Winners will also be recognized in our May issue and at the Birmingham Baron’s Baseball Faith and Family Night on May 12, 2023!

Join BCF in encouraging our youth to live out their faith wherever they are, and may we set an example for them to follow. Special thanks to our sponsors American Village, The Center, and Vulcan Termite & Pest Control, Inc

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Bob Sykes BBQ Blues Festival

Music Notes

Barbecue and blues are a great combination so start planning for the 12th Annual Bob Sykes BBQ & Blues Festival set for Saturday, April 29, 2023. The event will combine the best of blues music and legendary Bob Sykes Bar B Q from 12-8 p.m. with gates opening at 11 a.m. Be sure to bring your chair or blanket and set-up your spot for the day to enjoy talented blues musicians.

Bob Sykes BBQ Blues Festival performance
Enjoy live music and delicious food at the 12th Annual Bob Sykes BBQ & Blues Festival on April 29, 2023 from 12-8 p.m. at DeBardeleben Park, 1623 2nd Ave N, Bessemer, AL 35020.

Since 2010, the event has been a local favorite for festival goers. Second generation owner and pit master of Bob Sykes Bar B Q Van Sykes says, “Each year the festival grows and we couldn’t do it without our sponsors and the support of the community.” The award-winning blues line-up includes Dynasty Isha & Sonic Energy, Hermon Hitson & the Music Maker Revue, Big Al & the Heavyweights, Geminii Dragon, Stacy Mitchhart, Jose Ramirez, and Kat Riggings. 

Bob Sykes book
From the Pit to the Plate can be purchased here or at the Bob Sykes Bar B Q restaurant.

Bob Sykes Bar B Q Restaurant has been a staple in Birmingham, Alabama for decades and is celebrating its 66th anniversary! Bob Sykes Bar B Q is proud to announce the release of a new book called From the Pit to the Plate. The book is a story told by the Bob Sykes family of how Bob Sykes Bar Q Restaurant has kept a family owned local tradition since 1957. Three generations of the Sykes family have proudly served authentic southern barbecue that literally goes from the pit to the plate. The late Bob and Maxine Sykes founded the restaurant and today their son Van runs the family business with the help of his nephew, Jason Jewell. “My ultimate goal,” Sykes writes in his book, “is for Bob Sykes Bar-B-Q to be remembered as one of those ‘great’ businesses. I can’t think of any better way to honor my parents than for the business they worked so hard to establish will remain an important part of the business landscape of Bessemer. If it is, then I feel that I will have contributed in some way to their legacy.” 

Since 2010, the Bob Sykes BBQ & Blues Festival has provided funding for local charities including Red Mountain Grace, Children’s of Alabama, Bessemer Education Enhancement Foundation, and more. General admission tickets for the festival can be purchased at www.bobsykesblues.com or by visiting the Bob Sykes Bar B Q restaurant in Bessemer. †

 

J. Wigs store

Faith @ Work

Hair loss can affect women of all ages. Jodi Johnston of J. Wigs in Helena, Ala. seeks to help anyone experiencing hair loss find a wig that fits their personality and helps them have confidence. 

Inspiration. Before opening J. Wigs in 2018, Johnston was a hairstylist for over 30 years. “As a hairstylist, I saw firsthand the impact hair loss can have on a woman’s self-confidence,” she says, adding, “For women, hair is a part of their identity, and losing it can be a traumatic experience. By opening J. Wigs, I had the opportunity to make a difference.” Johnston began researching the different wig brands and representatives.

J. Wigs store
J. Wigs in Helena recently helped news anchor Pam Huff with wigs following chemotherapy. Huff gives huge credit to the staff for giving her excellent service and support.

The Process. Johnston says the journey of opening her wig store was challenging yet rewarding. “Finding the right representatives for the brands I would carry was one of the biggest challenges I faced,” she shares. She credits her family and friends with helping make J. Wigs a reality. “I have learned with hard work, family, friends, faith, passion, and dedication, anything is possible.” Her faith in God was a foundational piece in opening J. Wigs. “Faith has helped me stay grounded in the work I do, and it gave me the courage to take a risk and pursue my dreams,” Johnston adds. 

Jodi Johnston
J. Wigs owner Jodi Johnston is a native of Birmingham and raised her three children, Haley, Hamilton, and Beau in Helena.

The Mission. Johnston believes that for many people, walking into a wig shop can be intimidating. “Most people coming in don’t know anything about wigs,” she says. Her mission is “to educate, guide, and support customers on their journey.” She is passionate about helping  women find the perfect wig for them. “I have ladies come in, in tears because they don’t want to leave their house and think there is no hope. When we find the perfect wig or topper, their faces light up with joy,” Johnston shares. What can customers expect walking into J. Wigs? “You can expect one on one help, understanding, kindness, and compassion,” she says. “I will educate you on all the different wig caps, styles, and hair types, and how to care for them.” To learn more about J. Wigs, visit www.jwigout.org or call 205-624-2423. 

-Melissa Armstrong

 

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Special Feature

Do thoughts of your spouse bring discontentment or delight? If your attitude ledger is off, you can correct it today. 

The Saga. Once again, he left his plate on the table with crumbs scattered everywhere. You mumble as you shake your head. “I don’t understand why he keeps doing this! He must not love me, if he did, he wouldn’t…. Ugh!” Like clockwork, she interrupts just as your team is about to score. “How selfish can she be? She knows I watch sports for relaxation. She does this to aggravate me.”

