Parenting Points
Life is filled with transitions—moving to a new home, changing schools, entering adolescence—each bringing a mix of excitement and uncertainty. For some families, May marks the beginning of a transition season. Navigating these transitions can be challenging for children and students, but with the support of family and trusting God by faith, they can embrace change with courage and resilience.
Recognize the Challenges of Transition. Transitions can evoke emotions in children and students, from excitement and anticipation to anxiety and fear. They may feel overwhelmed by the unknown or mourn the loss of familiarity. Acknowledging these feelings and providing a safe space for children to express themselves is important.
Turn to God for Strength During the Transition. Our faith in God can be a source of strength and comfort. By grounding themselves in their faith and trusting in God’s plan, children and students can find the courage to face new challenges confidently. Encourage children to turn to prayer, scripture, and spiritual practices to help them navigate change with grace and resilience.
Find Stability Amidst the Transition. During times of transition, children and students crave stability and consistency. Establish routines and traditions that provide security and continuity amidst change. Incorporate faith practices into daily life, such as family prayer, scripture reading, and attending worship services, to reinforce a sense of connection to God and each other.
Model Resilience. Parents serve as role models, demonstrating how to navigate transitions. Share stories of your experiences with change and how God helped you through difficult times. By modeling a positive attitude and relying on God’s guidance, you can inspire confidence and resilience in your children.
Seek Support During Transition. Navigating transitions is not something children should do alone. Encourage them to seek support from family members, friends, and trusted adults, including pastors or youth leaders. Surrounding themselves with a supportive community can provide additional encouragement and guidance as they navigate new experiences.
Transitions are a natural part of life, offering opportunities for growth, learning, and self-discovery. Helping children and students navigate change with reliance on God and support from others empowers them to embrace new experiences with confidence and resilience. Together, as we follow God, we can navigate life’s transitions with grace and hope for the future.
-Dr. Ben Birdsong
Missions Minister at Christ Church Birmingham
Writer and Speaker