There are ways to deal with the little things before they become big things. It starts with a decision to control your attitude. Pastor Charles W. Swindoll said, “We have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. Our attitude is everything.” When couples are proactive and pursue mutual marital enjoyment, their relationship demeanor will be enriched. In the article “Ten Secrets to a Successful Marriage,” Mitch Temple writes, “Changing behavior is important, but so is changing attitudes. Bad attitudes often drive bad feelings and actions.” Minor annoyances can cause conflict and get under one’s skin if ignored. Before you know it, you may find yourself disengaged from your spouse. Disappointments happen. They are inescapable. Some are expressed, and others remain unspoken. 

How To Adjust Your Mindset. A sign in our home reads, “Dear God, I want to take a moment, not to ask for anything, but simply to say thank you for all I have.” This prayer keeps my mind on the blessings of my spouse, family, and others.

How do you adjust your mindset? Here are five suggestions:

  1. Thank God for your spouse.
  2. Refuse to complain.
  3. Consider your spouse’s needs and desires.
  4. Keep a record of the good.
  5. Be quick to apologize when you have wronged your mate.

Philippians 2:3-5 NASB says, “Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus.” If your marriage is out of balance, follow the example of Christ. A humble, service-minded attitude will overlook minor irritations. The result can be a marriage reconciled and filled with delight, not discontentment.

-Vanessa Jones

Vice President & Co-founder of Biblical Marriage Institute

www.BiblicalMarriageInstitute.org

Special Feature

On Thursday, May 4, 2023, you’re invited to join the American Village for their Annual National Day of Prayer Breakfast with special guest Phyllis Hoffman DePiano. 

Founder and chairman of the board of Birmingham based Hoffman Media, DePiano is well known in the publishing industry. She describes herself as an entrepreneur at heart. When she was a busy mom of one-year-old twin boys, she decided to start her business. “We’ve seen so many wonderful ways God has worked in blessing our business,” DePiano says. Today Hoffman Media publishes several magazines including Southern Lady, Tea Time, Cooking with Paula Deen, Taste of the South, Southern Home, Bake From Scratch, Cottage Journal, and more. “It’s been our spirit from the beginning that we want God to be glorified through all that we do,” she adds. 

Phyllis Hoffman DePiano Photo
One of the many accomplishments of Phyllis Hoffman DePiano’s Hoffman Media is the publication of social media sensation Brenda Gantt’s two cookbooks.

You can hear DePiano share her story of faith and prayer at the American Village’s National Day of Prayer Breakfast beginning at 8 a.m. DePiano plans to share with attendees how prayer has been a foundational pillar throughout each season of her life. “Prayer has always been such a huge part of my life and my faith,” DePiano says. With a rare form of anemia, she has had to have many transfusions and treatments over the years. “Prayer and faith are what you have to get you through things like that,” she shares. Raised in the church from a young age, faith, prayer, and worship have always been foundational in her life. Today, she and her husband attend Dawson Memorial Baptist Church. 

DePiano has admired the work of the American Village since its founding in 1999. In fact, DePiano and American Village founder Tom Walker grew up together. “I knew that in some way, when he was young, that he would be in the government in some capacity,” she shares, adding, “When he started the American Village, I thought it was perfect because he’s big on education.”  Today, the American Village continues to welcome and teach guests about America’s founding and history in an exceptionally creative way. 

Tickets for the National Day of Prayer Breakfast are $30 per person. In addition to a delicious hot breakfast, guests will enjoy a tea tasting from Star-Spangled Tea- a Georgia-based, Veteran-owned company offering regional speciality tea made from naturally-sourced ingredients native to the United States. Pre-reservations are required. To make reservations, email [email protected] or call 205-665-3535 x 1045. Learn more at www.americanvillage.org.

-Melissa Armstrong

 

Sons of Serendip photo

Music Notes

Anticipation is building for Samford Legacy League’s 14th Annual Scholarship Celebration on April 20, 2023, which will feature a heartfelt performance by Billboard-charting quartet and America’s Got Talent finalists Sons of Serendip. The unique classical crossover group took America by storm after auditioning for America’s Got Talent on a whim and has since enjoyed a dynamic touring career. A harpist, a cellist, a pianist, and a lead vocalist comprise the gifted group whose sound was described by The New York Times as “alive with detail but silky beyond reason.” With stirring arrangements, stellar musicianship, fresh interpretations, and inspiring stories, they strive to “make listeners’ lives a little better—even if just for a moment.”

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Hear the dynamic group Sons of Serendip live on April 20, 2023 at Samford Legacy League’s Annual Scholarship Celebration. Online reservations are available at samford.edu/legacyleague.

The musicians came together through a series of serendipitous events while they were graduate students at Boston University. They have produced four albums spanning the depth and richness of classical and modern musical styles to suit any music lover’s palate. Fan favorites include their hit “Somewhere Only We Know,” a passionate ballad packed with emotion, and “A Thousand Years,” a modern song reinvented as a classical cohesion of pure vocals and beautiful instrumentation. 

Culminating the Legacy League’s program year, the annual Scholarship Celebration will include a sponsor reception, celebratory dinner, and an intimate, world class concert. Proceeds from the April 20, 2023 event will support the new Legacy League Moffett & Sanders School of Nursing Centennial Scholarship to benefit students who have faced challenges including homelessness, inner-city violence, abandonment, and the death or disability of a parent. The event will be held at Covenant Presbyterian Church.  Reservations are required and cost $125 per person ($55 tax deductible). Find more information and make online reservations at samford.edu/legacyleague.

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